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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I was wondering if anyone knew any kinky sexual games that could be played for example alone, or on a car journey or out and about, or perhaps throughout your day in preparation for the scores/results at home?

I am thinking like a simple set of rules that can act as the imagination for when your not as spontaneous as you would like to be sexy in that moment… for example it could be as simple as a number randomiser between 1-10 and each number is either a task, a challenge, a forfeit or something - a bit like a sexy snakes and ladders type concept!

It could be a set of parameters that you collect throughout the day, maybe at work and tally up every time someone asks how you are, or pays you a compliment, or hits on you, or maybe you message the top 5 fabbers nearby you and then you have to try and get them to say a particular phrase, and the total number of people you get to do it in an hour is the points you get. There might be a points prize scale or choice… maybe you could both write a list of 3 things/people/sexual preference for how its going to happen that night, and then you write 3 as consolation prizes for your partner to endure…

The kinkier the better, the more challenging and nerve-inducing the better, like an epic game of truth or dare, or spin the bottle or something!

Can I please ask for your ideas on:

*how to structure it simply without making it dull?

**what to use as the rules?

***what to use as the challenges?

**** what would be on your list of rewards for yourself?

***** what would you put on your partners punishment list?

^any games you already know of similar to this?

It could be played by just one member of the couple etc. as I know some have higher sex drive than their partners and need a way to easily maintain the sexual cravings in between sessions, without necessarily involving their partner’s input…clearly i need help with this concept…haha

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

That’s too much to read this early in the morning !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s too much to read this early in the morning !!! "
have to agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your right, apologies it didn’t look that much in the text box until i posted it!

Here is the sparknotes version of what I want ideas for/with:

*So I was wondering if anyone knew any kinky sexual games that could be played for example alone, or on a car journey or out and about, or perhaps throughout your day in preparation for the scores/results at home?

Like a simple set of rules that can act as the imagination for when your not as spontaneous as you would like to be sexy in that moment…

for example it could be as simple as a number randomiser between 1-10 and each number is either a task, a challenge, a forfeit or something - a bit like a sexy snakes and ladders type concept!*

Better?

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By *oungman1875Man
over a year ago

Blackburn


"Your right, apologies it didn’t look that much in the text box until i posted it!

Here is the sparknotes version of what I want ideas for/with:

*So I was wondering if anyone knew any kinky sexual games that could be played for example alone, or on a car journey or out and about, or perhaps throughout your day in preparation for the scores/results at home?

Like a simple set of rules that can act as the imagination for when your not as spontaneous as you would like to be sexy in that moment…

for example it could be as simple as a number randomiser between 1-10 and each number is either a task, a challenge, a forfeit or something - a bit like a sexy snakes and ladders type concept!*

Better? "

Could play strip poker, or any card game I could explain it to you if you message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right, apologies it didn’t look that much in the text box until i posted it!

Here is the sparknotes version of what I want ideas for/with:

*So I was wondering if anyone knew any kinky sexual games that could be played for example alone, or on a car journey or out and about, or perhaps throughout your day in preparation for the scores/results at home?

Like a simple set of rules that can act as the imagination for when your not as spontaneous as you would like to be sexy in that moment…

for example it could be as simple as a number randomiser between 1-10 and each number is either a task, a challenge, a forfeit or something - a bit like a sexy snakes and ladders type concept!*

Better? "

I’m kinky and generally bright . But I’m still confused.

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London


"Your right, apologies it didn’t look that much in the text box until i posted it!

Here is the sparknotes version of what I want ideas for/with:

*So I was wondering if anyone knew any kinky sexual games that could be played for example alone, or on a car journey or out and about, or perhaps throughout your day in preparation for the scores/results at home?

Like a simple set of rules that can act as the imagination for when your not as spontaneous as you would like to be sexy in that moment…

for example it could be as simple as a number randomiser between 1-10 and each number is either a task, a challenge, a forfeit or something - a bit like a sexy snakes and ladders type concept!*

Better? "

Yes mucho

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By *xplore_With_MeMan
over a year ago

Lincs

Perhaps if on a car journey…. You could play a game with other car reg plates you see, so you take the last 3 letters of the reg plate in front of you and try to make a kinky / risqué three letter word combo with those 3 letters.

Winner of the round gets 1 point. First to 5 gets to determine a reward / forfeit for themselves or the other game player.

Random 5.15am thought

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London


"Your right, apologies it didn’t look that much in the text box until i posted it!

Here is the sparknotes version of what I want ideas for/with:

*So I was wondering if anyone knew any kinky sexual games that could be played for example alone, or on a car journey or out and about, or perhaps throughout your day in preparation for the scores/results at home?

Like a simple set of rules that can act as the imagination for when your not as spontaneous as you would like to be sexy in that moment…

for example it could be as simple as a number randomiser between 1-10 and each number is either a task, a challenge, a forfeit or something - a bit like a sexy snakes and ladders type concept!*

Better?

