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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus

I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x

Maybe a lot of couples like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tough one that really. I think if it happens it will happen. You can't force anything in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x

Maybe a lot of couples like this "

In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .

Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not.

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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus


"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x

Maybe a lot of couples like this

In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .

Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not."

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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus


"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x

Maybe a lot of couples like this

In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .

Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not."

Maybe so but she couldn’t wait to get her mouth round my cock x

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Their choice. If they’ve let you know their limits before the meet, you have the choice of going ahead or pulling out of the meet.

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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus

I wasn’t bothered to b honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn’t bothered to b honest x"

You will find a couple that will love you to kiss her . You just might not want to haha

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

Had meets with couples before where kissing has been off limits and met other couples that have been fine with kissing each to there own i guess,

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We wouldn't ever want to meet *without* kissing.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

If the chemistry is there then I prefer kissing, I love kissing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple here. We always think to ourselves "why do you want to?"

For me kissing is more intimate than sex and is reserved for the one I love. Of course sex is better with someone you love but also sex is for fun and pleasure, especially if others are involved and again some things are reserved.

Kissing for us is a more loving display of affection most definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s when she looks at you in the eyes and says: “don’t kiss me on the lips...just fuck me in the arse”. ...and then I wake up!

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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus


"Couple here. We always think to ourselves "why do you want to?"

For me kissing is more intimate than sex and is reserved for the one I love. Of course sex is better with someone you love but also sex is for fun and pleasure, especially if others are involved and again some things are reserved.

Kissing for us is a more loving display of affection most definitely."

You do agree though you wouldn’t meet without being attracted to that person though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not. For us we like to get to know someone a little first as well

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual partners on the mouth.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x

Maybe a lot of couples like this

In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .

Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not."

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I wanna kiss Mrs NC's nipples

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I expect it, so discus in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but personally I think having their cock hanging out the back of me is more intimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone tells me I can’t kiss them before we meet, I don’t think we are going to get along very well sexually.

I love a good smooch when I fancy someone

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I wouldn't meet anyone who said kissing was off limits. If they don't want to kiss me I don't want to fuck them.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Kissing is essential! How does one ‘get going’ without a snog?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet without kissing involved no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't like them enough to let them stick their tongue in my mouth, then they definitely aren't sticking their dick anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I don't like them enough to let them stick their tongue in my mouth, then they definitely aren't sticking their dick anywhere."

This would be too easy.

But that’s how I see. Each to their own how they meet, but it’s definitely couples who might feel that kissing is something is something they’d like to keep for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential for me. If I don’t get anything from a kiss, it isn’t going any further x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

No kissing just wouldn't feel right to me ..

Never say never like but I do love kissing

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

If the rules are put in place before the meet you respect there rules simple

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

This is why it’s important to talk about these things before you take things further so if kissing is essential to you then you can choose not to meet them.

We have no issue with kissing but I can understand couples that choose not to.

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Had this a few times also. When playing the kissing urge is there, feels odd to keep overiding the urge, find it frustrating tbh.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We cancelled a meet because of this, we had planned the time, hotel etc, then we received a message saying that they were into most things but kissing was their special thing only between them, which we totally respect but it just wouldn't have felt right for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.

Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

As long as she let me kiss one set of lips not a problem

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Kissing is a must for us, part of the build up..

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Kissing is very intimate, more so than actual sex at times. Depends on the couple and what their boundaries are I suppose. If it's important, best to find out before the meet. As with any meets on here, we probably all have our no go areas.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Kissing is essential! How does one ‘get going’ without a snog?"
actually really easily. I don't now have a completely no kissing rule but it's still very rare I do. To be fair most meets have not really noticed it's absence.

I rarely kiss guys I meet at all... couples it's about 50/50. Reasons are my own and do well with people wanting repeat meets so

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.

Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch."

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By *hathappensnowCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Absolutely, this is us too. We only kiss each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very clear before hand, i wouldnt meet without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn’t meet someone if kissing was off the cards.

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

I love a good snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't be interested in a meet like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met one person who didn't say he wouldn't kiss in advance and I've never do it again. Too detached for me.

I can totally understand that some people wish to distance themselves a little - kissing is so intimate.

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

Met a few couples and only one preferred no kissing but it wasn’t a deal breaker I knew before the meeting and I respected they choice. But kissing makes it more intimate

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By *eorgesdad69Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Yea seems odd but takes away the likelihood of romance starting so can see why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing is like having a cherry bakewell without the cherry...

Got to have the cherry, its what makes it sexy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing is like having a cherry bakewell without the cherry...

Got to have the cherry, its what makes it sexy.."

I pick the cherry off and bin it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing is like having a cherry bakewell without the cherry...

Got to have the cherry, its what makes it sexy..

I pick the cherry off and bin it "

This made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couple here. We always think to ourselves "why do you want to?"

