FabSwingers.com forum: Is it wrong

By *permdonor OP Man
over a year ago

driffield

A 50 something man fucking a 19yr old

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Wrong in what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong is debatable but I’m a 34 year old man and wouldn’t do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Legally, no.

Morally, questionable in some folks opinions.

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By *G999Man
over a year ago

Everywhere & Nowhere

As long as you're both consenting, why should it be?

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Not for me, but perfectly understand why you'd want to. Wrong - if it's entirely consensual and not at all coercive then no

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

No, it’s not wrong at all. Consenting adults having sex is perfectly normal.

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By *permdonor OP Man
over a year ago

driffield

Reason is I've been chatting to a girl on here and she wants a meet

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

You didnt specify if the 19 year old was male or female but lets say female.

If it was a 50 year old woman and a 19 year old man, would that change how you perceive it (or i imagine) you see it as wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reason is I've been chatting to a girl on here and she wants a meet "

Does it feel wrong to you?

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By *CLEMan
over a year ago

Littledean

I am 75 and have a regular young woman of 24.

She enjoys the fact that I care for her pleasure and is open to all kinds of sexual activity...

I see no problem with that.

Go for it and keep your 19 year old happy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reason is I've been chatting to a girl on here and she wants a meet "

I think if you’ve got to ask then you already know the answer deep down.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

As long as there is no coercion or manipulation and they are both happy with it then it’s fine.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you certain you are chatting to a 19 year old woman ?

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By *eneralPMan
over a year ago

other

I don’t think a 19 year old GIRL (not really a woman) is something that appeals to me, they are only barely out of school and despite them thinking they are “grown ups”, they very clearly aren’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does the opinion of a bunch of strangers matter? You do what you want to do, and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think a 19 year old GIRL (not really a woman) is something that appeals to me, they are only barely out of school and despite them thinking they are “grown ups”, they very clearly aren’t "

Have they put a facepalm emoji in yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 38 and wouldnt but that just me, does it feel wrong?

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

If you're asking if it's wrong for you, there's your answer

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

You must know that legally it isn’t wrong.

Yeah it made me go ewwwwww gross. Are they the answers you want? Not sure why you’re asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im 38 and wouldnt but that just me, does it feel wrong?

Wait for the follow up thread for those kind of details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A 50 something man fucking a 19yr old"

Why do you ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Legally no.

We can do who we please.

Is it a bit ewwwww. Personally,yep.

Also, does this 50 something man want to have sex with this girl because he actually likes them or purely because she's just 19?

The second reason gets more ewwwwws.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A 50 something man fucking a 19yr old"

If I found out that my 19 year old daughter was wanting to fuck a man who was nearly 60, I’d have words with her then plenty of words with him.

I’m betting it’s probably a guy anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 20 and I probably wouldn’t fuck a man that age; I still feel like a teenager lol.

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"Reason is I've been chatting to a girl on here and she wants a meet

I think if you’ve got to ask then you already know the answer deep down."

I agree you wouldn't be asking for other people's opinion if you didn't have a problem with it yourself

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By *eneralPMan
over a year ago

other

"Legally no.

We can do who we please.

Is it a bit ewwwww. Personally,yep.

Also, does this 50 something man want to have sex with this girl because he actually likes them or purely because she's just 19?

The second reason gets more ewwwwws. "

Or maybe because it’s a huge ego boost.

Interestingly - I’m in a WhatsApp group with about 150–180 men and one of them boasted that he was cracking on with a 19 year old barmaid and he was 48, he was removed from the group as everyone aas quite shocked he thought it was ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A 50 something man fucking a 19yr old"

If they're both happy with the arrangement then there's no issue

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reason is I've been chatting to a girl on here and she wants a meet "

Is she real??

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By *ereagainlolMan
over a year ago

Lerwick

How old do you have to be to be caused as a grown up? If you're allowed to vote does that not mean that society has given you the respect to make decisions which may change your life and if you can make decisions that can change a whole country, I think they are able to decide who they want to have sex with, which won't hurt anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Legally no.

We can do who we please.

