FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked list

By *aughtyforcouples OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

I'm a single fella on here, my blocked list means its like a deserted wasteland on here! So the dilemma is:

1. Should I lower my standards to get a chance of more action

2. Carry on regardless and only meet peeps of suitable standards

What would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or 3. Join Tinder

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

That's really up to you

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Announce I’m lowering my standards publicly then wonder why no one is interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the action that important to you that you want it from people you're not actually attracted to?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Announce I’m lowering my standards publicly then wonder why no one is interested.

And hide my profile so nobody knows what standards are available

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By *aughtyforcouples OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

The action isnt that importsnt, standards are everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The action isnt that importsnt, standards are everything

So... What do you think the answer is..?

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By *aughtyforcouples OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"Announce I’m lowering my standards publicly then wonder why no one is interested.

And hide my profile so nobody knows what standards are available

Now not hidden.....genius level with everything internet!

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By *aughtyforcouples OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"Announce I’m lowering my standards publicly then wonder why no one is interested.

And hide my profile so nobody knows what standards are available

Now not hidden.....genius level with everything internet!"

You have 100% given me clarity of thought......

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Announce I’m lowering my standards publicly then wonder why no one is interested.

And hide my profile so nobody knows what standards are available

Now not hidden.....genius level with everything internet!"

Yes it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your Boxers... you’ve been wearing those same ones for aaaages!

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By *aughtyforcouples OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"Change your Boxers... you’ve been wearing those same ones for aaaages! "

Only got 1 pair, they get washed every night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your Boxers... you’ve been wearing those same ones for aaaages!

Only got 1 pair, they get washed every night

They’ll be thread bare soon!

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

3. Make a post to encourage women to contact you and hope they feel privileged that you haven’t blocked them?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

The question now is:

Will women lower their own standards to meet you? *ponder*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been said superiority complexes are a reaction to a deep feeling of inferiority. So you see OP you’re not that special after-all. Plenty better profiles so please go ahead and add me to your block list.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"The question now is:

Will women lower their own standards to meet you? *ponder* "

Unlikely

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By *reamblueMan
over a year ago

London

"I'm a single fella on here, my blocked list means its like a deserted wasteland on here! So the dilemma is:

1. Should I lower my standards to get a chance of more action

2. Carry on regardless and only meet peeps of suitable standards

What would you do?"

Beggars can't be choosers

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

So who said no to you now OP if you haven’t clocked on by these responses threads like this really don’t do well

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By *aughtyforcouples OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"3. Make a post to encourage women to contact you and hope they feel privileged that you haven’t blocked them?"

Erm, no.....was genuinely looking at profiles that I had blocked and it looked like they were having a lot of fun.....but then they arent attractive ......so it brings the whole dilemma about

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By *aughtyforcouples OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"The question now is:

Will women lower their own standards to meet you? *ponder* "

I wouldnt expect that

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By *aughtyforcouples OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"It has been said superiority complexes are a reaction to a deep feeling of inferiority. So you see OP you’re not that special after-all. Plenty better profiles so please go ahead and add me to your block list.

Done

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"The action isnt that importsnt, standards are everything

Then don't lower your standards!!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Lower your expectations, not your standards

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"The question now is:

Will women lower their own standards to meet you? *ponder*

Unlikely"

Agreed!

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By *aughtyforcouples OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"Lower your expectations, not your standards "

Thats the one, ty ariel

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"I'm a single fella on here, my blocked list means its like a deserted wasteland on here! So the dilemma is:

1. Should I lower my standards to get a chance of more action

2. Carry on regardless and only meet peeps of suitable standards

What would you do?"

I'd maintain your standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done

My high standards have a tendency to not be with someone who is an arrogant person who acts as if they're superior, more worthy, and more important than others.

and already having more than one or two peeps that make me feel really good, then it really doesn't matter how many like you block me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3. Make a post to encourage women to contact you and hope they feel privileged that you haven’t blocked them?

