FabSwingers.com forum: How much are you really

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In control.

Men have you ever declined sex?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’m in control of the things I can be.

And yes I have declined offers or requests for sex or sexual acts in favour of doing something else.

I am not driven or controlled by my loins.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I feel very much in control I've declined offers twice in the past week

I'm certainly not desperate and I play when I want to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in control and I have declined sex

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

I've declined offers many a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Totally.

I've refused wine and KFC for at least a week.

Sadly, sex I never refuse, it's a heavy cross to bear.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes regularly, but there’s also people I can’t say no to !

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"In control.

Men have you ever declined sex?

Not exactly declined as such. Many years ago I was wanting to break up with the then current girlfriend. She had a decent body and we had OK sex, nothing earth shattering, just OK. The relationship wasn't going anywhere. I was going to go to hers one evening but I thought we'll just end up having sex rather than break up. So I stayed at home. We broke up a couple of days later.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Men have declined sex with me.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"Men have declined sex with me. "

They must be mad! I definitely wouldn't decline sex with you. You're more likely to decline it with me as I'm above your age limit, but you never know

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"In control.

Men have you ever declined sex?

Yes, I am fully in control of who I have sex with, and I have declined it.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Men have also declined sex with me.

I’ve never assumed that just because it’s offered, it would happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip I am in control and yes I turn sex down on a daly basics multiple times a day

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By *68xMan
over a year ago

Cheadle , S.O.T.

Many times, I'm not driven by sex

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes I have. No spark and pointless in all cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. I've not had an offer of sex to decline

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"In control.

Men have you ever declined sex?

Yes, I am fully in control of who I have sex with, and I have declined it."

I should clarify as that sounded arrogant, there are of course people who I would have liked to sleep with, but who didn't fancy me! But I can't control that!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"In control.

Men have you ever declined sex?

Yes, I am fully in control of who I have sex with, and I have declined it.

I should clarify as that sounded arrogant, there are of course people who I would have liked to sleep with, but who didn't fancy me! But I can't control that!"

I didn't think it sounded arrogant

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"In control.

Men have you ever declined sex?

Yes, I am fully in control of who I have sex with, and I have declined it.

I should clarify as that sounded arrogant, there are of course people who I would have liked to sleep with, but who didn't fancy me! But I can't control that!

I didn't think it sounded arrogant

Thank you. Just wouldn't want to fall foul of that cardinal sin. But just wanted to make clear I'm fully aware there are lots of people who don't want to have sex with me, which is very much outside of my control...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men have also declined sex with me.

I’ve never assumed that just because it’s offered, it would happen. "

Same!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"In control.

Men have you ever declined sex?

Yes, I am fully in control of who I have sex with, and I have declined it.

I should clarify as that sounded arrogant, there are of course people who I would have liked to sleep with, but who didn't fancy me! But I can't control that!

I didn't think it sounded arrogant

Exactly, it happens to us all

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes I've turned women down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in control

I’ve turned men down, I’ve turned women down… they’ve turned me down.

You can’t be attractive to everyone, and to be fair, I’d prefer to be told no, than to have a pity fuck

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"Men have declined sex with me. "

I find that very hard to believe

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"Men have also declined sex with me.

I’ve never assumed that just because it’s offered, it would happen. "

That cannot be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

I’m not sure if anyone with any standards hasn’t said no at some point in time

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've never been declined sex. That's not because I'm Bilquis though; someone can turn anyone down regardless of their looks. Men aren't walking erections and I'd rather they were open and didn't just fill a hole because they needed to spaff (unless both parties wanted that, obviously).

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've had men decline, but it was more of a "punishment" of denying affection than anything to do with control on their part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no. I count my blessings and dive in before they change their mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decline sex surprisingly often in this new world im usually too busy others there was not enough spark or enough excitement to do it

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