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"It’s alright. I’ve had it about 4 months this time around. Just less than I’ve been back on here. Got lots of matches. Most Were going really well until they found out I was poly . I got ghosted by one after a first date. One I told her I wasn’t interested after a first date. One I ended up sleeping with on the first date and then got a bit overwhelmed by the poly thing (there’s a theme ) and then there has been one success story from there which is someone I’ve seen a few times and will probably continue to see for a while (when I’m more free). Basically- it’s great for casual sex and casual sex partners. Maybe ok for relationships idk. But not ideal for someone like me that’s looking for poly partners. Would I recommend? Yes. It’s easy to match and so really good for an ego boost. But if you’re looking for love you’re better off on hinge and if you’re poly you’re better off on OkC. 6.5/10" At this point, I was just trying to get more than 4 matches in 2 months . Glad you got a lot of matches. God knows what I was doing wrong then | |||
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"It’s alright. I’ve had it about 4 months this time around. Just less than I’ve been back on here. Got lots of matches. Most Were going really well until they found out I was poly . I got ghosted by one after a first date. One I told her I wasn’t interested after a first date. One I ended up sleeping with on the first date and then got a bit overwhelmed by the poly thing (there’s a theme ) and then there has been one success story from there which is someone I’ve seen a few times and will probably continue to see for a while (when I’m more free). Basically- it’s great for casual sex and casual sex partners. Maybe ok for relationships idk. But not ideal for someone like me that’s looking for poly partners. Would I recommend? Yes. It’s easy to match and so really good for an ego boost. But if you’re looking for love you’re better off on hinge and if you’re poly you’re better off on OkC. 6.5/10 At this point, I was just trying to get more than 4 matches in 2 months . Glad you got a lot of matches. God knows what I was doing wrong then" Basically I live in London. That’s all I’m doing right. | |||
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"It’s alright. I’ve had it about 4 months this time around. Just less than I’ve been back on here. Got lots of matches. Most Were going really well until they found out I was poly . I got ghosted by one after a first date. One I told her I wasn’t interested after a first date. One I ended up sleeping with on the first date and then got a bit overwhelmed by the poly thing (there’s a theme ) and then there has been one success story from there which is someone I’ve seen a few times and will probably continue to see for a while (when I’m more free). Basically- it’s great for casual sex and casual sex partners. Maybe ok for relationships idk. But not ideal for someone like me that’s looking for poly partners. Would I recommend? Yes. It’s easy to match and so really good for an ego boost. But if you’re looking for love you’re better off on hinge and if you’re poly you’re better off on OkC. 6.5/10 At this point, I was just trying to get more than 4 matches in 2 months . Glad you got a lot of matches. God knows what I was doing wrong then Basically I live in London. That’s all I’m doing right. " Why is being in London an advantage? | |||
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"It’s alright. I’ve had it about 4 months this time around. Just less than I’ve been back on here. Got lots of matches. Most Were going really well until they found out I was poly . I got ghosted by one after a first date. One I told her I wasn’t interested after a first date. One I ended up sleeping with on the first date and then got a bit overwhelmed by the poly thing (there’s a theme ) and then there has been one success story from there which is someone I’ve seen a few times and will probably continue to see for a while (when I’m more free). Basically- it’s great for casual sex and casual sex partners. Maybe ok for relationships idk. But not ideal for someone like me that’s looking for poly partners. Would I recommend? Yes. It’s easy to match and so really good for an ego boost. But if you’re looking for love you’re better off on hinge and if you’re poly you’re better off on OkC. 6.5/10 At this point, I was just trying to get more than 4 matches in 2 months . Glad you got a lot of matches. God knows what I was doing wrong then Basically I live in London. That’s all I’m doing right. Why is being in London an advantage?" Zillions of people. | |||
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"It’s alright. I’ve had it about 4 months this time around. Just less than I’ve been back on here. Got lots of matches. Most Were going really well until they found out I was poly . I got ghosted by one after a first date. One I told her I wasn’t interested after a first date. One I ended up sleeping with on the first date and then got a bit overwhelmed by the poly thing (there’s a theme ) and then there has been one success story from there which is someone I’ve seen a few times and will probably continue to see for a while (when I’m more free). Basically- it’s great for casual sex and casual sex partners. Maybe ok for relationships idk. But not ideal for someone like me that’s looking for poly partners. Would I recommend? Yes. It’s easy to match and so really good for an ego boost. But if you’re looking for love you’re better off on hinge and if you’re poly you’re better off on OkC. 6.5/10 At this point, I was just trying to get more than 4 matches in 2 months . Glad you got a lot of matches. God knows what I was doing wrong then Basically I live in London. That’s all I’m doing right. Why is being in London an advantage? Zillions of people. " I had 4 matches in 2 months. Don't think it's the number of people to swipe that was the issue, more that I'm 33 and medium ugly :D | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations " Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you" When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work | |||
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" Basically I live in London. That’s all I’m doing right. Why is being in London an advantage? Zillions of people. " Yep. Quick maths. | |||
