FabSwingers.com forum: Excuses for being dumped by a lover

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One of my lovers threatened to dump me if I continued to shave my head. I always have a skin head. Well a number 1. I tried to explain to her that I work in the construction industry, so it's really to do with cleanliness(dust and grease) and zero maintenance. Unfortunately she saw a picture of me when I last had hair. And she likes it. Now she wants it. Women, first they tell you they only want you as a lover/door mat, then they want more. At what point does a 'discreet' relationship becomes 'more'? Where should one draw the line?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my lovers threatened to dump me if I continued to shave my head. I always have a skin head. Well a number 1. I tried to explain to her that I work in the construction industry, so it's really to do with cleanliness(dust and grease) and zero maintenance. Unfortunately she saw a picture of me when I last had hair. And she likes it. Now she wants it. Women, first they tell you they only want you as a lover/door mat, then they want more. At what point does a 'discreet' relationship becomes 'more'? Where should one draw the line? "

Men go by logic. Women go by emotions how they feel and how men make them feel.

If they say left,they mean right.

Try most things the opposite and see if it works.

Dislike like demands,some like short hair some dont. People lile to people please, but the bigger picture is the game is your being obsearved how you react. Manipulation is an art form. Note the red flags!!

Some people are controling you without you knowing its happening.