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Just don’t be a twat towards others …

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s a simple enough mantra, isn’t it Fabsters?

Why then is it such a struggle for most of us to actually do?

Is it a societal thing, the way we’ve been brought up, or something else?

I don’t know the answer. But I’m sure you lot do, so g’wan, tell us why you sex-obsessed deviants x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shut up dickhead

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

And I thought you liked it when I waved my twat in your face

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It’s a simple enough mantra, isn’t it Fabsters?

Why then is it such a struggle for most of us to actually do?

Is it a societal thing, the way we’ve been brought up, or something else?

I don’t know the answer. But I’m sure you lot do, so g’wan, tell us why you sex-obsessed deviants x "

Because some people deserve it.

They really, really do.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shut up dickhead "

to be fair that’s positively a compliment compared some of the stuff I get called on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shut up dickhead

to be fair that’s positively a compliment compared some of the stuff I get called on here! "

I use most insults as terms of endearment so it probably was a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And I thought you liked it when I waved my twat in your face "

I’ve forgotten if I like it or not.

Why not do it again and I’ll let you know either way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s a simple enough mantra, isn’t it Fabsters?

Why then is it such a struggle for most of us to actually do?

Is it a societal thing, the way we’ve been brought up, or something else?

I don’t know the answer. But I’m sure you lot do, so g’wan, tell us why you sex-obsessed deviants x

Because some people deserve it.

They really, really do.

A"

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Oh I don’t know Dan.. I try my hardest not to be a Twat but I’m constantly meeting humans that treat me like a twat.. I must be a twat magnet

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

100% Danny boy

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

Because people, Dan. Just people.

There is way more to it than that, but that's the short answer.

Posh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I don’t know Dan.. I try my hardest not to be a Twat but I’m constantly meeting humans that treat me like a twat.. I must be a twat magnet "

ahh I’m sorry Saff, ignore them and focus on the nice people!

There’s loads of twattish behaviour around my village right now, antisocial idiots. Honestly for the life of me I can’t get my head around their thought processes.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Be excellent to each other dude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100% Danny boy "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because people, Dan. Just people.

There is way more to it than that, but that's the short answer.

Posh "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be nice to everyone

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Oh I don’t know Dan.. I try my hardest not to be a Twat but I’m constantly meeting humans that treat me like a twat.. I must be a twat magnet "

I wouldn't mind being a twat magnet

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Because sometimes people forget to engage the filter between their brains and their mouths, and just say whatever is in their heads without thought of the consequences, we're all guilty of it at some point or another and mostly theres no malice behind it, however it's just a little harder when it's in written form and can't be forgotten as easy as the spoken word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought fab was a safe space for me to be my authentic self?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Expect nothing

Don't be a twat

Offer cake

It's not rocket science really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i know someone well enough and they are behaving like a twat then i will actually tell them so and call them out on being a twat towards someone else.

Main problem now is people are too worried about telling someone when their behaviour is out of order for fear of hurting someones feelings which is usually temporary.

Truth hurts sometimes but i would prefer to live in that world than the one many are stuck in now!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Sometimes I just can't help myself, but it often depends how others have treated me.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its how you determine the social pecking order and determine who will be prom king/queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trick is not to care enough to give the shit

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

It's OK to call someone a Twat of you admit to being one yourself isn't it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's OK to call someone a Twat of you admit to being one yourself isn't it ?? "

You're on a whole new level .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a simple enough mantra, isn’t it Fabsters?

Why then is it such a struggle for most of us to actually do?

Is it a societal thing, the way we’ve been brought up, or something else?

I don’t know the answer. But I’m sure you lot do, so g’wan, tell us why you sex-obsessed deviants x "

Good mantra but I doubt it will work, twats be all over the shop with their passive aggressive smiley faces. Best off ignored buddy

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"It's OK to call someone a Twat of you admit to being one yourself isn't it ??

You're on a whole new level ..... "

I try to excel at all things I do .. Being a Twat is one of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes conscious effort to be kind to others, it comes more easily to some than others. Then there is the issues of, none of know what another person has gone through or is going through (not that that excuses dickheadedness). Also, when fad mantras take up flavour of the month it can make rather difficult to come across as genuine or sincere especially online.

**I felt as though I was on a roll writing this, but lost my train of thought due to a bloody big bee intruding in on my Kitchen..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have very different views on what constitutes being a twat, then we have different standards we judge people against depending on whether we know/like/fancy them or even in which arbitrary group we place them in.

Finally, and probably most importantly, we are incredibly good at confabulation and excuse ourselves for practically everything. I'm only being a twat because so and so deserves it. I'm not a twat because it wasn't my intention to offend. That's not being a twat, that is my humour/me expressing my opinion. That's not me being a twat, that's you being a snowflake etc etc.

Mr

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"It’s a simple enough mantra, isn’t it Fabsters?

Why then is it such a struggle for most of us to actually do?

Is it a societal thing, the way we’ve been brought up, or something else?

I don’t know the answer. But I’m sure you lot do, so g’wan, tell us why you sex-obsessed deviants x "

Because at my age, Dan, I just won't tolerate tossers any more. And some of them need to be told they're a twat/acting like a twat because it makes me feel better to let it out. It's Me Time, now x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Oh I don’t know Dan.. I try my hardest not to be a Twat but I’m constantly meeting humans that treat me like a twat.. I must be a twat magnet "

•

I'm calling you a "Twagnet" from now on. Didn't you recently have two twatettes staying with you, rent free? Outrageous.

That's twattery of twatest order.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Oh I don’t know Dan.. I try my hardest not to be a Twat but I’m constantly meeting humans that treat me like a twat.. I must be a twat magnet

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I'm calling you a "Twagnet" from now on. Didn't you recently have two twatettes staying with you, rent free? Outrageous.

That's twattery of twatest order."

Just one twat… she’s just left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dinner dinner dinner dinner twatmaaaaaan

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Oh I don’t know Dan.. I try my hardest not to be a Twat but I’m constantly meeting humans that treat me like a twat.. I must be a twat magnet

•

I'm calling you a "Twagnet" from now on. Didn't you recently have two twatettes staying with you, rent free? Outrageous.

That's twattery of twatest order.

Just one twat… she’s just left

"

•

Was this the "Howling Laughter Twat" or the 'Caricature Twat with the Singing Voice"?

Either way you must have been in 'twat-overload'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because this is a text based eco system, most people don’t conduct themselves in the same way face to face, because they can read each other’s body language, see when things have hurt someone’s feelings, feel empathy, feel the risk of saying something that may cause a flash point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out in the real world there’s far less twattyness because it comes at a risk…

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Hard question to answer as I don't experience it.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Because we live in a pent up, 'civilised' rule abiding society, where thr0ttling people who piss you off is frowned upon.

I get it out of my system by shouting 'After you, dickhead' at other drivers and arguing with strangers on the Internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you need to apologies to someone Dan? Sound like a confesión to me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you need to apologies to someone Dan? Sound like a confesión to me? "

I need to apologise to EVERYONE, Woody! I’m an equal opportunity twat to all comers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you need to apologies to someone Dan? Sound like a confesión to me?

I need to apologise to EVERYONE, Woody! I’m an equal opportunity twat to all comers!! "

Don’t discriminate!! I like that.

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