FabSwingers.com forum: age gap

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would be considered too big of an age gap

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Personal choice really, as long as everyones of legal age and consenting.

Some people wont meet those young enough to be their children or old enough to be their parents.

All depends what you want to do, converse or just fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 years older (right now) and 5 years younger (right now).

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Whatever difference is fine by me.

Age is just a number.

You can get some mature 18 year olds and some downright immature 40 year olds.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Depends on the people and the situation... I've enjoyed amazing sex and a great relationship, with a couple 40yrs older than me. And likewise with a couple 20yrs my junior. Equally found that despite the amazing sex I couldn't relate at all to a woman less than ten years younger than me....

So I this world I'm really not sure that age means all that much

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Judging by recent threads a larger gap where the woman is the older partner is more acceptable than the other way round.

For me twenty years under and ten over is about my limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider a gap of 10 years either way.

Ive dated ladies 20 years my junior and 15 years my senior.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I have a female fuck buddy that is 18 .. some say its abit much as I am over 20 years older .. hey she likes me and like her for hanging out a times and a good old romp around together ... we share some hobby interests and she is big lover of trans/non binary folk of all ages ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks I really get on with someone who is 14 years younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half your age plus seven is a pretty good rule of thumb. For upper limit, just base it on the older person. We find this is pretty accurate.

(rule of thumb for you to live by, not for you to judge anyone else by)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be considered too big of an age gap "

For me? I’ll cross that bridge if I ever come too having to think about it.

Thankfully I normally talk to people who I’ve never had to think, ‘are they too young/old?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What works for you. Some people feel uncomfortable with it, some embrace it. I've been with men over 20 years my junior and one ten years older - was all great.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I think once your 18 you can make your own choices. If you wanna be 65 and date an 18 year old, crack on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think once your 18 you can make your own choices. If you wanna be 65 and date an 18 year old, crack on. "

I can think of little I less rather do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think once your 18 you can make your own choices. If you wanna be 65 and date an 18 year old, crack on. "

I wasn’t going to comment, but as opinions are being shared. Here’s my 2 cents.

18 year olds aren’t mature to be in age gap relationship. I think it’s weird for a guy to be wanting a teenager. Yes that’s right an 18 yo is a teenager.

It’s my opinion and how I feel about it. Before you criticise me; ask your 18 year old self if were making good decisions at 18.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I think once your 18 you can make your own choices. If you wanna be 65 and date an 18 year old, crack on.

I wasn’t going to comment, but as opinions are being shared. Here’s my 2 cents.

18 year olds aren’t mature to be in age gap relationship. I think it’s weird for a guy to be wanting a teenager. Yes that’s right an 18 yo is a teenager.

It’s my opinion and how I feel about it. Before you criticise me; ask your 18 year old self if were making good decisions at 18."

I was making terrible decision

But if a hot 18 year old wants to make a terrible decision with me, who am I to deny her the privileges of making her own adult decisions

For contrast, plenty of people in their 30s are still unable to make good decisions

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Half your age plus seven is a pretty good rule of thumb. For upper limit, just base it on the older person. We find this is pretty accurate.

(rule of thumb for you to live by, not for you to judge anyone else by)"

Yep, thats worked well for me in the past.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

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By *aka12345Couple
over a year ago

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Age is merely a number xx mrs k xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are 12 years apart but it looks more because I look older and she looks younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add that I was once told by a lady friend that there is a formula for this.

You divide your age by two and add 7 to come up with the youngest person you should date.

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

Just a number as far as I'm concerned,

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Just to add that I was once told by a lady friend that there is a formula for this.

You divide your age by two and add 7 to come up with the youngest person you should date."

As long as I don’t have to double it and add 7

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've had a relationship where he was 21 years older than me. For various it was too big of a gap and I certainly wouldn't do it again. 10 years -/+ my age is more than enough x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to add that I was once told by a lady friend that there is a formula for this.

You divide your age by two and add 7 to come up with the youngest person you should date.

As long as I don’t have to double it and add 7

It might be a small target group

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

My general guide is ten years +/- but that’s just a rough thing and I don’t filter.

If I met someone in person, I’m not going to dismiss them just because they’re a few months out, so why do it on here?

You can get mature 25 year olds and older people with young energy. It’s about connecting, not box ticking

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I also think there is a huge different between just having casual sex with someone vs full relationship with someone ...

I wouldn't want to date my younger friend of 18 at all but the physical play is pretty a good laugh all round ..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never been with a woman older than me at any stage in my life.

On here I won't meet or engage with anyone within 10 years of my eldest child so that currently means no-one under 40.

It has nothing at all to do with maturity and everything to do with my own comfort in a situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was single I would probably go 10 years either way.

As a couple we stick to around Mrs NE’s age up to 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sex and meets here I would happily go as young as 20. For a relationship probably never younger than 30. As for older, if I’m honest I wouldn’t normally go for more than 5 years older.

These are my own arbitrary and in no way scientific parameters I’ve set for myself based on my instinct.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"What would be considered too big of an age gap "

Minimum age is the only limit for me in terms of numbers, and 22 / 23 had been the youngest I have gone in recent years. In the other direction, I once had a 50 year age difference

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

On here, I'm happy to meet anyone 20 years younger so from 25 up. 10 years older, at a push.

Dating, they'd have to be 35 plus to 50.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"What would be considered too big of an age gap "

One that someone is uncomfortable with.

Or involves breaking the law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be considered too big of an age gap "

Whatever the people involved think it is. There's 14 years between us, age has never bothered me.

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

If your over 50, for most here your too old

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Acceptable' is subjective

It doesn't really matter as long as you're both consenting adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it really matters as long as the two involved are happy. I'd be fine having sex with a 75 year old if there was connection and attraction. But I always have more in common with people nearer my own age, so usually meet 18-45 year olds with about 35 being my sweet spot. Xx

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