Is it a bit ewwwww. Personally,yep.

Also, does this 50 something man want to have sex with this girl because he actually likes them or purely because she's just 19?

The second reason gets more ewwwwws.

Or maybe because it’s a huge ego boost.

Jealousy is a terrible thing

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Reason is I've been chatting to a girl on here and she wants a meet

Is she real??"

My thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does not sit well with me at all.

Gives me the creeps to be perfectly honest.

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

No issues on my behalf but I’m very unlikely to be in that situation anyway lol

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I don’t see anything wrong with it if both people are consenting adults and it’s what they both desire it’s fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t see anything wrong with it if both people are consenting adults and it’s what they both desire it’s fine by me"

I agree with this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it if you’re both consenting and she is genuinely the age she says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to them. Consenting adults. Not got a negative comment really

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

There are so many variables on this, for example my 18 year old granddaughter still has a child's brain (brains fully mature at around the age of 21, the last thing to develop is consequence) and presents and acts very much as a spotty teen although she would eloquently argue this and insist she is an adult.

One of my shift leaders is 18. When I found out I was gobsmacked. She has the talent and skills in managing people and the workload that the 30 somethings don't.

I know who I would be incredibly concerned about if they told me they were considering interacting with a 50 year old man.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Both consenting adults, if you want to meet to play then there's nothing wrong with that. It's pointless asking a bunch of strangers because people are judgy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A 50 something man fucking a 19yr old"

Felt ok when I was 19!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your 58 and asking strangers on the internet maybe you think it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your 58 and asking strangers on the internet maybe you think it is"

I was just about to write this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, inconclusive then. Must be one of those 'preference' things...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think there's an age limit on sperm donation.

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

Get fucking banging, lad!!! Christ almighty you’re both legal and consenting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get fucking banging, lad!!! Christ almighty you’re both legal and consenting. "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that she is on here says she has a rough idea of what she wants to do....im 50 and I have fun with a 28yr old on here...and yes she's real lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A 50 something man fucking a 19yr old

Why do you ask?

That would be my question?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Any particular reason "she" chose you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 is still a crazy young. Until you've experienced life outside of high school, in the "real world" you're hardly an adult. Regardless of what the law says.

That said,some people have different experiences growing up, so I guess could be mature enough to know what they're doing. I didn't at 19, actually I didn't util I was at least 22 after uni lol

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I don’t even feel old enough to get jiggy with a 50 year old ! #notall50yearolds

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Personaly outside of my preferred age range which would be 10 to 15 years younger than myself but still nothing wrong at all, in my opinion so long as both parties are consenting adults and are enjoying it should an age gap really matter?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Are you certain you are chatting to a 19 year old woman ?"

That was my first thought

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Are you certain you are chatting to a 19 year old woman ?"

This was my first thought

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Are you certain you are chatting to a 19 year old woman ?

That was my first thought "

SNAP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you certain you are chatting to a 19 year old woman ?

That was my first thought "

He didn't say he was chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you certain you are chatting to a 19 year old woman ?

That was my first thought

He didn't say he was chatting "

Im wrong.....he did say...my bad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose legally no but it’s a yikes from me.

Although I have slept with people who are older than me by more than that so I guess I’m a hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you got everything you desired from writing this ….

Hypothetically we shall say this is true

It’s not legally wrong, but you know that - you knew that before writing that though.

Do you care what we think? Nope

Do you think the men will be wildly jealous? Yes I think you do.

Do you think the women will think you’re some kind of sexual stud ? I think you probably do.

All this makes me think is this - if you were talking to my daughter I’d be coming to your house and asking you to give your head a wobble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope you got everything you desired from writing this ….

Hypothetically we shall say this is true

It’s not legally wrong, but you know that - you knew that before writing that though.

Do you care what we think? Nope

Do you think the men will be wildly jealous? Yes I think you do.

Do you think the women will think you’re some kind of sexual stud ? I think you probably do.

All this makes me think is this - if you were talking to my daughter I’d be coming to your house and asking you to give your head a wobble.

So is your daughter not allowed on here?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Legally no.