I’m kinky and generally bright . But I’m still confused."

More coffee needed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it all sounds a bit of a chore? I tend to just stick to naughty messages/pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest it all sounds a bit of a chore? I tend to just stick to naughty messages/pics "

Simplicity is always best .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right, apologies it didn’t look that much in the text box until i posted it!

Here is the sparknotes version of what I want ideas for/with:

*So I was wondering if anyone knew any kinky sexual games that could be played for example alone, or on a car journey or out and about, or perhaps throughout your day in preparation for the scores/results at home?

Like a simple set of rules that can act as the imagination for when your not as spontaneous as you would like to be sexy in that moment…

for example it could be as simple as a number randomiser between 1-10 and each number is either a task, a challenge, a forfeit or something - a bit like a sexy snakes and ladders type concept!*

Better? "
perfect, apologies didn't mean to be rude x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your right, apologies it didn’t look that much in the text box until i posted it!

Here is the sparknotes version of what I want ideas for/with:

*So I was wondering if anyone knew any kinky sexual games that could be played for example alone, or on a car journey or out and about, or perhaps throughout your day in preparation for the scores/results at home?

Like a simple set of rules that can act as the imagination for when your not as spontaneous as you would like to be sexy in that moment…

for example it could be as simple as a number randomiser between 1-10 and each number is either a task, a challenge, a forfeit or something - a bit like a sexy snakes and ladders type concept!*

Better?

Could play strip poker, or any card game I could explain it to you if you message me "

Bit tricky to do either of them particularly discreetly in public or at work…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest it all sounds a bit of a chore? I tend to just stick to naughty messages/pics "

That’s because my brain only ever thinks ideas half way through before jumping to another example destined to be incomplete too… life of an adult with ADHD… hence my asking for all your kinky input to simplify and streamline the idea or a set of rules that can be used regularly (ie learned or just written on notes app) so it’s not a chore…

Also, having a high sex drive (at least as a female and in my experience) generally is a massive chore!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your right, apologies it didn’t look that much in the text box until i posted it!

Here is the sparknotes version of what I want ideas for/with:

*So I was wondering if anyone knew any kinky sexual games that could be played for example alone, or on a car journey or out and about, or perhaps throughout your day in preparation for the scores/results at home?

Like a simple set of rules that can act as the imagination for when your not as spontaneous as you would like to be sexy in that moment…

for example it could be as simple as a number randomiser between 1-10 and each number is either a task, a challenge, a forfeit or something - a bit like a sexy snakes and ladders type concept!*

Better? perfect, apologies didn't mean to be rude x"

You weren’t rude, the eye roll was at my own incomprehension (I too am reasonably bright and kinky, not that you would tell it from that shoddy explanation!) sorry if it sounded like it was aimed at you, as soon as I saw your comment I had a face palm moment of “that’s so true?!”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest it all sounds a bit of a chore? I tend to just stick to naughty messages/pics "

They just get frustrating if nothing comes of them though, it just makes me hornier then nothing is relieved and I get like a horny come down where I’m just really annoyed and feel rubbish… and still don’t cum…

Plus my partner is ADHD too and so messaging him is like trying to get blood out of a stone because he’s distracted by a bird or a plane or a breeze by the 2nd message! It requires too much concentration for him. And if he won’t engage then I need something to make myself to the chore so I’m not becoming some obscure female version of just one giant blue ball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest it all sounds a bit of a chore? I tend to just stick to naughty messages/pics

They just get frustrating if nothing comes of them though, it just makes me hornier then nothing is relieved and I get like a horny come down where I’m just really annoyed and feel rubbish… and still don’t cum…

Plus my partner is ADHD too and so messaging him is like trying to get blood out of a stone because he’s distracted by a bird or a plane or a breeze by the 2nd message! It requires too much concentration for him. And if he won’t engage then I need something to make myself to the chore so I’m not becoming some obscure female version of just one giant blue ball "

Won't any kind of horny game be frustrating?

Are you just trying to keep his interest in you? Or to keep your own horn levels up/ down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They just get frustrating if nothing comes of them though, it just makes me hornier then nothing is relieved and I get like a horny come down where I’m just really annoyed and feel rubbish… and still don’t cum…

Plus my partner is ADHD too and so messaging him is like trying to get blood out of a stone because he’s distracted by a bird or a plane or a breeze by the 2nd message! It requires too much concentration for him. And if he won’t engage then I need something to make myself to the chore so I’m not becoming some obscure female version of just one giant blue ball

Won't any kind of horny game be frustrating?

Are you just trying to keep his interest in you? Or to keep your own horn levels up/ down?

"

My own levels - so I don’t pressure him with my increasing hornyness… I have this problem where when I’m playing alone I can’t help but stop as I get to that peak (the wall you have to push through to cum, but for some reason, I have always back out early… so I end up not playing as much as I want to so I figured something that feels like sub instructions might push me through the wall and build a bit more of a habit up…?

Im clutching at straws, I’m aware! Haha.

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