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How does one become more desirable?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

#deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep is good.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Deep is good."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence.

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Not sure but multi millionaires seem to have found a way

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Dip yourself from head to foot in chocolate and roll in some sprinkles.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop trying to be desirable.

Desperation is obvious.

Not you, OP, you’re naturally desirable I’m talking in general

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

First one must desire oneself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is

Genuinely being desired for the person you are - rather than a photo on a site

Anyone can be desired for the latter - Steve , you are desired because you’re cute , YES, but also because you’re damn lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be desirable to one - who really knows you, not a legion of people who desire many many

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Depends who you want to be desirable to. But probably by having or being or doing something they want (or you convince them they want) and that most others don't. A usp if you like.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

Confidence but without arrogance but desirability is in the eye of the beholder like beauty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i remember going for a job as a life guard and they thu a brick i had to save in this dark depth pool it hurt my ears but i got it the word deep reminds me of this as for your question

Its a combination of self belief and confidence with a dash of comedy

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Not sure but multi millionaires seem to have found a way"

"so Debbie, what was that it that first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?"

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Hi op.

I don’t think there’s one definitive answer - but I think part of it is definitely ‘knowing your worth’.

I’ve only cottoned on to this very recently.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Tits and pussy

Blokes need a profile that looks like it could be read out by David Attenborough or Stephen Fry, to entertain the nation…to maybe garner the occasional interest.

Women- don’t even need a picture or text and they’ll be knee deep in enquiring cock shots.

So get yourself off to the nearest gender reassignment clinic and you’ll be beating off the offers with a shitty stick!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

abstinence and a monastic life style

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Money helps

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I would say being comfortable in your own skin and confidence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi op.

I don’t think there’s one definitive answer - but I think part of it is definitely ‘knowing your worth’.

I’ve only cottoned on to this very recently. "

Hello

Makes me think of a headie one bar.

‘it’s true when these [redacted] say know your worth’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One should strive to look and act desirable if one is to be desirable.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Dip yourself from head to foot in chocolate and roll in some sprinkles.

A"

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"i remember going for a job as a life guard and they thu a brick i had to save in this dark depth pool it hurt my ears but i got it the word deep reminds me of this as for your question

Its a combination of self belief and confidence with a dash of comedy "

Lifeguards are very desirable to someone who can't swim and find themselves in deep water.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting Q isn’t it?

Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I already know I’m a peng ting. Just have deep thoughts

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Interesting Q isn’t it?

Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?

"

Power whether it be by dint of wealth, birth, fame or politics. Charisma. Some indefinable sexual allure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting Q isn’t it?

Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?

Power whether it be by dint of wealth, birth, fame or politics. Charisma. Some indefinable sexual allure. "

I now understand why A$AP Rocky is so beautiful.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Interesting Q isn’t it?

Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?

Power whether it be by dint of wealth, birth, fame or politics. Charisma. Some indefinable sexual allure.

I now understand why A$AP Rocky is so beautiful. "

Ok now I've googled . He doesn't fit my idea of desirable or beautiful

The most physically beautiful man I have ever seen was in Asda by Brighton Marina. Everyone, literally every damn one, turned their head.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Desirable in what way OP? A lustful desirability? Someone you want to have children with? Someone who will give you stability?

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By *punkyMcFuckKnuckleMan
over a year ago

Glasvegas

Cock pump, good fitness and lifestyle, plastic surgery, money.

Not particularly in that order mind.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Interesting Q isn’t it?

Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?

"

And are they the same for those who are blind or deaf or have other sensory challenges?

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Desirable in what way OP? A lustful desirability? Someone you want to have children with? Someone who will give you stability?"

Nah, none of that, just to rack up the highest body count feasible.

All about getting as much hot ass as possible...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi op.

I don’t think there’s one definitive answer - but I think part of it is definitely ‘knowing your worth’.

I’ve only cottoned on to this very recently. "

I completely agree

This, and being comfortable in your own skin, although that can be tough sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i remember going for a job as a life guard and they thu a brick i had to save in this dark depth pool it hurt my ears but i got it the word deep reminds me of this as for your question

Its a combination of self belief and confidence with a dash of comedy

Lifeguards are very desirable to someone who can't swim and find themselves in deep water. "
and dont forget bricks im sure it was grateful too

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you."
but what do we say to the god of death?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Carry around a cake. Everyone likes cake!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting Q isn’t it?

Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?

Power whether it be by dint of wealth, birth, fame or politics. Charisma. Some indefinable sexual allure.

I now understand why A$AP Rocky is so beautiful.

Ok now I've googled . He doesn't fit my idea of desirable or beautiful

The most physically beautiful man I have ever seen was in Asda by Brighton Marina. Everyone, literally every damn one, turned their head. "

Doubt he was more attractive than A$AP but fair play

Amongst people I interact with ASAP, Anthony Joshua, Damson Idris, Dave, Jack Harlow and Ruben Loftus Cheek are like everyone’s type. I’m trying to be like them in life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you."

Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.

Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them. "

Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your finger, slowly and seductively press those buttons..

On your phone and order me chinese food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take your finger, slowly and seductively press those buttons..

On your phone and order me chinese food."

I text your girlfriend late at night

But my names saved as Chinese takeaway- Krept

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.

Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.

Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng "

That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.

Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.

Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng

That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet? "

This isn’t about me this time tbf. Just wondering what makes people that are like objectively super desirable, desirable? You know? Is it just looks? Is it something else? Can you become it or are you just it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.

Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.

Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng

That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet? "

But to answer this, I want to be desired by everyone. Or almost everyone. One less thing to be anxious about

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.but what do we say to the god of death?"

