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Bought a lass flowers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve been kinda hooked on one of my friends for the last few months, although she’s said we’re friends and it’d be weird if anything got serious she’s still an outrageous flirt with me, at the weekend she told me she’s never been on a date and never been given flowers so my brain went into overload. Sunday night I ordered a bouquet of flowers in her favourite colours and had them delivered to her door simply because she’d never been given any. It wasn’t meant as a gesture to win her over or something like that it was seen as an innocent sentimental thing for a friend. Am I mad or has anyone else had or done something like this in the past?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Clean break mate, don't see her for a while. It'll F your head if you keep longing for her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clean break mate, don't see her for a while. It'll F your head if you keep longing for her. "

It actually got taken in a good way which surprised me, normally I’d completely agree with you but this is the sorta crazy person you don’t give up on easy

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Aww that's a nice thing to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done something similar in the past. A rey long time ago. With no expectations of anything happening (hopped it would like you). Aaaand. Bothe times nothing did happen. as long as you think not was worth the effort of making someone feel good (I did and do). Your not crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder what the next "I've never had before" thing she mentions.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I'd be interested to know what happens next, if the Op is willing to share that is.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

You’re going to get hurt.

You say that it was an innocent thing to buy her flowers… if a make friend had said that, would you have bought him some?

The act might have been without direct intent but the desire to further things and your wish to be with her is affecting things.

If she has said that she’s not interested, believe her. To continue against her wishes is creepy. It doesn’t matter if she flirty, that’s probably who she is. Step back and away. This is going to end badly

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Be wary you don’t fall into covert contract territory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder what the next "I've never had before" thing she mentions. "

A weekend trip shopping in Paris ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re going to get hurt.

You say that it was an innocent thing to buy her flowers… if a make friend had said that, would you have bought him some?

The act might have been without direct intent but the desire to further things and your wish to be with her is affecting things.

If she has said that she’s not interested, believe her. To continue against her wishes is creepy. It doesn’t matter if she flirty, that’s probably who she is. Step back and away. This is going to end badly"

This, a thousand times over. If you can't respect her wish to just be friends, leave her the fuck alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternatively, she could be one of those women who gets off on yanking a man's chain when she knows he's keen, either way, can't end well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be interested to know what happens next, if the Op is willing to share that is."

It was actually taken quite well, we’ve know each other for well over ten years and have been close friends for just as long but shall have to see what happens next

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"I'd be interested to know what happens next, if the Op is willing to share that is.

It was actually taken quite well, we’ve know each other for well over ten years and have been close friends for just as long but shall have to see what happens next"

Thank you.

Well, if you have been close friends for so long and still nothing romantic has happened, doesn't that send a clear message?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Turns out once in a while everyone gets lucky eventually and I’ll leave it at that

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