FabSwingers.com forum: Would women favour a Man Ban

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The inbox mail system of single women (yeah ok) and couples are pressed to explosion by single male messages, sorry, I meant cock pics. But? If the site was devoid of flying solo guys, would fab not die? Despite being the majority, if we weren't present, fab as a business model would be, well want of a better word... Fabbed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man ban? Thank you, Ma'am.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If single men were banned I wouldn't be here for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a difference between single men just sending a message and single men sending dozens of messages after being told no; if I tell you no leave me alone. No means no and a lot of single men here struggle to understand

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"The inbox mail system of single women (yeah ok) and couples are pressed to explosion by single male messages, sorry, I meant cock pics. But? If the site was devoid of flying solo guys, would fab not die? Despite being the majority, if we weren't present, fab as a business model would be, well want of a better word... Fabbed! "

Make it more like Bumble then, ladies/couples have to message gents first.

Less unwanted dickius picturious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Lads its as simple as this if the lady says no just move on and don't pester the girl

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.

What's an exploitive thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive. "

You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.

What's an exploitive thread?"

I stand corrected, explorative.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope I wouldn't be here if men were banned.

And I keep tight filters so I don't get too many messages and any ones that cheat my filters, are ones like FAF or don't interest me I just delete. I have no issue messaging profiles first if they interest me .The worst that can happen is they ignore me or delete the message.

Getting the odd abusive message doesn't bother me they are random strangers on here so I don't give a toss what they think of me or the abuse they give,and it's like the rubbish taking itself out when they give abuse anyhow.

So no I think fab works grand just as it is.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Make it more like Bumble then, ladies/couples have to message gents first.

Less unwanted dickius picturious."

I support this message

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.

What's an exploitive thread?"
a thread that goes BOOM

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.

You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned."

Unfairly so yes. I like the men I know. I’m just careful who I speak to. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.

You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned."

Men wouldn’t so ‘oft bemoaned’ if they had some respect for women / nb people who say they don’t wanna talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pressed to explosion?

I think my inbox is broken...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There’s a difference between single men just sending a message and single men sending dozens of messages after being told no; if I tell you no leave me alone. No means no and a lot of single men here struggle to understand "

Do you think a no reply auto block system from sending again, if unanswered within the fab message system?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. I just want people to treat others with the respect they would want to be treated.

Or, with the respect that they would want their mother/sister/daughter to be treated, if they can't get their head around gender differences in the way these things operate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lads its as simple as this if the lady says no just move on and don't pester the girl "

Not about pestering, that's a no no, but if single men weren't here, what would fab be?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think the site just needs a delay built in to stop rapid repeat messages.

If you send a message and there is no response then you can’t send another for, say, a day to that account. If that doesn’t get a response then you are delayed for 3 days, then a week, then two weeks, then a month, then a quarter.

It will stop all the rapid response merchants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I just want people to treat others with the respect they would want to be treated.

Or, with the respect that they would want their mother/sister/daughter to be treated, if they can't get their head around gender differences in the way these things operate."

I would agree with this but I hate the think of the way some men treat the females in their lives

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope I wouldn't be here if men were banned.

So no I think fab works grand just as it is. "

Hope exists, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.

What's an exploitive thread?a thread that goes BOOM "

stop it, this is softly serious.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.

What's an exploitive thread?a thread that goes BOOM

stop it, this is softly serious. "
BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.

You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned.

Unfairly so yes. I like the men I know. I’m just careful who I speak to. Simple "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.

What's an exploitive thread?a thread that goes BOOM

stop it, this is softly serious. BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM"

Huff, I give up

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.

What's an exploitive thread?a thread that goes BOOM

stop it, this is softly serious. BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM

Huff, I give up

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boom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the site just needs a delay built in to stop rapid repeat messages.

It will stop all the rapid response merchants."

I like this idea of a rapid response merchant. Like an emergency sex service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it more like Bumble then, ladies/couples have to message gents first.

Less unwanted dickius picturious."

Men would still complain they don’t get any messages.

If someone likes you they will reply to you or message you, regardless of what other men send - What other guys send has nothing to do with whatever happens to your messages.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.

That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"I think the site just needs a delay built in to stop rapid repeat messages.

