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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How often should you or could you have sex before you can state you have a active sex life?

Daily? Weekly? Bi-annualy?

I don’t feel I have a sex life, I accepted it a while back but it just hit me recently that I don’t have one, others are probably like me, but I’m not sure what I’m or people are supposed to expect to class as a healthy amount.

(I know some will say too much is an unhealthy addiction, but that’s not my question)

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Every time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went without for nearly 2 years, I think im good for another 2 years now.

I'd class that as semi-active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have one either!

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

It depends. I would love it every day, several times a day sometimes, but sadly that's not possible. Varies from once a,week to every few weeks to every few months, depends on what else I'm doing in my life and the time I have to meet since I don't have a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I had sex was September 2021. I'd say that's safe to classify as having no sex life.

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud


"Every time?"

You beat me to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for reminding me I have no sex life

Open to offers to reignite it though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Went without for nearly 2 years, I think im good for another 2 years now.

I'd class that as semi-active."

I’d class that the same as mine. And I’m giving mine CPR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for reminding me I have no sex life

Open to offers to reignite it though "

You really do have cum to bed eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Daily"

you’ve set the bar rather high for a single man whom is on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t have one either! "

We match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say once a week. This apparently is the average for married couples. I class active as something that is regular, whether that's every day, 3 times a week, or once a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very difficult I’m single have no partner etc

Live in rural Scotland so hard to meet playmates

And lockdown was just that being on the shielding list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends. I would love it every day, several times a day sometimes, but sadly that's not possible. Varies from once a,week to every few weeks to every few months, depends on what else I'm doing in my life and the time I have to meet since I don't have a partner."

So when you don’t meet for a few month, do you think your sex life is still okay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last time I had sex was September 2021. I'd say that's safe to classify as having no sex life. "

I hear you pal. (Bro hug) this kind of thing prompted my question.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

The title of the thread…. You should enjoy it every time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say once a week. This apparently is the average for married couples. I class active as something that is regular, whether that's every day, 3 times a week, or once a week. "

Regular very 6mths?

Weekly would have been my benchmark, but not set in stone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The title of the thread…. You should enjoy it every time

"

People are answering the title of the thread, I really should think up more click bait titles.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"It depends. I would love it every day, several times a day sometimes, but sadly that's not possible. Varies from once a,week to every few weeks to every few months, depends on what else I'm doing in my life and the time I have to meet since I don't have a partner.

So when you don’t meet for a few month, do you think your sex life is still okay? "

Sometimes I get frustrated. But I have my trusty wands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often should you or could you have sex before you can state you have a active sex life?

Daily? Weekly? Bi-annualy?

I don’t feel I have a sex life, I accepted it a while back but it just hit me recently that I don’t have one, others are probably like me, but I’m not sure what I’m or people are supposed to expect to class as a healthy amount.

(I know some will say too much is an unhealthy addiction, but that’s not my question)

"

Weekly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im having sex far less often now days, my ex is very very kinky we probably have sex once a month, the energy is amazing.

Ive met 2 this year via fab after talking for what seems ages and the sex hasnt worked for me.

Id sooner have mind blowing and irregular than regular and 'meh'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least weekly would be about a decent standard I think, if you average it out I’m probably averaging about fortnightly so I know I’m getting more than some, but not as much as I’d like ..

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By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Before the pandemic, I would be having sex either weekly or monthly. Now, after the pandemic, my sex life has gone down the pan because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should definitely enjoy it everytime, but as for the amount, I work away for 3 weeks at a time so it's a feast or a famine. It's never far away when we're together - 3 times a day sort of level.

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before the pandemic, I would be having sex either weekly or monthly. Now, after the pandemic, my sex life has gone down the pan because of it."

Covid killed off all the grannies?

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By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Before the pandemic, I would be having sex either weekly or monthly. Now, after the pandemic, my sex life has gone down the pan because of it.

Covid killed off all the grannies? "

No. The pandemic ruined it by bringing back my social anxieties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every other day would be ideal

Weekly would be great

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We fuck most days. That's ideal for us.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Every day. At least twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to move next door to Nora

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Weekly would be good

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

For me it would be once a fortnight, maybe once a week if I'm not too tired.

I can't manage more than that, so that's active for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me it would be once a fortnight, maybe once a week if I'm not too tired.

I can't manage more than that, so that's active for me.

"

Someone used the word regular. I think regular is different to us all.

I imagine those couples where someone who works away a lot (army) think of there sex life differently to me who would ideally enjoy getting my sexy in weekly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weekly would work for me as long as it's with someone I connect with. Otherwise, it's empty and soulless and I'd rather not bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went without for nearly 2 years, I think im good for another 2 years now.

I'd class that as semi-active.

I’d class that the same as mine. And I’m giving mine CPR "

You smack it and occasionally give yourself bjs ??!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it would be once a fortnight, maybe once a week if I'm not too tired.

I can't manage more than that, so that's active for me.

Someone used the word regular. I think regular is different to us all.

