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Getting blood from a stone

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By *orny1-4u OP   Man
over a year ago

newcastle

You message a couple of people and start a convo but it's like pulling teeth with candy floss you ask some questions and get yes or no or other one worded replies anyone else get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no"

The humour is lost on you all, really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You message a couple of people and start a convo but it's like pulling teeth with candy floss you ask some questions and get yes or no or other one worded replies anyone else get this"

I’d take that as they are trying to be polite but aren’t interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone gives you these replies then stop replying. No point talking to people that aren’t giving you anything back. Same as real life. Don’t do it to yourself.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We get this and assume they're not interested but don't like to say so, we just stop messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You message a couple of people and start a convo but it's like pulling teeth with candy floss you ask some questions and get yes or no or other one worded replies anyone else get this

I’d take that as they are trying to be polite but aren’t interested "

This also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I lose interest really quickly.. sack it off and move on.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"You message a couple of people and start a convo but it's like pulling teeth with candy floss you ask some questions and get yes or no or other one worded replies anyone else get this

I’d take that as they are trying to be polite but aren’t interested

This also. "

This also too

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By *orny1-4u OP   Man
over a year ago

newcastle

[Removed by poster at 25/05/22 17:18:51]

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By *orny1-4u OP   Man
over a year ago

newcastle


"Yes and I lose interest really quickly.. sack it off and move on."

That's what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My answers always reflect the effort put in. That includes whether they’ve read my profile or not. If the answer is on there, it’s where they are directed. If the question is short, the answer is, and I don’t respond if it’s not a naturally flowing conversation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking yes or no questions?

Ask open questions and you might get better answers. If not then they’re definitely not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer romancing the stone

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Think most people have had this is past we presume either their busy or they are not into us and the conversation.Either way it’s fine we just stop messaging them .

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By *uskWandererMan
over a year ago

Ormskirk

I get it when say you've contacted them first and you think "Ah, they don't want to say sorry not for me"

But when they've contacted you, asked a question got a fairly in-depth answer back only to get "Totally." Or something similar, it's like, well conversation ends here unless you give me something more.

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By *orny1-4u OP   Man
over a year ago

newcastle

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nah I don't message anyone

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Can't say I have that problem

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

These kind of replies are why I'm totally fine with people just ignoring/deleting my messages.

Would much rather no reply than an obviously uninterested one.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"no"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You message a couple of people and start a convo but it's like pulling teeth with candy floss you ask some questions and get yes or no or other one worded replies anyone else get this"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they reply with yes / no / dunno / lol I assume:

a. I'm not for them and move on.

b. They are certainly not what I'm looking for and move on.

Effort/reward and all that. If someone can't write a reasonable reply then I presume I'm not what they are looking for but they are keeping their options open. If conversation doesn't flow on her, I shudder to think what happens at a meet...

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I find it odd coming from someone who initiated contact.

Frank

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