It will stop all the rapid response merchants.

I like this idea of a rapid response merchant. Like an emergency sex service

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as long as they are not rapid in the bedroom as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the site just needs a delay built in to stop rapid repeat messages.

It will stop all the rapid response merchants."

Yeah, that would work too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men just need to learn to take no for answer; I also hate married men messaging me and expecting a response even after I say I don’t communicate with married men

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.

That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.

Why ban dick pics from their profile pics it's their profile they can put whatever they want on it just like any woman can on theirs ,you can just ignore a profile that has dick pics if you don't like them.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Ban single men?

Never!!!!!!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.

You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned."

Got any idea why people moan about them?

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By *ayjayreadyMan
over a year ago

Tullow

I agree with you all to an extent ive never sent a dick pic nor will i ever unless aaked to do so im sating that men are rampant on this site to the ratio of women which gives no man hope im in no ruch so i dont push it co.es when it comes bit i can unsderstand to a degree why men multi message ive even had multi messages from men so get where you ladies are coming from. Some of us men just want to have fun like you tho , i agree dic pics suckass if some one doesnt reply leave em.be id agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.

That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.

Yes!!!! It would make it a given to have to be sincere and sell your character, compatibility and reason for messaging.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.

That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.

This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles."

I am all for both of these.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Introducing a match system (similar to some dating apps, where you can only message a person if you match with them) would remove a lot of issues associated with fab...specifically the unsolicited dick pics, and it would also force men to put some more effort in building up their profiles

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. I just want people to treat others with the respect they would want to be treated.

Or, with the respect that they would want their mother/sister/daughter to be treated, if they can't get their head around gender differences in the way these things operate.

I would agree with this but I hate the think of the way some men treat the females in their lives

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.

You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned.

Got any idea why people moan about them?

Yes, I used to have a couples profile here, I know, believe me.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Introducing a match system (similar to some dating apps, where you can only message a person if you match with them) would remove a lot of issues associated with fab...specifically the unsolicited dick pics, and it would also force men to put some more effort in building up their profiles"

A way to stop unsolicited pics would be have a option to turn receiving photos off all together. Having a swipe system would still open that option after matching

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.

That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.

Because I'm not attracted to the man on the basis of what his dick looks like. They can still have them in their albums, just not as their avatar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fab could be streamlined I'm so many ways. They won't though, ££££

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.

That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.

This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps

100% more likely to send you a msg based on your avatar compared to a dick pic

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

Nope. Because men aren't a homogeneous mass and shouldn't be treated as such.

Posh

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.

That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.

This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps

100% more likely to send you a msg based on your avatar compared to a dick pic

Is this a good time to mention you're on my hotlist

Also thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters.

Problem solved, if too many messages from single men is indeed a problem.

They should pay me for top quality advice like this.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.

That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.

This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps

100% more likely to send you a msg based on your avatar compared to a dick pic

Is this a good time to mention you're on my hotlist

Also thank you

Aww now I'm blushing!!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.

That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.

This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps

100% more likely to send you a msg based on your avatar compared to a dick pic

Is this a good time to mention you're on my hotlist

Also thank you

Aww now I'm blushing!!

Good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.

You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned."

Not all men

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.

You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned.

Not all men"

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

A way to stop unsolicited pics would be have a option to turn receiving photos off all together. Having a swipe system would still open that option after matching "

That's a fair point...but I've noticed most women specifically ask for a face pic with the first message they receive

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.

You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned.

Not all men"

We're alright pickle, I don't think we've been bemoaned yet. Not unless it's in private anyway

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It works ok for me if I'm just looking for sex.

Plenty of nice cock to choose from.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Filters.

Problem solved, if too many messages from single men is indeed a problem.

They should pay me for top quality advice like this. "

'zackly Dan.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

A way to stop unsolicited pics would be have a option to turn receiving photos off all together. Having a swipe system would still open that option after matching

That's a fair point...but I've noticed most women specifically ask for a face pic with the first message they receive "

I don't have a problem with that but also don't think I've been asked as people either already know what I look or I have it to view already anyway.

If they ask straight away then they need to be attracted to a face to want to get to know someone I'm guessing

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