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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Hi just intrigued to what women actually look for and want when receiving a opening message? X

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

On here it's generally

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

? Generally what ?

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By *avenous_butterflyWoman
over a year ago

bangor

If they attach a face pic, say they are local, have a beard and are genuinely bi they will get a response from me. Literally just demonstrate they are what I'm asking for. If they aren't what I'm after or there is no attraction I delete the message.

Profiles with no public pictures and no text will always get a delete from me.

If they say they are interested in things I am interested in that's also another plus point.

Generally just flirt with me like someone would in a bar. Being overly sexual from the first message is off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that actually take the time to read my bio- if a first message has “lady” in I just ignore it

People that actually take the time to be social rather than just immediately sexual-sending me a whole message about what you’re going to do to me is just going to get you ignored lol, especially considering the fact that I’m a dom and don’t particularly like being a sub

Basically, just people that aren’t rude and actually take the time to read my bio and see what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them if they’re ok, can I ask you something and are they free now …

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

They're looking for Utopia, but really want a Shangri-La. They'll settle for Nirvana.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Oh mate..that is such a hard question to try and answer.

Might be better asking what they don't want and don't do that

Good luck x

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Have popcorn, waiting for Taon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the 6th of the day

Women love the cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see they have read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been let down by ‘Hi- you ok?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not the first message that’s the problem sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock and balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something more than "how's you?" Would be a help

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth


"Oh mate..that is such a hard question to try and answer.

Might be better asking what they don't want and don't do that

Good luck x"

Apparently, most women don't want me doing bagpipe practice at 3 am.

Who knew?

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Thank you

Are you well ? Xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If the profile pic dorgrav my attention then chances are I won't read the message.

If I do read it then I'm not too bothered about a 'how are you doing message' the initial attraction is key for me.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Doesn't grab*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the profile pic dorgrav my attention then chances are I won't read the message.

If I do read it then I'm not too bothered about a 'how are you doing message' the initial attraction is key for me."

*Joey Tribiani voice*

How you doin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I know it's definitely not cock in the first message or probably any messages

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If the profile pic dorgrav my attention then chances are I won't read the message.

If I do read it then I'm not too bothered about a 'how are you doing message' the initial attraction is key for me.

*Joey Tribiani voice*

How you doin? "

Get your coat. You've pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the profile pic dorgrav my attention then chances are I won't read the message.

If I do read it then I'm not too bothered about a 'how are you doing message' the initial attraction is key for me.

*Joey Tribiani voice*

How you doin?

Get your coat. You've pulled"

Yeah I wish

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If the profile pic dorgrav my attention then chances are I won't read the message.

If I do read it then I'm not too bothered about a 'how are you doing message' the initial attraction is key for me.

*Joey Tribiani voice*

How you doin?

Get your coat. You've pulled

Yeah I wish "

If only fab really was that simple, eh Steve

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Just be polite, maybe funny and lots of compliments are good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the profile pic dorgrav my attention then chances are I won't read the message.

If I do read it then I'm not too bothered about a 'how are you doing message' the initial attraction is key for me.

*Joey Tribiani voice*

How you doin?

Get your coat. You've pulled

Yeah I wish

If only fab really was that simple, eh Steve "

I’d be pretty good at it

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I just want a forehead kiss while getting a bloody good cuddle with a cheeky bum squeeze.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Considering everyone is different I reckon you've asked yourself a trick question

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Doesn't matter what you send in a message narcissists will be narcissists polite won't work face pics don't work

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Doesn't matter what you send in a message narcissists will be narcissists polite won't work face pics don't work "

I'd love you to expand on this statement regarding narcissists.

I think you may be somewhat mistaken as to the definition of the term, and what makes a narcissist a narcissist.

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

I’m intrigued to the answer from your message regarding narcissists hehe ??

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I’m intrigued to the answer from your message regarding narcissists hehe ?? "

Put it this way, you're life is never the same after dealing with one, and that's not in a good way.

Not opening a message on here doesn't make someone a narcissists, far from it.

Having your life ripped apart, your mind practically turned to mush, being unable to trust,

being isolated from friends and family and being the shell of the person you used to be after dealing with one for a period of time stands a good chance you've got mixed up with one.

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

That sounds terrible tbh and also hard to imagine.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Doesn't matter what you send in a message narcissists will be narcissists polite won't work face pics don't work "

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Punctuation is an undeniable starting point.

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original


"Hi just intrigued to what women actually look for and want when receiving a opening message? X"
..the block button

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

????????

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"????????

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"If the profile pic dorgrav my attention then chances are I won't read the message.

If I do read it then I'm not too bothered about a 'how are you doing message' the initial attraction is key for me.

*Joey Tribiani voice*

How you doin? "

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Hi just intrigued to what women actually look for and want when receiving a opening message? X"

A picture of a handsome face next to a cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask me what I want because I don't bloody know any more

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Pics of kittens, puppies, cake and velvet cushions.

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