FabSwingers.com forum: Likes and dislikes in messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All,

Just wondered whats the etiquette when messaging? Also, What do you like or dislike when you read a message?

Some profiles say... don't want endless messages, others say we want to get to know someone first... so how many messages before "shall we meet" get posted...

3 questions.. just interested in people's views on any or all of them.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This just in

Every one is different women are not a hive mind as previously believed

Tip 1 be you

Tip 2 be you

Tip 3 be funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the message to come from a hot funny guy.

I don't like it when they come from someone who is neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just in

Every one is different women are not a hive mind as previously believed

Tip 1 be you

Tip 2 be you

Tip 3 be funny

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tip 4 if you dangle your winky and wiggle it the women will come to you also FACT

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies.. I wasn't asking for advice just interested in people's differing opinions to be honest. And also just fancied starting a thread lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies.. I wasn't asking for advice just interested in people's differing opinions to be honest. And also just fancied starting a thread lol. "
the tips are universal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies.. I wasn't asking for advice just interested in people's differing opinions to be honest. And also just fancied starting a thread lol. the tips are universal

One size fits all??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies.. I wasn't asking for advice just interested in people's differing opinions to be honest. And also just fancied starting a thread lol. the tips are universal

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Don't be a twat

Expect nothing

Offer cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies.. I wasn't asking for advice just interested in people's differing opinions to be honest. And also just fancied starting a thread lol. the tips are universal

One size fits all??"
just like my hand going up your vaginia extravaganza

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Don't call me babe, honey or sweetie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies.. I wasn't asking for advice just interested in people's differing opinions to be honest. And also just fancied starting a thread lol. the tips are universal

One size fits all??just like my hand going up your vaginia extravaganza

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't send messages so the etiquette of sending is irrelevant.

I prefer conversations that show they have actually read and understood my profile rather than just message for the sake of it.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Don't call me babe, honey or sweetie."

But cutiepie is okay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't call me babe, honey or sweetie.

But cutiepie is okay?"

Hun is the most favourable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies.. I wasn't asking for advice just interested in people's differing opinions to be honest. And also just fancied starting a thread lol. the tips are universal

One size fits all??just like my hand going up your vaginia extravaganza

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I had a first message today that said “Are you wet?”

I wonder if that ever works for him?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I had a first message today that said “Are you wet?”

I wonder if that ever works for him?"

Well don’t keep us guessing….

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I had a first message today that said “Are you wet?”

I wonder if that ever works for him?"

Was it raining?

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"I had a first message today that said “Are you wet?”

I wonder if that ever works for him?

Well don’t keep us guessing….

The only wetness here today has been the tears I’ve shed over the assignment I’m trying to write between procrastinating on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't be a twat

Expect nothing

Offer cake"

Pmsl

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"I had a first message today that said “Are you wet?”

I wonder if that ever works for him?"

Was it raining in Preston today then? I mean it often is so it’s a fair assumption!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a first message today that said “Are you wet?”

I wonder if that ever works for him?"
was it raining?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a first message today that said “Are you wet?”

I wonder if that ever works for him?"

Pmsl (not literally,that would make me wet)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, the messages are exactly what I was hoping for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, the messages are exactly what I was hoping for.

"
saul good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, the messages are exactly what I was hoping for.

saul good

(That's my actual laugh out loud emoji fyi)

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By *iren4uWoman
over a year ago

jersey channel islands

"Don't call me babe, honey or sweetie."

This

annoys me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, the messages are exactly what I was hoping for.

saul good

(That's my actual laugh out loud emoji fyi)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the message to come from a hot funny guy.

I don't like it when they come from someone who is neither. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when it got you a time out for sharing your Dms on the forum. Is this now not a thing?

Because I could go wild on here.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"I remember when it got you a time out for sharing your Dms on the forum. Is this now not a thing?

Because I could go wild on here. "

Oops, I didn’t know

If I vanish you know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when they respect my authoritaaaay and ask to suck my balls

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Always read a profile and show you have, by referencing something in it ie oh I like comedy too.

Don't send anything graphic and no dick pics.

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By *sh1962Man
over a year ago

Stonehouse

I like messages from real genuine people .

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By *andB 2020Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Totally agree

So many don’t read our profile

Even worse when they don’t even realise its a couples profile

Im 15 stone, really don’t think they want me to sit on their faces. Tempted to turn up just to see their faces

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By *incloudukMan
over a year ago

Medway

My hate is when someone says their horny in a message!!

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

Well written, articulate message from someone who has read my profile and thinks we may get on...such a rarity though

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Don't come across like a Bull in your first message. Don't call her bitch, slut, whore, or anything like that.

Don't demand anything. Don't tell us, in your first message, what you want to do to Her.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I just like to get one ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like it when they presume il fuck them just cos they are a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be original, relevant and have something to say. I’m always polite and I try to add some humour and don’t expect a reply or to be the receivers type, I can only speak from my experience. Happy fabbing

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I remember when it got you a time out for sharing your Dms on the forum. Is this now not a thing?

Because I could go wild on here. "

Don't you have to name and shame for that though?

Theres a few non descript posts like this recently, more comedy than witch hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember when it got you a time out for sharing your Dms on the forum. Is this now not a thing?

Because I could go wild on here.

Don't you have to name and shame for that though?

Theres a few non descript posts like this recently, more comedy than witch hunting"

Maybe there should be some clarity as I don’t know.

Eg - “Why do men always Dm me asking to wreck my back door in with a cucumber?

What if I had just sent that DM? How would I feel?

And do all men send that message?

* I’m sure this used to be against the forum rules.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Always read the profile first.

Send a face pic.

Be polite.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I remember when it got you a time out for sharing your Dms on the forum. Is this now not a thing?

Because I could go wild on here.

Don't you have to name and shame for that though?

Theres a few non descript posts like this recently, more comedy than witch hunting

Maybe there should be some clarity as I don’t know.

Eg - “Why do men always Dm me asking to wreck my back door in with a cucumber?

What if I had just sent that DM? How would I feel?

And do all men send that message?

* I’m sure this used to be against the forum rules.

If you were the kind of person that had feelings you woulyd be sending random people messages about vegetables and bottom wrecking.

If more people knew it wasn't acceptable to send this kind of stuff then it would make a better place for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are unique and want different things. Just be you and you will attract someone suitable, put on a front and you might create something you find hard to continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember when it got you a time out for sharing your Dms on the forum. Is this now not a thing?

Because I could go wild on here.

Don't you have to name and shame for that though?

Theres a few non descript posts like this recently, more comedy than witch hunting

Maybe there should be some clarity as I don’t know.

Eg - “Why do men always Dm me asking to wreck my back door in with a cucumber?

What if I had just sent that DM? How would I feel?

And do all men send that message?

* I’m sure this used to be against the forum rules.

If you were the kind of person that had feelings you woulyd be sending random people messages about vegetables and bottom wrecking.

If more people knew it wasn't acceptable to send this kind of stuff then it would make a better place for all."

Mot was kind of a joke

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't follow a set format. It's fine to share your thoughts with the other party, without it being pressure - we'd never know others' feelings etc otherwise.

It's a dance, so allow each of you to guide the moves.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Maybe there should be some clarity as I don’t know.

Eg - “Why do men always Dm me asking to wreck my back door in with a cucumber?

What if I had just sent that DM? How would I feel? "

Hopefully you would feel grateful that you would not be making that mistake again?

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