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"Stop blaming others for ruining the site for you. Poor excuse, only you can influence how you are seen by others on here. " Exactly this. Have a break if it's getting you down, OP, but not others' fault if you're not enjoying it. | |||
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"Okay let me explain in abit more detail I was happily looking for someone just to chat and vibe with almost become friends no expectations just good vibes. It’s almost as if when you tell people this they don’t believe you due to past experiences this site doesn’t have to be all about sex sometimes I just want good company real life or phone " You might be better off going to the pub and meeting people there. | |||
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"Okay let me explain in abit more detail I was happily looking for someone just to chat and vibe with almost become friends no expectations just good vibes. It’s almost as if when you tell people this they don’t believe you due to past experiences this site doesn’t have to be all about sex sometimes I just want good company real life or phone " I wouldn't be looking to just chat or have a penpal  | |||
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"Okay let me explain in abit more detail I was happily looking for someone just to chat and vibe with almost become friends no expectations just good vibes. It’s almost as if when you tell people this they don’t believe you due to past experiences this site doesn’t have to be all about sex sometimes I just want good company real life or phone You might be better off going to the pub and meeting people there." The chat rooms can be like going to the pub. Maybe try there OP? There can be some really funny and interesting convos to get involved in and many friendships are made that way. | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? Good luck op with whatever you do" My reply would be the exact same. | |||
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"Okay let me explain in abit more detail I was happily looking for someone just to chat and vibe with almost become friends no expectations just good vibes. It’s almost as if when you tell people this they don’t believe you due to past experiences this site doesn’t have to be all about sex sometimes I just want good company real life or phone You might be better off going to the pub and meeting people there. The chat rooms can be like going to the pub. Maybe try there OP? There can be some really funny and interesting convos to get involved in and many friendships are made that way. " This is true. Good shout. | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? Good luck op with whatever you do My reply would be the exact same." Excellent  | |||
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"so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones " Of course, no woman is able to separate the wheat from the chaff 
Individuals of any sex are only able ruin things for themselves. | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? Good luck op with whatever you do" My reply would have been the same but I definitely agree the general mood of the responses would have been different | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? Good luck op with whatever you do" No because theyd all be trying to get into her filthy nickers! | |||
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"No one else is ruining it for you. It is what you make it!" Couldn't agree more | |||
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"It’s almost as if when you tell people this they don’t believe you" So no one actually said that?  | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? " Yes, I would. Anyone looking for 'no one wants to meet me' sympathy is just posting a boring look at me thread | |||
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"Kinda had enough of the site so took all my pictures down. What happened to the art of conversation so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones " -that'll learn em | |||
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"Kinda had enough of the site so took all my pictures down. What happened to the art of conversation so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones -that'll learn em" Best reply so far | |||
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"Kinda had enough of the site so took all my pictures down. What happened to the art of conversation so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones " Ooohhhh... I'm so nice. Other guy's aren't. Boo hoo hoo | |||
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"Kinda had enough of the site so took all my pictures down. What happened to the art of conversation so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones Ooohhhh... I'm so nice. Other guy's aren't. Boo hoo hoo" I'm the only knight in shining armour left on this site... | |||
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"Kinda had enough of the site so took all my pictures down. What happened to the art of conversation so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones Ooohhhh... I'm so nice. Other guy's aren't. Boo hoo hoo I'm the only knight in shining armour left on this site... " No. I am. | |||
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"Kinda had enough of the site so took all my pictures down. What happened to the art of conversation so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones Ooohhhh... I'm so nice. Other guy's aren't. Boo hoo hoo I'm the only knight in shining armour left on this site... No. I am. " Ladies don't listen to this fellow he's a crook. I am the only knight left, follow me. | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? Yes, I would. Anyone looking for 'no one wants to meet me' sympathy is just posting a boring look at me thread "True. I've said before that it's hard work, only to be told I'm obviously not doing it right/I'm talking to the wrong people | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? Good luck op with whatever you do" Tbf, I often ask this question, both of myself and others, but in this instance the answer is yes. Blaming other people because you are not popular is not cool in my book. Mr | |||
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"Kinda had enough of the site so took all my pictures down. What happened to the art of conversation so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones " I can understand where you're coming from. You seem like a sensitive chap. . People's feelings do get hurt, or sometimes you feel a low esteem. You'll get over it. There are nice and not so nice people on here and everywhere else. Forget the ones you don't click with and concentrate on the positive ones. Keep a little something back and don't offer to much of yourself or expect the same from others until your both confident with each other. Best wishes | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? Yes, I would. Anyone looking for 'no one wants to meet me' sympathy is just posting a boring look at me thread "That's not necessarily true, some people simply want to express their experiences...there are many threads opened about the same thing (nasty/rude/abusive men) by women, that mention how hard it is for them to find the right guy, because of these men, so there is truth to what he says... Both men and women should be allowed to express their experiences and their feelings about their experiences in the forums, without being approached with animosity, ridicul or passive aggressiveness (not saying you did that, I'm saying some of the comments are like that) | |||
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"Most “friendships” on here either exist or started based on the desire of at least one side wanting to bang the other." I disagree, I think meeting people socially is how friendships form | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? That's not necessarily true, some people simply want to express their experiences...there are many threads opened about the same thing (nasty/rude/abusive men) by women, that mention how hard it is for them to find the right guy, because of these men, so there is truth to what he says... Both men and women should be allowed to express their experiences and their feelings about their experiences in the forums, without being approached with animosity, ridicul or passive aggressiveness (not saying you did that, I'm saying some of the comments are like that)" The question was "If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same??" My answer was "Yes, I would. Anyone looking for 'no one wants to meet me' sympathy is just posting a boring look at me thread ".
