FabSwingers.com forum: Making good friends on fab

By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Yes Over the years I had made some real good friends on fab.

Not everyone you talk to on here or meet in the flesh you going to fuck

So why do you get folk on think if you talking to some one it will lead to sex in the bedroom

so why the idea of they are time wasters if they dont drop their kninckers

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not sure. I see a time waster as someone who chats for ages with the intention to meet then just disappears or someone who doesn’t turn up when arranged to meet. Never been called a time waster just because I didn’t want to have sex or meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people think the site is all about meeting and banging then never speaking again, I’ve been called a lot of names for saying I want a social meet first…. Don’t dwell on the negativity, use the block button and carry on doing what makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people come in to fab thinking it’s insta shag witch is far from the truth

From my prospective I see a time waster is someone who talks about meeting but ever compromise you make to make it happen something comes up

Like ie

Distance is two far

Ok my answer to that is ok well I don’t mind traveling for a lovely night even if it dosent go to the bed room it’s still a wonderful day or night out

Ok so we sorted that out now it’s ooo I am not free at any point

Or I see a time waster as someone who says they turn up and dose not

Or pulls out at the last second yes I understand real world stuff can come up but I mean come on how I unlucky do you have to be

For that to happen with multiple people

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

People have different ideas about how the site should be used.

I'm not really looking for friends/penpals. So just chatting doesn't interest me. I only talk to people I want to meet, but not necessarily shag.

Time wasters are those who ask to or arrange to social/meet and then don't organise anything or turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its entitlement on some peoples part, they are here for sex, so if you're not offering the sex, you’re wasting their time.

As others have said a time waster is someone who plans meets and doenst show or keeps cancelling but keeps messaging to meet.

Nothing wrong with getting to know someone before sharing your body with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I see a time waster as someone who chats for ages with the intention to meet then just disappears or someone who doesn’t turn up when arranged to meet. Never been called a time waster just because I didn’t want to have sex or meet again. "

Correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always up making friends on fabguy and swingers. but sadly there are so many arrogant and disrespectful people on here is hard to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have suffered abuse because I didn't want to meet someone... Had 4 men in the space of a week turn abusive. One even messaged me here, a dating site and left an abusive veri.

I like talking to someone before meeting, I feel I get a good idea as to whether we'd be compatible or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have suffered abuse because I didn't want to meet someone... Had 4 men in the space of a week turn abusive. One even messaged me here, a dating site and left an abusive veri.

I like talking to someone before meeting, I feel I get a good idea as to whether we'd be compatible or not. "

sorry to hear about your abuse on this site and yes I agree with you it's nice to have a conversation with somebody beforehand you can get some basic info about them

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I made extremely good friends here to the point i can say better friends than the fakes ones out from fabs. My friends here are more honest , more friendship, more respectful, more real , more supportive, true real friends

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

While I can't say I've made good friends on here I did once tell a guy I wanted to chat before meeting to see if there was any common ground (pointless meeting up if we're after completely different things).

He told me that sounded a lot of effort and blocked me

I guess some people just want immediate sex and anything else is viewed as a waste of their time. It's not for me but it takes all sorts I guess.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I have made some true friends on here. Amongst those who appreciate the social aspect of swinging.

The instashag crowd can do one

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Met a few amazing people and friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a couple of good lady friends through fab,one I see now & again,the other had health problems & has sadly passed away,I wouldn't have met either of them if it wasn't for swinging. They definitely enriched my life.

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