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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton

Now most of the ladies I can’t message never got anywhere when I was 50 now even harder to be able to message any one else have the same problem us over 50 can still be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s."

Nope.

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s."
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A lot have got filters set at 50 only nice sarcastic folk like you ever reply

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s."

Depends on what filters are set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s."

Not if they have their message filters set to under 50 only. Some over 50's only want to meet younger members.

It's not a problem for me, because I don't send first messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s.

Depends on what filters are set"

Obviously but surely most over 50’s will meet people their own age.

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s."

You’d be surprised how many ageist people there are on here. Some set their age filters even lower than 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s.

Depends on what filters are set

Obviously but surely most over 50’s will meet people their own age."

Apparently not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I don't know, maybe stick to those that want to meet over 50's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s.

Depends on what filters are set

Obviously but surely most over 50’s will meet people their own age.

Apparently not. "

I’ve just clicked on a random thread and every account I clicked on that was around 50 were looking for people around their same age or even older.

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Age is just a number plenty going on around my area looking and having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s.

You’d be surprised how many ageist people there are on here. Some set their age filters even lower than 50.

"

We do. That’s not ageist. It’s a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see any point on lamenting over people that exclude by use of their preferences. Channel your energy towards those who include you.

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s.

Depends on what filters are set

Obviously but surely most over 50’s will meet people their own age."

Being over 50 doesn’t make us a different race.

I was in my sexual heyday in my 50s and met ladies across a wide range of ages. Both younger, and older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s.

Depends on what filters are set

Obviously but surely most over 50’s will meet people their own age.

Being over 50 doesn’t make us a different race.

I was in my sexual heyday in my 50s and met ladies across a wide range of ages. Both younger, and older than me."

And those people wanted to meet someone in their 50’s. Others don’t. Respect that.

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton

There’s plenty a good tune played on an old fiddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now most of the ladies I can’t message never got anywhere when I was 50 now even harder to be able to message any one else have the same problem us over 50 can still be good"

Stick to the people who do want to meet people your age.

My guess would be that it’s the fact you’re on here behind your wife’s back that is hindering you, not your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s plenty a good tune played on an old fiddle"

True, but there are people that don’t want the old fiddle. You just have to accept that fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now most of the ladies I can’t message never got anywhere when I was 50 now even harder to be able to message any one else have the same problem us over 50 can still be good"

I hear you and your gripe is legit but others are entitled to their preferences but I do hear you

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s.

Depends on what filters are set

Obviously but surely most over 50’s will meet people their own age.

Being over 50 doesn’t make us a different race.

I was in my sexual heyday in my 50s and met ladies across a wide range of ages. Both younger, and older than me.

And those people wanted to meet someone in their 50’s. Others don’t. Respect that."

Ignore me, I’m just a sad old bloke who is mourning the life he led in the noughties…

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Now most of the ladies I can’t message never got anywhere when I was 50 now even harder to be able to message any one else have the same problem us over 50 can still be good"

I'll let you know in a few years. But happy birthday anyways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get this. Surely the over 50’s can message other over 50’s.

You’d be surprised how many ageist people there are on here. Some set their age filters even lower than 50.

"

It’s hardly being ageist having a preference on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Birthday OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy Birthday OP "

You're a much nicer person than me. That's not what I was thinking of saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's it lads, rage against the fitting of the bifocals and don't go meekly into that hobby shed

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton


"Happy Birthday OP

You're a much nicer person than me. That's not what I was thinking of saying. "

Go on say what you want to say

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton


"Now most of the ladies I can’t message never got anywhere when I was 50 now even harder to be able to message any one else have the same problem us over 50 can still be good

I hear you and your gripe is legit but others are entitled to their preferences but I do hear you"

It’s not a gripe just an observation is that better?

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Now most of the ladies I can’t message never got anywhere when I was 50 now even harder to be able to message any one else have the same problem us over 50 can still be good"

What about all the women over 60 who can't message you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I don't know, maybe stick to those that want to meet over 50's?"

Stop with the logic

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