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By *atnip make me purr OP Woman
over a year ago

Reading

Really explicit messages?

Instablock for me but do they ever work?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Not for me. Instant turn off when someone sends a sixteen page message that sets out exactly what scenario they want to see me in, what they're going to do to me and how I'm going to react.

Instablock here too.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

From someone I really fancy? Yes

From someone I don’t fancy? No

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm not a fan, particularly in an opening message.

If you wouldn't say it to a woman you'd just met in real life then don't use it to open a conversation with me on here.

I appreciate other people may feel differently, but I'm clear in my profile those are the messages I'm most likely to delete without response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually when this happens, it's someone trying to live out their sex novels. I can't imagine any woman would appreciate just being an extra in their fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone actually read the ones that are about 5 paragraphs long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From someone I really fancy? Yes

From someone I don’t fancy? No "

Pretty much sums it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone actually read the ones that are about 5 paragraphs long?"

I save these for my bedtime reading.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I'm sure some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really explicit messages?

Instablock for me but do they ever work?

Never had one as a opening message, but im open to offers if anyone wants to test me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really explicit messages?

Instablock for me but do they ever work?

No, it's generally a copy/paste for a start..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as a first message it's showing disrespect, the the person who receives it, I always send a message introducing myself, then letting the lady set the tone as to how our messages proceed there after, reading their profile normally gives me an idea as to how a approach a lady

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

If the fifteenth or twentieth message is explicit, I quite like it so long as there has been some build-up. A first explicit message could come from Eva Green or Ava Gardner and it would still turn me off.

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

"If the fifteenth or twentieth message is explicit, I quite like it so long as there has been some build-up. A first explicit message could come from Eva Green or Ava Gardner and it would still turn me off."

Of course, what with Gardner being dead, I would notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely. Usually they make me want to hurl. Occasionally though, when timed correctly and just the right subject matter from the right type of guy they’ve worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone actually like anything on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone actually like anything on here?

There are certain things Woody

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I had a lengthy Mills & Boone sent 3 times by the the same guy. They were deleted each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I don't even read them all.

It tells me it's all about them and they're pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a lengthy Mills & Boone sent 3 times by the the same guy. They were deleted each time. "

We’re they the same chapters or the story progresses? You need to know how it ends surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nothing for me.

These messages tend to be cut and paste jobs, totally impersonal and about as erotic as reading the phone book (showing my age with that reference lol)

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

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"Really explicit messages?

Instablock for me but do they ever work?

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I wouldn't know, but you wouldn't get one from me, I don't message people if I'm out of their preference range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on if they’ve bothered to read your profile, match likes/dislikes, given thought to their message and sincerity...

whilst the realms of fantasy are sometimes fun to read I do prefer to keep it real (can do and will do)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really explicit messages?

Instablock for me but do they ever work?

Dammit I was just about to send you one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From someone I really fancy? Yes

From someone I don’t fancy? No "

yep, it’s the same criteria that distinguishes someone from flirting or harassing, or being “cheeky” to being a creep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually when this happens, it's someone trying to live out their sex novels. I can't imagine any woman would appreciate just being an extra in their fantasy."

Maybe they just want to share given they have read a profile fully

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

From someone I will be or are hoping to be explicit with, in person, yes... A message before this is certain, no... As a first message it turns my stomach

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Instant delete and if they send another then blocked.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Does anyone actually like anything on here?

Respect... I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone actually read the ones that are about 5 paragraphs long?"

I reply to those specifically to say I didn't read any of that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really explicit messages?

Instablock for me but do they ever work?

Some people do like them so they will work for them.

Site is full of sex pics, sex menus, sex reviews. Not surprised they send sex chat.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

If either of us invite it during a on going conversation great! If unsolicited however, No!!

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Really explicit messages?

Instablock for me but do they ever work?

They've never worked for me. I Instablock.

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By *aka12345Couple
over a year ago

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I do love them and welcome them at the appropriate time xx mrs k xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No xx

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By *atnip make me purr OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Really explicit messages?

Instablock for me but do they ever work?

Dammit I was just about to send you one

Liar!

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By *atnip make me purr OP Woman
over a year ago

Reading

Thanks for all the replies. It's mostly a no but there are some women who might like it so I guess crack on guys

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"I had a lengthy Mills & Boone sent 3 times by the the same guy. They were deleted each time.

We’re they the same chapters or the story progresses? You need to know how it ends surely? "

Cut and paste job. Exactly the same each time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really explicit messages?

Instablock for me but do they ever work?

Dammit I was just about to send you one

Liar!"

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

If it's not something you'd say to me in a public place out loud, I'm not interested

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope ,from someone I've never spoken to instant delete .

They make me cringe some of them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Does anyone actually read the ones that are about 5 paragraphs long?"

Occasionally I edit them for my own amusement

I don't send them back. I just fix them then delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thread is titled " Do woman like". Are the guys answering in transition..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them as it shows that that they have read and understand my profile.

What I can stand is the I want to make love to you messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it! I had an explicit message earlier off this guy & I replied did he think it was right to send a message like & he replied back what did I expect something from 50 shades of grey he’s now blocked!

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over a year ago

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By *ouple4PlayXCouple
over a year ago

Essex

I prefer to the softer approach and get to know a guy, nothing more of a turn off than "fucking he'll I'd love to see those tits" etc as a first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a lengthy Mills & Boone sent 3 times by the the same guy. They were deleted each time.

We’re they the same chapters or the story progresses? You need to know how it ends surely?

Cut and paste job. Exactly the same each time "

Noooo. I thought it was going to be progressive and worth sticking with.

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