FabSwingers.com forum: Who in your life knows about your fab lifestyle?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a curious thought. Who in your life are aware about you being on here that you trust enough to tell about your adventures? Did you tell them and they were shocked/disgusted or did the accept and it’s just a part of you?

My sister and friend know. They were surprised that polite professional (yes I hate that word too) me was capable of this as I’ve always been the sensible one. However they love to hear about my experiences, as if they can live vicariously through me something they say they could never do themselves.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Only the people I meet on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends on here. I don't think anyone else needs to know my business.

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

One friend, that's also on here

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Only the people i've met via fab

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Ladies I have played with and stayed with when I lived overseas, now I live near one of them I act as her go to when she’s playing, it brings out my maternal side!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

My best mate and that's it

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The only people who know we are swingers are those we have met on here.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

They don't know the ins and outs or any details, but everyone in my life who matters knows that I'm in an open relationship.

- Jack

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I’m pretty sure nobody in my ‘real life’ would ever imagine I was on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My private life is just that..private.

Been bitten once before when I freely told one or two so I’m careful not to broadcast anything now that doesn’t need to be

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A few close friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 people. And I’ll keep it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family and friends know. None of them have a problem with it because I'm not doing anything wrong.

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend who helps me get from a to b as I had to get him to help me to a party…he was surprisingly into it

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"Only the people I meet on here "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends from here. Saying that, I’m still friends with people who’ve long left, and one of those is my ‘safety’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody im a very private person

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By *otfun75Man
over a year ago

leeds

Nobody yet

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Pretty much everyone I'm close to, I think? All my friends know at least

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

My wife, some of our friends, my sister in law. Tbh i dont care who knows, most people know I am a flirt so they wouldn't be surprised that I like sex with other people too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cat, he's often on the sofa behind me reading my messages...nosy fooker!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the moment, only people I chat to or meet through here know. Perhaps when I care less or have the courage, I'll share it openly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister ,her daughter my neice and a few of my close friends x debs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only those on here I've met and a close friend from yrs ago who is also now on here

A sister did know I liked what I like and I knew her secrets but sadly we lost her in 2020

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I have a few friends who know , like yours they love to know details. One of my friends, particularly his wife want to know all the details and I’ve even been asked to bring the naughty bag and demo rope and tape on her. I think they also like to experience the fantasy through me because they would never dare die to thier jobs and being part of a very large Asian community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ricky and Brigitte Machado

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

No one!!

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

One person only, my baby cousin, she isn't in the scene but we tell each other everything. She doesn't think it's weird and accepts me for who I am. It's good to be able to talk about it with someone that is less likely to jump me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me, once a "close/best friend" etc gets to know, it leaks, leaks and leaks, lol.

The number of times I've heard "I trust him/her" lol.

If you don't want others to find out, keep the lips ZIPPED

and don't post face pics for all on any site as you will get caught out.

FYI - I've seen a builder on here that is married as a single he did our doors. Then I noted a couple that lives around where we live - small world.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Trust me, once a "close/best friend" etc gets to know, it leaks, leaks and leaks, lol.

The number of times I've heard "I trust him/her" lol.

If you don't want others to find out, keep the lips ZIPPED

and don't post face pics for all on any site as you will get caught out.

FYI - I've seen a builder on here that is married as a single he did our doors. Then I noted a couple that lives around where we live - small world."

I wonder sometimes if the scene is much, much bigger than we think, 3 out of 5 house kind of thing but e everyone stays silent.

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By *ature BBW Lover 69Man
over a year ago

exeter

No one in the real world , I think having it hidden makes it all more exciting, I love the thought that everyday people can secretly be really sexually driven , you look at most on here and wouldn’t have a clue in real life , sad thing is to many people that don’t do it have such an opiate a taboo about it

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By *nn_JamesCouple
over a year ago

the

No one other than our Fabswinger Friends know about our lifestyle choice...

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I've 2 "best friends". One of them introduced me to fab, the other knows and often asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister and 4 close friends. It's no big deal to them, or me for that matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust me, once a "close/best friend" etc gets to know, it leaks, leaks and leaks, lol.

The number of times I've heard "I trust him/her" lol.

If you don't want others to find out, keep the lips ZIPPED

and don't post face pics for all on any site as you will get caught out.

FYI - I've seen a builder on here that is married as a single he did our doors. Then I noted a couple that lives around where we live - small world.

I wonder sometimes if the scene is much, much bigger than we think, 3 out of 5 house kind of thing but e everyone stays silent."

When we were visiting Eureka many years ago we became friends with the guy that ran the place. He was a nice/great guy sadly passed away years ago - he told us that the majority of guys that came in as couples the bloked wanted to see thier OH with another bloke but come the time most backed out. Thankfully we did not.

Many will trying flashing etc and go to a nudist becash but often the people there are over 30 but seen 20+ in the uk.

Best to keep quiet unless you want other to know you enjoy having youe wife fucked by others and touching her pusyy/massing her etc etc and even when you are not at home - we took a lot of risks thingking back as their was no internet etc - but kept it quiet and hopefully it works and keep our face pics of the net

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My Girl, we met on here and enjoy the scene together too. Some of our freinds (some of who we likewise met on the scene) and some of our close family. It's part of our life and no huge secret. However its not something everyone around us needs to know or we particularly want to know. But we're comfortable with what we do and not ashamed of it.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Kitty’s mum does, cos someone threatened to tell her. As most of our friends know anyway, she decided to tell her mum herself. Really positive response and made us feel much happier!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

One close friend, mainly because she was there/knows a lot about my sexual experimentation through the years and she finds it in equal parts fascinating and amusing. Sometimes toy with the idea of telling another but even though they overshare a lot, I'm not sure they'd want to hear my stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One friend at work

Sister knows she has a good laugh about story’s on hear she has ms and it does cheer her up a bit

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A few friends know and my dad has a clue after trying to join a social media group we we're part of, that was kinda awkward!

Mrs

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