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Street approach,spontanious chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who has done street approach, spontaniously with confidence reward being a positive outcome?

Maybe a few lads do a city approach who has the Minerals to do that!

London here we come!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

In the olden days when I was a lass men would frequently, *respectfully* approach me in the street , at bus stops, in supermarkets etc. If they were disrespectful or creepy they were kicked into touch asap. The art of genuine interaction between men and women seems to have been lost somewhere along the line and it's become unusual. I guess people do it on line now

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’d love to be properly chatted up. Non creepy, just forthright, clear and non-smutty. But alas alack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never do this lmao. And also from what I’ve read from women online, they don’t want you to do this unless you look like Tom Hardy or Anthony Joshua.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’d love to be properly chatted up. Non creepy, just forthright, clear and non-smutty. But alas alack. "

Does this happen any more? I hope so, it was part of what made the world go round

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I would never do this lmao. And also from what I’ve read from women online, they don’t want you to do this unless you look like Tom Hardy or Anthony Joshua. "

This makes me feel a bit sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never do this lmao. And also from what I’ve read from women online, they don’t want you to do this unless you look like Tom Hardy or Anthony Joshua.

This makes me feel a bit sad"

Nah it’s ok. The beauty of apps like tinder is that you know the woman finds you attractive before you chat her up.

In all seriousness the internet isn’t so bad. My partner of 7 and a half years and I got to where we are because of a DM on twitter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the olden days when I was a lass men would frequently, *respectfully* approach me in the street , at bus stops, in supermarkets etc. If they were disrespectful or creepy they were kicked into touch asap. The art of genuine interaction between men and women seems to have been lost somewhere along the line and it's become unusual. I guess people do it on line now"

Nice your still a lassy deep down really heh!!

I full well know what you mean the art of chat,flirt eye contact etc is very fast being lost.

I done a post about 1 week ago om the topic of eye contact,tone of voice,body language etc.

I am baffled how does that all come across online in typing? I beg to differ many segments of quality are lost on here. Via just typing.

A phone,keyboard,online is a good tool, as and when used for its true designed purpose.

Iam still old skool for face to face chat laughs,eye contact,pure hugs and pleasures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d love to be properly chatted up. Non creepy, just forthright, clear and non-smutty. But alas alack. "

There you go. I agree. All good chatty men step up and chat this lady up in her area asap.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I would never do this lmao. And also from what I’ve read from women online, they don’t want you to do this unless you look like Tom Hardy or Anthony Joshua.

This makes me feel a bit sad

Nah it’s ok. The beauty of apps like tinder is that you know the woman finds you attractive before you chat her up.

In all seriousness the internet isn’t so bad. My partner of 7 and a half years and I got to where we are because of a DM on twitter. "

I agree the internet isn't so bad...here I am after all . I look back on my late teens, early twenties with fondness though, the sparky interaction and verbal sparring

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d love to be properly chatted up. Non creepy, just forthright, clear and non-smutty. But alas alack.

Does this happen any more? I hope so, it was part of what made the world go round "

I agree. Iam still in the mìx game and in practise.

Non creepy,non smutty etc

All natural.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would never do this lmao. And also from what I’ve read from women online, they don’t want you to do this unless you look like Tom Hardy or Anthony Joshua.

This makes me feel a bit sad"

It is sad. Many people throw actors and famous names about.

I love your everyday people to meet chat etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General chit chat is fine depending on the situation but I wouldn't want someone to just randomly start chatting me up. I'd walk away, very quickly, in the other direction.

Pxx

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"I would never do this lmao. And also from what I’ve read from women online, they don’t want you to do this unless you look like Tom Hardy or Anthony Joshua.

This makes me feel a bit sad

Nah it’s ok. The beauty of apps like tinder is that you know the woman finds you attractive before you chat her up.

In all seriousness the internet isn’t so bad. My partner of 7 and a half years and I got to where we are because of a DM on twitter. "

The sad thing about those apps is that many of the guys women swipe no on, if that guy confidently approached them with a smile and a warm greeting on the street, they’d fucking melt

These apps boil everyone down into a 2 second “yes” or “no” with zero context

They’re good apps, but it’s a shame we can’t have both (street approach and apps)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would never do this lmao. And also from what I’ve read from women online, they don’t want you to do this unless you look like Tom Hardy or Anthony Joshua.

This makes me feel a bit sad

Nah it’s ok. The beauty of apps like tinder is that you know the woman finds you attractive before you chat her up.

In all seriousness the internet isn’t so bad. My partner of 7 and a half years and I got to where we are because of a DM on twitter.

The sad thing about those apps is that many of the guys women swipe no on, if that guy confidently approached them with a smile and a warm greeting on the street, they’d fucking melt

These apps boil everyone down into a 2 second “yes” or “no” with zero context

They’re good apps, but it’s a shame we can’t have both (street approach and apps) "

The downfall can be seen clearly tbh.

I dread whats to come.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"General chit chat is fine depending on the situation but I wouldn't want someone to just randomly start chatting me up. I'd walk away, very quickly, in the other direction.

Pxx"

Did your other half,chat you up?

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I tend to chat up when one is in a bar/club it’s so much much fun in reflex bars where 70s/80s/90s music plays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"General chit chat is fine depending on the situation but I wouldn't want someone to just randomly start chatting me up. I'd walk away, very quickly, in the other direction.

Pxx

Did your other half,chat you up? "

Not randomly in the street, we met on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Chat up should be a free flow style expressed being anywhere taking the surroundings in and being natural.

I used to visit many many bars clubs,house parties within london and further. The music was always too loud to chat or get your lyrics across.

I have chatted with many via approach on the london underground,on the street,anywhere and everywhere, good eye contact,confident body languge etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"General chit chat is fine depending on the situation but I wouldn't want someone to just randomly start chatting me up. I'd walk away, very quickly, in the other direction.

Pxx

Did your other half,chat you up?

Not randomly in the street, we met on here "

Ok cool. Via messages.

Its worked for you both, a succes story.

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