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"It’s alright. I’ve had it about 4 months this time around. Just less than I’ve been back on here. Got lots of matches. Most Were going really well until they found out I was poly . I got ghosted by one after a first date. One I told her I wasn’t interested after a first date. One I ended up sleeping with on the first date and then got a bit overwhelmed by the poly thing (there’s a theme ) and then there has been one success story from there which is someone I’ve seen a few times and will probably continue to see for a while (when I’m more free). Basically- it’s great for casual sex and casual sex partners. Maybe ok for relationships idk. But not ideal for someone like me that’s looking for poly partners. Would I recommend? Yes. It’s easy to match and so really good for an ego boost. But if you’re looking for love you’re better off on hinge and if you’re poly you’re better off on OkC. 6.5/10 At this point, I was just trying to get more than 4 matches in 2 months . Glad you got a lot of matches. God knows what I was doing wrong then Basically I live in London. That’s all I’m doing right. Why is being in London an advantage? Zillions of people. I had 4 matches in 2 months. Don't think it's the number of people to swipe that was the issue, more that I'm 33 and medium ugly :D" I've get more matches in Aberdeen when I'm in town for one day a month At home it's a lot lot lower. Population density matters, it's purely a numbers game. Out of all the apps, tinder has been the kindest to me. | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work " Nah tried that, it doesn't work. And I'm +25kg lighter than when I was 25 | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work Nah tried that, it doesn't work. And I'm +25kg lighter than when I was 25 " Different strategies for women on apps sadly But from what I’ve heard. A lot of guys online are all talk, and when it comes to meeting many go silent | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work Nah tried that, it doesn't work. And I'm +25kg lighter than when I was 25 Different strategies for women on apps sadly But from what I’ve heard. A lot of guys online are all talk, and when it comes to meeting many go silent " Yep. And if you don't mention sex within like the first 2 messages you don't get replied to (much like here actually) | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work Nah tried that, it doesn't work. And I'm +25kg lighter than when I was 25 Different strategies for women on apps sadly But from what I’ve heard. A lot of guys online are all talk, and when it comes to meeting many go silent Yep. And if you don't mention sex within like the first 2 messages you don't get replied to (much like here actually) " Maybe that’s where I went right then, never bring up sex on apps. It’s cringe. Just go for a date then do actual sex. Talk is cheap right? | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work Nah tried that, it doesn't work. And I'm +25kg lighter than when I was 25 " How much money have you swindled out of people on there? | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work Nah tried that, it doesn't work. And I'm +25kg lighter than when I was 25 How much money have you swindled out of people on there? " Excuse me, read the name pls I don't swindle money I swindle wood, duh. | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work Nah tried that, it doesn't work. And I'm +25kg lighter than when I was 25 How much money have you swindled out of people on there? Excuse me, read the name pls I don't swindle money I swindle wood, duh. " Watch Bradley Thor’s tik toks. He’s got some wood I’d like to see you swindle. | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work Nah tried that, it doesn't work. And I'm +25kg lighter than when I was 25 How much money have you swindled out of people on there? Excuse me, read the name pls I don't swindle money I swindle wood, duh. Watch Bradley Thor’s tik toks. He’s got some wood I’d like to see you swindle. " Daaaamn I'd blow my back out for his log | |||
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"So the three guys who say they have been really successful on tinder are muscley and good looking - go figure :D My age is certainly a big issue too. 33 is certainly well past the peak for single guys" You kidding? Men peak in their 30s Don’t kid yourself. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Go get some | |||
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"So the three guys who say they have been really successful on tinder are muscley and good looking - go figure :D My age is certainly a big issue too. 33 is certainly well past the peak for single guys" Mate between this and the dick surgery thread you seem to have some real deep, unfounded insecurities. Maybe work on liking yourself first before you try and get other people to like you. | |||
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"So the three guys who say they have been really successful on tinder are muscley and good looking - go figure :D My age is certainly a big issue too. 33 is certainly well past the peak for single guys You kidding? Men peak in their 30s Don’t kid yourself. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Go get some " Most women on tinder will filter out guys over 30, though. And most women my age have kids. Nothing against single mums at all, but im just not really looking for having a kid at the moment | |||
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"So the three guys who say they have been really successful on tinder are muscley and good looking - go figure :D My age is certainly a big issue too. 33 is certainly well past the peak for single guys You kidding? Men peak in their 30s Don’t kid yourself. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Go get some Most women on tinder will filter out guys over 30, though. And most women my age have kids. Nothing against single mums at all, but im just not really looking for having a kid at the moment" Most? Most don’t. Trust me. I get plenty of 18 year old matches, my lady girl from there was 21 Trust me. It’s no different to on here. They like older guys. Go get some man | |||
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"So the three guys who say they have been really successful on tinder are muscley and good looking - go figure :D My age is certainly a big issue too. 33 is certainly well past the peak for single guys You kidding? Men peak in their 30s Don’t kid yourself. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Go get some Most women on tinder will filter out guys over 30, though. And most women my age have kids. Nothing against single mums at all, but im just not really looking for having a kid at the moment Most? Most don’t. Trust me. I get plenty of 18 year old matches, my lady girl from there was 21 Trust me. It’s no different to on here. They like older guys. Go get some man " Well then it must be my looks, because I've never matched with someone under 30 since I turned 30 Haha. Either that or I need to be really built | |||