So I am telling you it is true because that is what I would do.
If you judge my potential action to be wrong that's your problem not mine at all. | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? That's not necessarily true, some people simply want to express their experiences...there are many threads opened about the same thing (nasty/rude/abusive men) by women, that mention how hard it is for them to find the right guy, because of these men, so there is truth to what he says... Both men and women should be allowed to express their experiences and their feelings about their experiences in the forums, without being approached with animosity, ridicul or passive aggressiveness (not saying you did that, I'm saying some of the comments are like that) The question was "If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same??" My answer was "Yes, I would. Anyone looking for 'no one wants to meet me' sympathy is just posting a boring look at me thread ".
So I am telling you it is true because that is what I would do.
If you judge my potential action to be wrong that's your problem not mine at all."There's no problem...I'm not disputing the fact that you would give the same reply to both men and women . I'm simply saying not all threads like this are about "no one wants me" sympathy...some people simply want to express themselves and what they have gone through on fab | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? Yes, I would. Anyone looking for 'no one wants to meet me' sympathy is just posting a boring look at me thread
That's not necessarily true, some people simply want to express their experiences...there are many threads opened about the same thing (nasty/rude/abusive men) by women, that mention how hard it is for them to find the right guy, because of these men, so there is truth to what he says...
Both men and women should be allowed to express their experiences and their feelings about their experiences in the forums, without being approached with animosity, ridicul or passive aggressiveness (not saying you did that, I'm saying some of the comments are like that)"Posting about your experiences is very different to blaming other people for your lack of success. To use your example, if a woman posted about receiving abusive messages and blamed the fact she got them on the behaviour of other women on the site I'm quite certain she'd get an absolute flaming. Mr | |||
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"I'm simply saying not all threads like this are about "no one wants me" sympathy...some people simply want to express themselves and what they have gone through on fab " I didn't say that either. But most are. | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? That's not necessarily true, some people simply want to express their experiences...there are many threads opened about the same thing (nasty/rude/abusive men) by women, that mention how hard it is for them to find the right guy, because of these men, so there is truth to what he says... Both men and women should be allowed to express their experiences and their feelings about their experiences in the forums, without being approached with animosity, ridicul or passive aggressiveness (not saying you did that, I'm saying some of the comments are like that) The question was "If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same??" My answer was "Yes, I would. Anyone looking for 'no one wants to meet me' sympathy is just posting a boring look at me thread ".
So I am telling you it is true because that is what I would do.
If you judge my potential action to be wrong that's your problem not mine at all.
There's no problem...I'm not disputing the fact that you would give the same reply to both men and women . I'm simply saying not all threads like this are about "no one wants me" sympathy...some people simply want to express themselves and what they have gone through on fab " | |||
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"Posting about your experiences is very different to blaming other people for your lack of success. To use your example, if a woman posted about receiving abusive messages and blamed the fact she got them on the behaviour of other women on the site I'm quite certain she'd get an absolute flaming. Mr" | |||
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"Just a thought If a woman posted this …. A popular, regular poster - would you all reply the same?? Yes, I would. Anyone looking for 'no one wants to meet me' sympathy is just posting a boring look at me thread
That's not necessarily true, some people simply want to express their experiences...there are many threads opened about the same thing (nasty/rude/abusive men) by women, that mention how hard it is for them to find the right guy, because of these men, so there is truth to what he says...
Both men and women should be allowed to express their experiences and their feelings about their experiences in the forums, without being approached with animosity, ridicul or passive aggressiveness (not saying you did that, I'm saying some of the comments are like that)
Posting about your experiences is very different to blaming other people for your lack of success. To use your example, if a woman posted about receiving abusive messages and blamed the fact she got them on the behaviour of other women on the site I'm quite certain she'd get an absolute flaming.
Mr"We can agree to disagree ...I personally don't see him blaming those men, I see him mentioning a factor that makes his experience on fab... not the best. I agree that it's the incorrect approach, and everyone on fab should focus on themselves, but I also believe people should open any thread they want ( as long as it's not racist, homophobic, sexist or offensive) and again, although his approach might be wrong, we can most certainly try and tell him that in a more positive way... but again, we can agree to disagree. Enjoy your evening | |||
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"I don’t really think some men spoil it for others. You can only be yourself and if someone likes what they see/read then they will chat. I hope you find what you’re looking for OP "looking for everything he deleted probably.
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"Kinda had enough of the site so took all my pictures down. What happened to the art of conversation so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones " The rude men do piss people off. Makes them angry, less likely to reply to even polite messages. The rude men who are abusive can make people stop meeting because they feel shit. | |||
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"Kinda had enough of the site so took all my pictures down. What happened to the art of conversation so many rude guys ruining it for us good ones " Yeah that can happen on here unfortunately | |||
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