For me kissing is more intimate than sex and is reserved for the one I love. Of course sex is better with someone you love but also sex is for fun and pleasure, especially if others are involved and again some things are reserved.

Kissing for us is a more loving display of affection most definitely.

You do agree though you wouldn’t meet without being attracted to that person though x"

Would never meet anyone I wasn't attracted to.

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By *usty kayWoman
over a year ago

Burnham

When we started out we said no kissing. We were still trying to work out what our boundaries were and were still quite new as a couple. Kissing is intimate and we weren't prepared to let someone in that close.

We never had a problem with guys even trying, once I was on all fours and they had a choice of end kissing didn't seem to be what they wanted anyway.

We have evolved a lot since then and are confident in both us and our desires and kissing has become a big part of what we want . Some meets are still very much just lust and sex and kissing isn't in the equation but others are more sensual and kissing is needed. When either of us meet alone kissing is actually very important. It's my biggest turn on

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I've met one person who didn't say he wouldn't kiss in advance and I've never do it again. Too detached for me.

I can totally understand that some people wish to distance themselves a little - kissing is so intimate. "
Mine is nothing to do with distancing myself from meets, just a preference like oral or anal. I do on occasion with people I know well... but otherwise it makes me feel very awkward and even uneasy

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Yea seems odd but takes away the likelihood of romance starting so can see why! "
does it... I don't really kiss guys..yet have been told I couldn't fake the passion and feelings when I've gone 121... had way to many think that because I was how I was... that there could be more.... and I certainly didn't kiss them. Hence I now don't do 121

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

If kissing isnt an option then I’m not interested in a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If kissing isnt an option then I’m not interested in a meet"

You wouldn’t change your tune if a hot 18-99 year old wanted you to fuck her right now?

No kissing - no meet seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose to me

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

We had a meet with a couple who were starting out swinging. The first meet no kissing. The next full on kissing. Guessing it’s an evolution for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.

Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch."
probably because your very attractive ! But am a man true to my word and I still wouldn’t meet you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im an owned sub and somethings are just purely for the privilege of my Sir, kissing being one of those things.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Kissing for me is a huge turn on and so tbh I suspect it would be a pointless meet without. Still we're all different in our needs and desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.

Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch. probably because your very attractive ! But am a man true to my word and I still wouldn’t meet you x"

Not what you said in my inbox

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Different strokes for different folks

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We started with a no kissing rule as Mark felt it was too intimate / personal and wanted to keep some things for us. Max wasn’t comfortable with the wham bam approach though so kissing was soon put back in the table.

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By *carlett CumslutWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

I’m a kisser. I find it hard to connect with those I’m playing with if it’s off limits

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I could definitely meet without kissing, and in fact certain types of meet work well without it (I mean my experience isn't exactly extensive but have a specific set of scenarios in mind).

It's more, I would always prefer it as I enjoy the passionate kissing side of things. Good reasons for regular visits to the dentist too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started with a no kissing rule as Mark felt it was too intimate / personal and wanted to keep some things for us. Max wasn’t comfortable with the wham bam approach though so kissing was soon put back in the table. "

I prefer Max to Mark

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd find it very transactional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be no meets without kissing thank you! J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id happily meet someone just for a kiss or 2

But to meet without it would feel a bit like fucking a hole in the fence minus the splinters

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd find it very transactional "

In what respect?

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Just can’t do it unfortunately but each to their own

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By *uv2kiss2Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Our answer is in our profile name !

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I think it would feel a little odd not kissing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really? "

If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!

If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Does not bother me...if she wants to kiss fair enough, if not it's not a deal breaker.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?

If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!

If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along "

I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.

I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?

If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!

If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along

I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.

I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet "

I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.

Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x

Maybe a lot of couples like this

In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .

Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not."

That's a bit worrying 'she endures as its too late'!

Its never too late to stop!

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?

If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!

If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along

I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.

I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet

I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.

Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you "

That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.

God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?

If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!

If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along

I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.

I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet

I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.

Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you

That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.

God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss. "

Unless you didn’t find her that attractive anyway, that seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose. You could have had mind blowing sex but for the lack of a few minutes of kissing to kick it off, you passed it up?

Makes no sense to me but each to their own.

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"We started with a no kissing rule as Mark felt it was too intimate / personal and wanted to keep some things for us. Max wasn’t comfortable with the wham bam approach though so kissing was soon put back in the table.

I prefer Max to Mark"

This has creased me hahaha

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?

If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!

If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along

I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.

I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet

I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.

Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples eh? Amirite?

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?

If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!

If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along

I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.

I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet

I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.

Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you

That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.

God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss.

Unless you didn’t find her that attractive anyway, that seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose. You could have had mind blowing sex but for the lack of a few minutes of kissing to kick it off, you passed it up?

