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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm sorry

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??"

I'm withbyou on that cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t commented on one of your threads for an hour and you miss me? Needy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven’t commented on one of your threads for an hour and you miss me? Needy."

I know,I just can't help it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t commented on one of your threads for an hour and you miss me? Needy.

I know,I just can't help it."

I have that effect. I can only apologise.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??"

Wine or whine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss someone every day….

With enough practice I reckon I can finaly hit them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??

Wine or whine?"

Can I do both??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I miss someone every day….

With enough practice I reckon I can finaly hit them. "

This nearly made me laugh.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??

Wine or whine?

Can I do both??"

One usually leads to the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss someone every day….

With enough practice I reckon I can finaly hit them.

This nearly made me laugh."

Haha. You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??

Wine or whine?

Absolute!!

Can I do both??"

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??"

Yup! Often it’s something that innocuous and tiny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the one thing that can ruin my days and put me in a hole hope you find a way thru

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its the one thing that can ruin my days and put me in a hole hope you find a way thru"

A cry

Workout

Wine

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

It used to be awful when I went through that last year… not anymore thankfully.

Time and keeping busy are the best healers. Hope you feel better soon. x

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Yup. Had it in bed the other night thinking about my husband. Felt so overwhelmed and made my heart drop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup. Had it in bed the other night thinking about my husband. Felt so overwhelmed and made my heart drop "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about missing "something"? Does that count too?

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I had that feeling, once, when I really missed someone.

I then wrote some words. A musician friend composed some music for the words and recorded it. Still makes my eye leak when I hear it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can miss anything. Most folk have experienced loss and you get moments where you desperately miss someone who is no longer with us but sometimes those moments are harder to deal with than other times…mostly when we are alone. The tough moments do pass though..doesn’t mean we stop missing them

And yes you can also miss something. There’s lots of people around the world who miss freedom. I also miss wham bars ..when they had crystals in em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its the one thing that can ruin my days and put me in a hole hope you find a way thru

A cry

Workout

Wine

"
workout help i find distractions also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or a glass of G&T and a hug with someone that loves you. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky in that it hasn't happened to me yet. But I can sympathise with how much it may hurt and hope it doesn't last too long and you feel perkier soon

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes, every single day

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I miss someone every day….

With enough practice I reckon I can finaly hit them. "

What are you aiming at them with? ...the squirty cream?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??"

Yep

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??

Yep

"

Or marzipan x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling when you miss someone.

You're just going about your day and something reminds you of them, it just physically hurts.

It's time for wine right??"

No, it's time to hit the gym and sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"You can miss anything. Most folk have experienced loss and you get moments where you desperately miss someone who is no longer with us but sometimes those moments are harder to deal with than other times…mostly when we are alone. The tough moments do pass though..doesn’t mean we stop missing them

And yes you can also miss something. There’s lots of people around the world who miss freedom. I also miss wham bars ..when they had crystals in em "

I lost my husband nine years ago and like you say we don’t stop missing them, but this really took me by surprise the other night. Just laid in bed and his last day in hospital was in my mind. It took me to going back in after he had died and seeing him there, warm but still. I just had an overwhelming feeling of Christ, he really did die, and the tears just burst. Proper sucker punch, you know when you feel it in your chest?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"You can miss anything. Most folk have experienced loss and you get moments where you desperately miss someone who is no longer with us but sometimes those moments are harder to deal with than other times…mostly when we are alone. The tough moments do pass though..doesn’t mean we stop missing them

And yes you can also miss something. There’s lots of people around the world who miss freedom. I also miss wham bars ..when they had crystals in em

I lost my husband nine years ago and like you say we don’t stop missing them, but this really took me by surprise the other night. Just laid in bed and his last day in hospital was in my mind. It took me to going back in after he had died and seeing him there, warm but still. I just had an overwhelming feeling of Christ, he really did die, and the tears just burst. Proper sucker punch, you know when you feel it in your chest? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can miss anything. Most folk have experienced loss and you get moments where you desperately miss someone who is no longer with us but sometimes those moments are harder to deal with than other times…mostly when we are alone. The tough moments do pass though..doesn’t mean we stop missing them

And yes you can also miss something. There’s lots of people around the world who miss freedom. I also miss wham bars ..when they had crystals in em

I lost my husband nine years ago and like you say we don’t stop missing them, but this really took me by surprise the other night. Just laid in bed and his last day in hospital was in my mind. It took me to going back in after he had died and seeing him there, warm but still. I just had an overwhelming feeling of Christ, he really did die, and the tears just burst. Proper sucker punch, you know when you feel it in your chest? "

Big hugs xxxx

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It's a strange feeling when you're doing something like wiping down the fridge and their face pops into your head, then you realise you aren't going to be able to talk to them again and it makes you cry.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You can miss anything. Most folk have experienced loss and you get moments where you desperately miss someone who is no longer with us but sometimes those moments are harder to deal with than other times…mostly when we are alone. The tough moments do pass though..doesn’t mean we stop missing them

And yes you can also miss something. There’s lots of people around the world who miss freedom. I also miss wham bars ..when they had crystals in em

I lost my husband nine years ago and like you say we don’t stop missing them, but this really took me by surprise the other night. Just laid in bed and his last day in hospital was in my mind. It took me to going back in after he had died and seeing him there, warm but still. I just had an overwhelming feeling of Christ, he really did die, and the tears just burst. Proper sucker punch, you know when you feel it in your chest? "

xx

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"It's a strange feeling when you're doing something like wiping down the fridge and their face pops into your head, then you realise you aren't going to be able to talk to them again and it makes you cry."

I remember coming across his train pass as I was sorting through things and thought he’ll never use it again. Strange little things

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Yup. Had it in bed the other night thinking about my husband. Felt so overwhelmed and made my heart drop "

Heartbreaking x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"It's a strange feeling when you're doing something like wiping down the fridge and their face pops into your head, then you realise you aren't going to be able to talk to them again and it makes you cry.

I remember coming across his train pass as I was sorting through things and thought he’ll never use it again. Strange little things "

That must be so hard for you.

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