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"So the three guys who say they have been really successful on tinder are muscley and good looking - go figure :D My age is certainly a big issue too. 33 is certainly well past the peak for single guys You kidding? Men peak in their 30s Don’t kid yourself. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Go get some Most women on tinder will filter out guys over 30, though. And most women my age have kids. Nothing against single mums at all, but im just not really looking for having a kid at the moment" I doubt women who are looking for dates on Tinder are gonna be bringing their kids along or planning to introduce you to them? Or are you looking for a proper relationship on there so thinking more long term? | |||
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"So the three guys who say they have been really successful on tinder are muscley and good looking - go figure :D My age is certainly a big issue too. 33 is certainly well past the peak for single guys You kidding? Men peak in their 30s Don’t kid yourself. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Go get some Most women on tinder will filter out guys over 30, though. And most women my age have kids. Nothing against single mums at all, but im just not really looking for having a kid at the moment Most? Most don’t. Trust me. I get plenty of 18 year old matches, my lady girl from there was 21 Trust me. It’s no different to on here. They like older guys. Go get some man Well then it must be my looks, because I've never matched with someone under 30 since I turned 30 Haha. Either that or I need to be really built" Well if you want my opinion I think your good looking (better then me) To make tinder work you need good pics. With smiling and fun activities. Just blank faced bathroom selfies don’t cut it Then you need chat, and be direct. You should be asking for their number within 10 messages and you should be asking them out for a drink not long after that. Girls that want to date will say yes, the others just ignore. | |||
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"So the three guys who say they have been really successful on tinder are muscley and good looking - go figure :D My age is certainly a big issue too. 33 is certainly well past the peak for single guys You kidding? Men peak in their 30s Don’t kid yourself. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Go get some Most women on tinder will filter out guys over 30, though. And most women my age have kids. Nothing against single mums at all, but im just not really looking for having a kid at the moment I doubt women who are looking for dates on Tinder are gonna be bringing their kids along or planning to introduce you to them? Or are you looking for a proper relationship on there so thinking more long term? " Yeah im using tinder to find someone to date, ideally. If someone comes along looking for just a casual thing then that's fine too, but dating is more my aim from it | |||
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"So the three guys who say they have been really successful on tinder are muscley and good looking - go figure :D My age is certainly a big issue too. 33 is certainly well past the peak for single guys You kidding? Men peak in their 30s Don’t kid yourself. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Go get some Most women on tinder will filter out guys over 30, though. And most women my age have kids. Nothing against single mums at all, but im just not really looking for having a kid at the moment Most? Most don’t. Trust me. I get plenty of 18 year old matches, my lady girl from there was 21 Trust me. It’s no different to on here. They like older guys. Go get some man Well then it must be my looks, because I've never matched with someone under 30 since I turned 30 Haha. Either that or I need to be really built Well if you want my opinion I think your good looking (better then me) To make tinder work you need good pics. With smiling and fun activities. Just blank faced bathroom selfies don’t cut it Then you need chat, and be direct. You should be asking for their number within 10 messages and you should be asking them out for a drink not long after that. Girls that want to date will say yes, the others just ignore. " It's also polite to acknowledge people | |||
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"Always surprises me when people have such bad luck on there From 25 to about 28 I must have went on 100s of dates and pretty much 90% of them lead to a hook up, with about 30% going onto something like fwb situations Well considering your build, I'm not surprised you were successful on tinder tbh. I mean, its tailor-made for guys like you When I was 25 I was 25kg lighter and had a skin head too. I’m really funny, that’s how you make it work Nah tried that, it doesn't work. And I'm +25kg lighter than when I was 25 How much money have you swindled out of people on there? Excuse me, read the name pls I don't swindle money I swindle wood, duh. Watch Bradley Thor’s tik toks. He’s got some wood I’d like to see you swindle. Daaaamn I'd blow my back out for his log " He’s nice init? | |||
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"I met M through Tinder so I think it's awesome. K" Nice, glad it worked for you guys | |||
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"Go for an older woman, our kids are grown and we like men in their mid 30s." No we don't | |||
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"Nope, was bad enough on POF. I’ll wait till I bump into Mr Right in Farm Foods. " Who would of thought lol | |||
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"I was surprised by how many people's profiles started with something like "Not into hook ups or ONS..." I always wanted to msg that they're probably on the wrong app! Turns out I am an old fart amd my kids tell me that tinder is pretty much their POF. They were actually shocked when I told them that it was originally well known as being *the* hook-up app." Anyone with “no hook ups or ONS” on their profile are always down for hookups and ONS in my experience. Normally it’s a good indicator they will be down | |||
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"Go for an older woman, our kids are grown and we like men in their mid 30s. No we don't " #notallolderwomen | |||
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"Go for an older woman, our kids are grown and we like men in their mid 30s. No we don't #notallolderwomen " | |||
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"Go for an older woman, our kids are grown and we like men in their mid 30s. No we don't #notallolderwomen " Good lass | |||
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