FabSwingers.com forum: Dealbreakers....

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they send a face pic sometimes it is enough to change my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you ok with blue waffle?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure he could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they send a face pic sometimes it is enough to change my mind

Ide never agree to a meet without first seeing a face pic

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

A face pic can be deceiving though...however id have to say face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

"D'ya mind if I bring me ferret...?"

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Bad teeth would put me right off for starters...

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

"D'ya mind if I bring me ferret...?"

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Lol....is it on a lead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

If the person in question has prior convictions for stabbing men in the genitals!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

'Can you bring a female friend?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

"D'ya mind if I bring me ferret...?"

Lol....is it on a lead?

Have to be in a flippin cage and left on the car!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

"D'ya mind if I bring me ferret...?"

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love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Can you bring a female friend?'

Yes but your hard enough to satisfy without another being there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing

Bad teeth

Body odour

Chain smoking

Drugs

All deal breakers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

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This one is true (for once!) - woman I met through another site arranged to meet a guy who asked her if she knew is there "was anywhere at the restaurant where they were meeting for his mobility scooter". She just laughed, thinking he was joking.

She had already got to the restaurant and had been shown to the table, when she saw the bus draw up outside. Moments later the front door of the restaurant opened and in rolled the guy (face pic matched) on a mobility scooter.... with his false leg strapped to the back....

She never assumed anything was a joke after that.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive agreed to meet a few guys and i've told them after ive changed my mind

things that have put me off are

they start telling you what to wear

They keep asking what you will do to them on the meet like its a script from eastenders

They change the way they speak to you once you have agreed like they now have you so dont need to be nice anymore

They ask you to se if you can find another women to join us

theres a few things that put me off

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"'Can you bring a female friend?'

Yes but your hard enough to satisfy without another being there "

Exactly. Julia doesn't share men!

Seriously though, its a real turn off. It makes me think that the guy already thinks I will be no good and will need a back-up.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have to say bad dress sense does that make me mean??

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Boasting about their track record in the open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to say bad dress sense does that make me mean??"

That's me screwed then!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"ok to bring the chicken?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mess me about with where and when to meet, keep asking about my past sexual history etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath, poor etiquette (I should cum first right?!?) and I'm sorry to say a small cock...

But the big one for me (no pun intended) is someone who uses correct grammar and can spell! I'm waiting to be shot down in flames for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad breath, poor etiquette (I should cum first right?!?) and I'm sorry to say a small cock...

But the big one for me (no pun intended) is someone who uses correct grammar and can spell! I'm waiting to be shot down in flames for that!"

So a deal breaker is someone who CAN spell and understands ',;()! and ?' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

posting on here that a meet was arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy who asked me if I could just pop out for an hour and leave my son at home! My son is 7!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy who asked me if I could just pop out for an hour and leave my son at home! My son is 7!!!!"

What a muppet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad breath, poor etiquette (I should cum first right?!?) and I'm sorry to say a small cock...

But the big one for me (no pun intended) is someone who uses correct grammar and can spell! I'm waiting to be shot down in flames for that!

So a deal breaker is someone who CAN spell and understands ',;()! and ?' ?"

Yes, I can't understand text speak so I don't reply to messages like that thus being a dealbreaker

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"No kissing

Bad teeth

Body odour

Chain smoking

Drugs

All deal breakers"
plus dirty houses ewwwwwww

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I had a guy who asked me if I could just pop out for an hour and leave my son at home! My son is 7!!!!"

Oh god I forgot the guys who ask about my daughter. Thats not a dealbreaker, more of an instant block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When - an hour before the meet - the "sorry but the wife/gf can't make it - you don't mind just me?" Message arrives !

Or when there's a last minute change of venue - to a dark and spooky forest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty Houses

And (true story but not on here)

People who you meet for a social, chat to for ages arrange to meet and then "confess" just before that everything they have told you about themselves and their life is actually a lie and they are "seeing each other" without their partners knowing.

Don't mind what people do with their lives. Do mind people fabricating an entire life to meet you when there was no need

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The guys who say "it's alright if I bring a friend isn't it?"

I don't care if the friend is male or female, if I wanted a threesome I'd have asked for one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

We have had a couple who on talking no the phone kept butting in and were a little regressive and we changed out minds about meeting there and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mum would like to attend our first meet so she can start planning colour schemes for the wedding."

~ ZIIIIIIIIIIPPP!!! I'm outta here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

This one is true (for once!) - woman I met through another site arranged to meet a guy who asked her if she knew is there "was anywhere at the restaurant where they were meeting for his mobility scooter". She just laughed, thinking he was joking.

She never assumed anything was a joke after that.....

Omg - you're pulling my leg chic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she looked like a Russian shot putter? People that don't take care of themselves are a turn off for me ...

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Maybe not telling us about your skin complaint until you we're undressing....that may do it...

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Maybe not telling us about your skin complaint until you we're undressing....that may do it...

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Myabe they were embarrassed?

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By *ukus 62Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"ive agreed to meet a few guys and i've told them after ive changed my mind

things that have put me off are

they start telling you what to wear

They keep asking what you will do to them on the meet like its a script from eastenders

They change the way they speak to you once you have agreed like they now have you so dont need to be nice anymore

They ask you to se if you can find another women to join us

theres a few things that put me off

totally true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe not telling us about your skin complaint until you we're undressing....that may do it...

Ohhh dear I would hope someone would tell you about something like that long before that stage.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Halitosis would put me right the fuck off..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Living in Hove.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Halitosis would put me right the fuck off..

I think that would put 99% off

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Halitosis would put me right the fuck off..

I think that would put 99% off

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Apparently not all though...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So you think.."yeah, i wanna meet xxxxx..." what would they do/say to make you change your mind and decline politely?

If they say "so what ya gonna do to me then?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Halitosis would put me right the fuck off..

I think that would put 99% off

Apparently not all though...

No no no surely everyone bushes, uses mouth wash and makes sure they have a non replant mouth.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Halitosis would put me right the fuck off..

I think that would put 99% off

Apparently not all though...

No no no surely everyone bushes, uses mouth wash and makes sure they have a non replant mouth.

But what if they also lived in Hove?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"'Can you bring a female friend?'

Had that. Cheeky fucker didn't accommodate and wanted to know if he could bring a bi Domme along. As I'm straight and there's not a Travelodge sign outside my house he was told where to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Halitosis would put me right the fuck off..

I think that would put 99% off

Apparently not all though...

No no no surely everyone bushes, uses mouth wash and makes sure they have a non replant mouth.

But what if they also lived in Hove?"

Lol is Hove really that bad or the residents anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when they ask if they can come round while my kids are in bed

i just find it really really offensive that men on here have such a low opinion of women they think they will shag strangers with their kids in the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when they ask if they can come round while my kids are in bed

i just find it really really offensive that men on here have such a low opinion of women they think they will shag strangers with their kids in the house

It's not just women. We get this as a couple from couples as well.

Not going to happen

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