Makes no sense to me but each to their own."

That wasn’t the case at all. I did find her attractive but the element of kissing not being part of the equation was a turn off. If that’s me cutting off my nose to spite my face then so be it. Would you say the same thing if the genders were reversed? I doubt that very much…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?

If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!

If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along

I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.

I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet

I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.

Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you

That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.

God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss.

Unless you didn’t find her that attractive anyway, that seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose. You could have had mind blowing sex but for the lack of a few minutes of kissing to kick it off, you passed it up?

Makes no sense to me but each to their own.

That wasn’t the case at all. I did find her attractive but the element of kissing not being part of the equation was a turn off. If that’s me cutting off my nose to spite my face then so be it. Would you say the same thing if the genders were reversed? I doubt that very much… "

Not sure what you mean in if the genders were reversed? You mean if a guy said he wanted to kiss and I didn’t? I haven’t been in that situation. I’ve never turned down a guy who I found attractive because he was into something I wasn’t. There’s been a discussion and an agreement to do the things we both enjoyed. I certainly wouldn’t be so black and white about it. There’s always room for discussion in sex as it’s rare to find two people who find each other attractive and are into EXACTLY the same things sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs C. won't kiss on meets as she finds it too intimate/close, Mr C. loves a good snow but has a close FWB where kissing doesn't happen with our solo meets as it makes us feel far too much like we're a couple.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?

If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!

If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along

I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.

I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet

I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.

Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you

That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.

God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss.

Unless you didn’t find her that attractive anyway, that seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose. You could have had mind blowing sex but for the lack of a few minutes of kissing to kick it off, you passed it up?

Makes no sense to me but each to their own.

That wasn’t the case at all. I did find her attractive but the element of kissing not being part of the equation was a turn off. If that’s me cutting off my nose to spite my face then so be it. Would you say the same thing if the genders were reversed? I doubt that very much…

Not sure what you mean in if the genders were reversed? You mean if a guy said he wanted to kiss and I didn’t? I haven’t been in that situation. I’ve never turned down a guy who I found attractive because he was into something I wasn’t. There’s been a discussion and an agreement to do the things we both enjoyed. I certainly wouldn’t be so black and white about it. There’s always room for discussion in sex as it’s rare to find two people who find each other attractive and are into EXACTLY the same things sexually. "

Okay, maybe my comment came across a little inflammatory so I apologise if it did, but yes that’s what I meant. It’s just I prefer to not to partake in sex with someone if they’re not into some of the same things I am because then I’m not going to enjoy myself which is the aim of the game is it not? I’m happy to compromise on certain things but I like sex to be intimate, yes you can be attracted initially to someone aesthetically but for me a good kiss (or shall I say snog), solidifies the sexual attraction in someone so if that element is removed then there’s very little to no appeal. That’s just me personally.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I'd find it very transactional

In what respect?"

In that it would not be a natural (for me) way to interact intimately with someone

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd find it very transactional

In what respect?

In that it would not be a natural (for me) way to interact intimately with someone "

The transactional aspect being the negotiation of likes and dislikes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.

Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch. probably because your very attractive ! But am a man true to my word and I still wouldn’t meet you x

Not what you said in my inbox "
if I remember I said something completely different cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If kissing isnt an option then I’m not interested in a meet

You wouldn’t change your tune if a hot 18-99 year old wanted you to fuck her right now?

No kissing - no meet seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose to me "

I wouldnt, even if she looked like Lady Amelia Windsor kissing is a important part to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.

Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch. probably because your very attractive ! But am a man true to my word and I still wouldn’t meet you x

Not what you said in my inbox if I remember I said something completely different cheeky "

If you say so honey

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It is slightly strange when you go down on someone and you haven't even kissed them but not much stranger than having relations of any kind with someone you don't really know.

I think kissing definitely turbo-charges arousal but it's not an absolute prerequisite to a good rogering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could lick her anus but not kiss her mouth ?

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

No no no meet without kissing is a deal breaker for me I’m mad for a snog!!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Kissing is more personal than fucking I think! And happily fuck with out kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I have been in both situations. Watching her with another man without kissing is amazing, but more of just a physicial act with little emotion.

But wen she is with another man and they are kissing passionately too it's like I'm watching them make love.

And watching my wife making love to someone else in front of me is the most erotic thing. She much prefers when kissing is included too.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I (Mrs) couldn't do it, kissing is the best start to any foreplay or sex, it just wouldn't be right without any kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, so a meet without it would be very difficult. The initial kiss as the build up, then the deep hard kisses as you fuck,

They are an integral part of sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy a snog. That said, if I really fancy you and you said anywhere but on the mouth I think I could respect that.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

No kissing means a no for me.

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Every ones view and limits should always be respected but kissing for us is part of thebuildup and foreplay...

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

I love a good snog

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