Erm, no.....was genuinely looking at profiles that I had blocked and it looked like they were having a lot of fun.....but then they arent attractive ......so it brings the whole dilemma about"

If they are fucking strangers they will fuck anyone. Unblock and ask to meet.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe I'm reading this wrong but I'm struggling to see where the op is displaying a superiority complex?

I get that it's not a wise move to ask if he should lower his standards but the fact that he has standards should be a positive surely?

There are lots of people on here that I wouldn't touch with someone else's for any number of reasons but mostly due to attitude.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bracknell (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

".....was genuinely looking at profiles that I had blocked and it looked like they were having a lot of fun.....but then they arent attractive ......so it brings the whole dilemma about"

...you don't believe everything you read on here, do you?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Maybe I'm reading this wrong but I'm struggling to see where the op is displaying a superiority complex?

I get that it's not a wise move to ask if he should lower his standards but the fact that he has standards should be a positive surely?

There are lots of people on here that I wouldn't touch with someone else's for any number of reasons but mostly due to attitude. "

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

I'm the proud owner of the biggest block list. Anyone that stops trans from contacting them, I block them, I mean why do you want to look at me (and they do)

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I'm the proud owner of the biggest block list. Anyone that stops trans from contacting them, I block them, I mean why do you want to look at me (and they do)"

Must keep you busy

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Don’t ever ever lower your standards OP! Carry on meeting people who fit and match what you’re looking for.

Ladies and couples can instantly tell from the tone of your message if your approach is one that is of a scattergun nature so that won’t do you any favours at all.

I firmly believe that regardless of the fact there’s so many single men on here. We have just as much as right to be as selective as we wish when seeking out possible playmates.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

".....was genuinely looking at profiles that I had blocked and it looked like they were having a lot of fun.....but then they arent attractive ......so it brings the whole dilemma about

They aren't attractive to you, that doesn't mean they're unattractive to everyone.

Don't try to meet people you don't find attractive, it's disrespectful to them.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

"I'm a single fella on here, my blocked list means its like a deserted wasteland on here! So the dilemma is:

1. Should I lower my standards to get a chance of more action

2. Carry on regardless and only meet peeps of suitable standards

What would you do?"

Why should you lower your standards?,would the females/couples lower there's for you?.

Theres plenty of other sites to meet females and couples.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

"Change your Boxers... you’ve been wearing those same ones for aaaages!

Only got 1 pair, they get washed every night

Profile still hidden.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I wouldn't change what I'm looking for or start meeting people I usually wouldn't, just carry on as you're

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Lower your standards

People pretend like standards matter, and they do, but also, be realistic

Is it ok if you have very little to offer but your standards are only the very best? Sure

But you need to accept you’ll be alone then.

Standards are like budgets. If you’ll only accept driving a Ferrari but you work at Tesco, then you’d better be happy taking the bus.

People act like lowering your standards is always a bad thing. It isn’t. Sometimes it’s about taking a long, hard, truthful look at yourself and admitting your not all that

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Lower your standards

People pretend like standards matter, and they do, but also, be realistic

Is it ok if you have very little to offer but your standards are only the very best? Sure

But you need to accept you’ll be alone then.

Standards are like budgets. If you’ll only accept driving a Ferrari but you work at Tesco, then you’d better be happy taking the bus.

People act like lowering your standards is always a bad thing. It isn’t. Sometimes it’s about taking a long, hard, truthful look at yourself and admitting your not all that "

I’ll add to this, you have 3 options

1. Get nothing

2. Lower your standards

3. Improve yourself so your standards are more realistic

1 and 2 are easy.

3 is difficult and not always possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't change what I'm looking for or start meeting people I usually wouldn't, just carry on as you're

This

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

Did-dums

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Have vagine will fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done

My high standards have a tendency to not be with someone who is an arrogant person who acts as if they're superior, more worthy, and more important than others.

and already having more than one or two peeps that make me feel really good, then it really doesn't matter how many like you block me.

OP, maybe I’ve been a bit too harsh in my comments and if so I apologise for the misunderstanding. I’m sorry on the basis that I didn’t give you the benefit of doubt and that you may well be a standup kind of guy. Wish you well in meeting others to your liking. Enjoy the chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be added to everyone's please

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