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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple
over a year ago

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Is it just us who think it is so rude and ignorant to not bother reading a profile??

Do people lose the sense of mutual respect here?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's very normal here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit like that used to bother me.

Not so much these days. Bigger things to worry about now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how they then act.

Not reading the profile and moving on = no problem

Not reading the profile and sending a shite message =

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Is it just us who think it is so rude and ignorant to not bother reading a profile??

Do people lose the sense of mutual respect here?"

It is but it's also an easy way of filtering out the less desirable

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is it just us who think it is so rude and ignorant to not bother reading a profile??

Do people lose the sense of mutual respect here?"

I doubt they're being deliberately rude or ignorant tbh.

Most likely just lazy, desperate and possessing some weird sense of entitlement.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno if it's rude/ignorant. But I find it weird when people don't. Often we see some awesome pics, but then on reading a profile we're put off. So it's useful for filtering.

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By *iquid GoldCouple
over a year ago

gloucestershire

Reading their profile that states “read my profile” then sending a message which clearly shows we have… our profile states please make sure you can string a sentence together and they reply with “Hi”. Just “Hi”

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By *iquid GoldCouple
over a year ago

gloucestershire


"Is it just us who think it is so rude and ignorant to not bother reading a profile??

Do people lose the sense of mutual respect here?

I doubt they're being deliberately rude or ignorant tbh.

Most likely just lazy, desperate and possessing some weird sense of entitlement.

A"

Totally agree there!

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Fabs is a very casual, very busy site. It's an open air market, it is not a salon. I don't care if people read my (carefully crafted!) text or if they just fab my butt and move on. My partner gets a little enraged if people contact about things we've stated we're not into, he thinks it is disrespectful. I don't think respect comes into it, I don't expect anybody to give us more consideration than they're capable of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for people "wasting your time" by not reading your profile? Just set up good filters and block prolifically. Don't even warn - on your profile or in DM. Just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabs is a very casual, very busy site. It's an open air market, it is not a salon. I don't care if people read my (carefully crafted!) text or if they just fab my butt and move on. My partner gets a little enraged if people contact about things we've stated we're not into, he thinks it is disrespectful. I don't think respect comes into it, I don't expect anybody to give us more consideration than they're capable of."

Fair points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us who think it is so rude and ignorant to not bother reading a profile??

Do people lose the sense of mutual respect here?

It is but it's also an easy way of filtering out the less desirable "

Instant filter so no time wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only part that bothers me is they have strict profile rules that I read and they contact you first with the complete opposite approach, to be fair usually from couples in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabs is a very casual, very busy site. It's an open air market, it is not a salon. I don't care if people read my (carefully crafted!) text or if they just fab my butt and move on. My partner gets a little enraged if people contact about things we've stated we're not into, he thinks it is disrespectful. I don't think respect comes into it, I don't expect anybody to give us more consideration than they're capable of."

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