I imagine those couples where someone who works away a lot (army) think of there sex life differently to me who would ideally enjoy getting my sexy in weekly. "

Until you hear stories where he been away for 6 months and comes back to a 4-month pregnant girlfriend/wife...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me it would be once a fortnight, maybe once a week if I'm not too tired.

I can't manage more than that, so that's active for me.

Someone used the word regular. I think regular is different to us all.

I imagine those couples where someone who works away a lot (army) think of there sex life differently to me who would ideally enjoy getting my sexy in weekly.

Until you hear stories where he been away for 6 months and comes back to a 4-month pregnant girlfriend/wife... "

Well that went somewhere I didn’t expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as being very lucky to have sex regularly. But to say an active sex life...so long as its once or twice a week I'd say that was active

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By *ccidentprone2023Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Every 12 months the case on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not something i lose sleep over

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We are down to 3 or 4 time's a week now used to be every day or sometimes twice a day, so a big reduction for us now.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Every time?

You beat me to it!"

I'm so sorry. Can we try again in 10 minutes?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Whatever is right got you , only you know that.

For me I often go 2-3 weeks without when I’m not in the U.K. and it’s fine, I focus on other hobbies, but if I’m here & seeing someone I can enjoy it every single day and not get bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could, I’d have sex daily, haven’t had it for 3 weeks and starting to climb the walls.

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By *angbangcouple6969Man
over a year ago

Walsall

We enjoy it everytime, whoever it's with and how ever many times a day we get it.

Her more than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not something i lose sleep over "

This could be why I sleep only 4hrs each night….

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"For me it would be once a fortnight, maybe once a week if I'm not too tired.

I can't manage more than that, so that's active for me.

Someone used the word regular. I think regular is different to us all.

I imagine those couples where someone who works away a lot (army) think of there sex life differently to me who would ideally enjoy getting my sexy in weekly.

Until you hear stories where he been away for 6 months and comes back to a 4-month pregnant girlfriend/wife...

Well that went somewhere I didn’t expect "

Ant excuse to put a woman down.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Its not something i lose sleep over

This could be why I sleep only 4hrs each night…."

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I had to give my husband a blow job every night. Now, I love giving blow jobs, but having to do it every night took some of the enjoyment away for me.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I can't be bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it every time. Especially if I'm not alone.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I haven’t got one but I’m ok with that. I crave a person rather than sex itself so if I have nobody I’m craving I don’t crave sex..

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"I haven’t got one but I’m ok with that. I crave a person rather than sex itself so if I have nobody I’m craving I don’t crave sex.. "

It’s ok im here saff!!!!!! Crave away

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends what you mean by sex life.

I dont have what others would consider a sex life, as I ain't had sex for a couple of years, but I do wank when I feel like it. So I have a sex life with myself. No arguments, no toxicity, it's really rather healthy I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should enjoy sex every time (otherwise what’s the point ). I have a ridiculously high sex drive and would like to have sex every day, but as my circumstances prevent that actually happening, so I make do with every other weekend

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

In a relationship, once, maybe twice a day would be ideal.

Right now, it varies. Sometimes a few months, sometimes every few weeks.

Sometimes it’s frustrating, sometimes I can’t be arsed.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Hi op. I don’t have sex as often as I’d like (not got the elusive very regular fwb yet) - but when I have it I bloody love it.

I’ve probably had sex about once a month on average this year - but with excellent lovers who can go for hours - and then again the next morning - so the tank gets ‘topped up’ as it were!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends what you mean by sex life.

I dont have what others would consider a sex life, as I ain't had sex for a couple of years, but I do wank when I feel like it. So I have a sex life with myself. No arguments, no toxicity, it's really rather healthy I think."

Is masterbating a sex life?

If it is, I need to stop being so f’kin fussy!!!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'll let you know when I feel like I have one again, I can tell you that it definitely needs to be more than I'm getting at the moment

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Depends what you mean by sex life.

I dont have what others would consider a sex life, as I ain't had sex for a couple of years, but I do wank when I feel like it. So I have a sex life with myself. No arguments, no toxicity, it's really rather healthy I think."

I argue with my cock when he takes too long to finish or misses the tissue the messy sod

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll let you know when I feel like I have one again, I can tell you that it definitely needs to be more than I'm getting at the moment "

I hear you pal. (Bro hug)

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Most of the time

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

You should enjoy it each time.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well as offen as you can sex is so enjoyble but i have find some sex lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Realistically I would say active is a couple of times a week for me. I'm generally pretty happy with that amount, even if there's some weeks with none and others with more. Less than once a month is when I start to get a little sad.

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By *indictiveMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Mrs V has a very high sex drive, so for us an active sex life is at least once a day and much more on weekends, when we dont have to get up early!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You should enjoy it each time.

C"
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This thread really was a double question. The title, and the context. I should have made it a bit clearer.m, I know

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I think it's having sex when you can as a couple. Some weeks that means you have loads another not so much because of work and kids. I think it's when there's a drive to want sex with each other even if you can't.

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