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By *he Rizzler OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Would you rather people not reply to a message and just delete, or get a reply but it’s a bit of a boring chat, like one word answers or just a line with nothing to come back to?

I’ve sent a few messages and got the latter so I tend to just leave it and try speak to someone else

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

What kinda reply would you like here?

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By *he Rizzler OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"What kinda reply would you like here? "

Anything worth reading

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"What kinda reply would you like here? "

Haha very good!

A reply is nice even if its a not for us one etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not reply personally, why bother with small talk if you're not interested?

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By *he Rizzler OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Not reply personally, why bother with small talk if you're not interested? "

That’s my opinion. Just don’t bother if it’s going to be boring haha

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"What kinda reply would you like here?

Anything worth reading "

I tend to not reply unless I’m going to be engaged enough to try and hold a conversation. Why waste my time with perfunctory nothingness, however my replies may be still perceived by others as boring surely?

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

It is annoying trying to have a conversation and getting one word or very short replies. I have teenage kids if I want a conversation like that.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Not reply personally, why bother with small talk if you're not interested?

That’s my opinion. Just don’t bother if it’s going to be boring haha "

Maybe there is a reason you arnt getting good replies?

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Not reply personally, why bother with small talk if you're not interested?

That’s my opinion. Just don’t bother if it’s going to be boring haha

Maybe there is a reason you arnt getting good replies?"

Not everyone is the same, you can't be everyone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally just delete. Unless they then go on to send another 4

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By *he Rizzler OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"What kinda reply would you like here?

Anything worth reading

I tend to not reply unless I’m going to be engaged enough to try and hold a conversation. Why waste my time with perfunctory nothingness, however my replies may be still perceived by others as boring surely? "

Completely agree. I would just be happier with a deleted note next to a message and then I know where I stand. I suppose some people would find the chat boring, but at least you can try and engage with a conversation if it has someone worth replying to. Maybe it’s my message that’s boring hahaha

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By *he Rizzler OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Not reply personally, why bother with small talk if you're not interested?

That’s my opinion. Just don’t bother if it’s going to be boring haha

Maybe there is a reason you arnt getting good replies?"

That’s what I just thought, maybe I’m the boring one hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you rather people not reply to a message and just delete, or get a reply but it’s a bit of a boring chat, like one word answers or just a line with nothing to come back to?

I’ve sent a few messages and got the latter so I tend to just leave it and try speak to someone else "

I generally only reply if someone has sent a well written message - if the message contains less than say 10 words, I know I’m gonna send more than that even in my polite no thank you so why should I bother?

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By *he Rizzler OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Would you rather people not reply to a message and just delete, or get a reply but it’s a bit of a boring chat, like one word answers or just a line with nothing to come back to?

I’ve sent a few messages and got the latter so I tend to just leave it and try speak to someone else

I generally only reply if someone has sent a well written message - if the message contains less than say 10 words, I know I’m gonna send more than that even in my polite no thank you so why should I bother? "

That’s my opinion on it. I try to send a good message and refer to something which is stated in the profile etc. rather than the typical ‘how are you, btw nice tits’ maybe that’s where I go wrong haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer them to go Unlos.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

If they don't tell me straight away I gave them fanny flutters then it has to end there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you rather people not reply to a message and just delete, or get a reply but it’s a bit of a boring chat, like one word answers or just a line with nothing to come back to?

I’ve sent a few messages and got the latter so I tend to just leave it and try speak to someone else "

I reply to all my messages. It will depend on my mood what content you get!

Missy x

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Would you rather people not reply to a message and just delete, or get a reply but it’s a bit of a boring chat, like one word answers or just a line with nothing to come back to?

I’ve sent a few messages and got the latter so I tend to just leave it and try speak to someone else

I reply to all my messages. It will depend on my mood what content you get!

Missy x"

Not all messages I can't message you age wise lol

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