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By *ay9971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London

So I was wondering what action, if any, all you lovely folk do when you see your pics being fanned?

There’s some hot people in there atm but I am not sure if it is an invitation to start a convo or if they are just appreciating the pic and nothing more.

Usually, if I’m in doubt I would message them but wanted gauge the general etiquette on this

Cheers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See it nothing more than a digital compliment.

It doesn’t necessarily mean the person wants you to get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally block as usually a gay bloke saying he can turn a straight guy never understand it weirdo's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just take it as a compliment and nothing more. I think that's part of the reason men get so few Fabs from women and couples. They don't want it to be interpreted as an invitation to be messaged.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I rarely look at fabs I get. But I know I will fab a pic if I like the pic. There is nothing more of it than that,if I wanted to chat I would message the person .

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over a year ago

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I take it as a compliment. Probably have a look at the profile and fab anything that takes my fancy too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never message anyone who Fabs my pics, I assume they’d message me if they are interested. A Fab doesn’t necessarily mean they want to engage in a convo, what I might do is Fab back to indicate interest.

But I’m sure others do it their way and probably get more success than me, so who am I to say what to do?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Number one rule, never message to say thank you for fabbing. Reason being some don't fab because they get lots of thank you messages

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By *ay9971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London

The general consensus so far (after a couple of mins) seems to be that it is nothing but a digital compliment ( as someone partly put it) and nothing more!

It always flattering to receive fabs but I guess it would be not the right thing to act on it!!

On the contrary, maybe this is from a guys perspective only, if I fabbed a lady’s pic, I wouldn’t mind her getting in touch….but noted there is probably a gender divide on this!!

Cheers for the input so far everyone xx

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

I'll often message back, but say that if people don't want to chat then I won't be offended. It's a bit like if someone looks at you in a club, then you might go say hello?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ll fab a pic to show I appreciate it

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't do anything. If they've fabbed and also winked, I'd usually thank them for the fab/wink.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"The general consensus so far (after a couple of mins) seems to be that it is nothing but a digital compliment ( as someone partly put it) and nothing more!

It always flattering to receive fabs but I guess it would be not the right thing to act on it!!

On the contrary, maybe this is from a guys perspective only, if I fabbed a lady’s pic, I wouldn’t mind her getting in touch….but noted there is probably a gender divide on this!!

Cheers for the input so far everyone xx"

Yes I'm happy to receive a message from giving fabs but I don't need a administrator to sort through my inbox

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