Not today love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Become less available!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.

Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.

Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng

That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet?

This isn’t about me this time tbf. Just wondering what makes people that are like objectively super desirable, desirable? You know? Is it just looks? Is it something else? Can you become it or are you just it? "

General desirability I don't think there's an equation to it. Johnny Depp isn't stereotypical desirable but is. Wrestlers who have amazing physiques aren't always that desirable. I think as humans we like having something in common with others so will pick out the celebrity that is most similar to who we find attractive. So like in boy bands you'll have those who liked mark Owen Vs Ribbie Williams.

I can think someone is hot but I can't desire them without knowing them. So maybe I'm not beat qualified to answer this question

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.

Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.

Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng

That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet?

But to answer this, I want to be desired by everyone. Or almost everyone. One less thing to be anxious about "

Then you are destined to fail.

You can be liked, tolerated or accepted by many (and hated or disliked by many more), but you will only ever be desired by a few.

The other thing to realise is that you have to find happiness in yourself. If you believe that by being desired by everyone it will bring you happiness in your life you are in for a rude awakening.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.

Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.

Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng

That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet?

But to answer this, I want to be desired by everyone. Or almost everyone. One less thing to be anxious about

Then you are destined to fail.

You can be liked, tolerated or accepted by many (and hated or disliked by many more), but you will only ever be desired by a few.

The other thing to realise is that you have to find happiness in yourself. If you believe that by being desired by everyone it will bring you happiness in your life you are in for a rude awakening."

I hear you. I was kidding. I am happy with how desirable I am. It’s working for me so far in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To become more desirable you have to become more attractive and you can do this by raising your vibration. #simples

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

By seeking compatibility and not settling for anything less Steve

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To become more desirable you have to become more attractive and you can do this by raising your vibration. #simples"

This is genuinely the most sense anyone on this thread has made.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By seeking compatibility and not settling for anything less Steve "

You encouraging me to know my worth?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Lynx Africa.

Mr TMN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To become more desirable you have to become more attractive and you can do this by raising your vibration. #simples

This is genuinely the most sense anyone on this thread has made. "

Thank you

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"#deep. "

Bookmarking for answers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lynx Africa.

Mr TMN"

Will it get me into one of your spontaneous gangbangs you advertise on your status

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage

P"

Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand outside McDonald’s saying “I have vouchers”

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage

P

Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor "

You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P

Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P

P

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage

P"

This is my go to. Not because it makes me any less or more desirable, I just like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage

P

Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor

You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P

Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P

P"

Or… I could borrow C’s bottle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stand outside McDonald’s saying “I have vouchers”"

Oooooooooo. Actually

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage

P

Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor

You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P

Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P

P

Or… I could borrow C’s bottle "

You get one spray lmao. I couldn't believe it the other day, he wasn't wearing it in London but someone walked past wearing it and I almost gave myself whiplash turning towards it. Never realised how much I rely on it to identify him in a crowd

P

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Lynx Africa.

Mr TMN

Will it get me into one of your spontaneous gangbangs you advertise on your status "

Yes. Spray at the door and entry will be granted.

Mr TMN

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Does one need to?

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Does one need to?"

In Steve's case I don't think it's necessary to be honest

P

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Does one need to?

In Steve's case I don't think it's necessary to be honest

P"

Nor mine

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Be content within yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage

P

Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor

You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P

Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P

P

Or… I could borrow C’s bottle

You get one spray lmao. I couldn't believe it the other day, he wasn't wearing it in London but someone walked past wearing it and I almost gave myself whiplash turning towards it. Never realised how much I rely on it to identify him in a crowd

P"

That’s hilarious sounds like that famous meme of the man turning to look at the woman and his gf is disgusted love that meme

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lynx Africa.

Mr TMN

Will it get me into one of your spontaneous gangbangs you advertise on your status

Yes. Spray at the door and entry will be granted.

Mr TMN "

Oh nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does one need to?

In Steve's case I don't think it's necessary to be honest

P"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be content within yourself "

#wise

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage

P

Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor

You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P

Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P

P

Or… I could borrow C’s bottle

You get one spray lmao. I couldn't believe it the other day, he wasn't wearing it in London but someone walked past wearing it and I almost gave myself whiplash turning towards it. Never realised how much I rely on it to identify him in a crowd

P

That’s hilarious sounds like that famous meme of the man turning to look at the woman and his gf is disgusted love that meme "

Thankfully C just laughed at me, I didn't even see the other guy but my nose was hooked. But yeah you don't really need to worry about it regardless.

P

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey


"Not sure but multi millionaires seem to have found a way

"so Debbie, what was that it that first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?" "

What would multi millionaire, world famous, Mick Hucknall be if he wasnt the lead singer of Simply Red?.

Single, for starters

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Alcohol - for everyone else.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

You my lovely take time for yourself, love ad nurture yourself until you heal and then you’ll remember the confidence you have in yourself and it will shore brightly for others to be a beacon for.

You will get there SG

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By *oodoodMan
over a year ago

Suffolk / Essex borders

Win the lottery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does one need to?"

Not need no for anyone no. But would I like to be desired by a girl who has my full attention? Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"#deep. "

To whom?

Do you wish to be desirable to many?

Or to someone in particular?

Just be you. At least you’ll then be genuine and not some sort of parody of someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Alcohol - for everyone else. "

What would you like to drink?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You my lovely take time for yourself, love ad nurture yourself until you heal and then you’ll remember the confidence you have in yourself and it will shore brightly for others to be a beacon for.

You will get there SG "

You’re so special

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Win the lottery"

I’m in it to win it

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