I made lots of decisions at that age which I cringe about, especially when it comes to sex. I also look back and think "yeah I was willing, but fucking hell I wish they'd been more emotionally intelligent than the confused wreck who was trying to work out who the hell I was at that time and done the *right* thing by me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope you got everything you desired from writing this ….

Hypothetically we shall say this is true

It’s not legally wrong, but you know that - you knew that before writing that though.

Do you care what we think? Nope

Do you think the men will be wildly jealous? Yes I think you do.

Do you think the women will think you’re some kind of sexual stud ? I think you probably do.

All this makes me think is this - if you were talking to my daughter I’d be coming to your house and asking you to give your head a wobble.

So is your daughter not allowed on here?"

Oh … I’m applauding this come back

Seriously

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Oh … I’m applauding this come back

Seriously

Everything is a filter of some kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope you got everything you desired from writing this ….

Hypothetically we shall say this is true

It’s not legally wrong, but you know that - you knew that before writing that though.

Do you care what we think? Nope

Do you think the men will be wildly jealous? Yes I think you do.

Do you think the women will think you’re some kind of sexual stud ? I think you probably do.

All this makes me think is this - if you were talking to my daughter I’d be coming to your house and asking you to give your head a wobble.

So is your daughter not allowed on here?

Oh … I’m applauding this come back

Seriously

Ok..not a come back but more of a question, the op states that she is on this site of her choice and is free to engage with whoever she wants to....

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm 50, so I would find that to be an issue for me, but I'm not criticising anyone for it

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"Reason is I've been chatting to a girl on here and she wants a meet "

Your profile says 18-99 so you obviously think it’s ok. Will look forward to reading the verifications.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Are you certain you are chatting to a 19 year old woman ?

That was my first thought

SNAP!"

Double snap, oh cynics that are we.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a woman in my fifties and no way would I sleep with a 19yo man. A few have asked. That's because one of my kids is around that age. And I don't find men that age attractive.

A man who always seeks out women 30 years younger - dubious. By chance hitting it off with someone here who's 19 - totally your call.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I'm a woman in my fifties and no way would I sleep with a 19yo man. A few have asked. That's because one of my kids is around that age. And I don't find men that age attractive.

A man who always seeks out women 30 years younger - dubious. By chance hitting it off with someone here who's 19 - totally your call."

Where are you encountering these young men?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

So you're actually closer to 60... That's a 40yr age gap.

Honestly... It really is a bit cringe! I wouldn't like the idea of my son, who's that age, having any kind of relationship with a woman old enough to be his grandma.

As others have said though, are you 100% she's genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a woman in my fifties and no way would I sleep with a 19yo man. A few have asked. That's because one of my kids is around that age. And I don't find men that age attractive.

A man who always seeks out women 30 years younger - dubious. By chance hitting it off with someone here who's 19 - totally your call.

Where are you encountering these young men?"

A few here - they've given a false age. Other apps/sites which don't allow you to restrict by age. Why does it matter where?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I'm a woman in my fifties and no way would I sleep with a 19yo man. A few have asked. That's because one of my kids is around that age. And I don't find men that age attractive.

A man who always seeks out women 30 years younger - dubious. By chance hitting it off with someone here who's 19 - totally your call.

Where are you encountering these young men?

A few here - they've given a false age. Other apps/sites which don't allow you to restrict by age. Why does it matter where?"

It doesn't matter really. I was being nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a woman in my fifties and no way would I sleep with a 19yo man. A few have asked. That's because one of my kids is around that age. And I don't find men that age attractive.

A man who always seeks out women 30 years younger - dubious. By chance hitting it off with someone here who's 19 - totally your call.

Where are you encountering these young men?

A few here - they've given a false age. Other apps/sites which don't allow you to restrict by age. Why does it matter where?

It doesn't matter really. I was being nosey "

. I was horrified at the first few, I tell ya!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I would struggle to agree to seeing her due to the age gap.

I would probably want to talk in person and go from there.

My preference is 25 and up but more appealing would be 35 and up as they have lived their live and have the experience that becomes so much more appealing.

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