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Can you be too honest on a site like this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder if I am but then you read other posts about men, women and couples being lied to...

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Defenitly yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure you can be too honest, but you definitely get judged harder for the honesty

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What does too honest mean? Surely you're either truthful or you're not? Does it mean should you lie by omission or should you keep certain details about your personal life private?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I think you should be honest then people can make their own decision whether they meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m honest - but not too generous about personal things

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Yes you can. Take care when you share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab height and fab age are the common lies that are normally told on here

I’m actually 56 and 5ft 5

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m honest with the information I give. I just don’t choose to give much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes discretion is the better part of valour, when it comes to honesty.

There are a few people that think they know what they are talking about but in truth they don't, it does make them liars just factually incorrect.

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By *hieldMan
over a year ago

Neath

Unfortunately that's the case, and not just here. I'd get into trouble with people right the way back since school for being too honest. It makes some uncomfortable and can leave you vulnerable. However, it also leads to being respected by the right sort of people. I have no regrets.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Unfortunately that's the case, and not just here. I'd get into trouble with people right the way back since school for being too honest. It makes some uncomfortable and can leave you vulnerable. However, it also leads to being respected by the right sort of people. I have no regrets."

What does too honest mean to you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think sometimes discretion is the better part of valour, when it comes to honesty.

There are a few people that think they know what they are talking about but in truth they don't, it does make them liars just factually incorrect. "

I think they're the people who confuse honesty with opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we taking honest about yourself or honesty about others?

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By *hieldMan
over a year ago

Neath


"Unfortunately that's the case, and not just here. I'd get into trouble with people right the way back since school for being too honest. It makes some uncomfortable and can leave you vulnerable. However, it also leads to being respected by the right sort of people. I have no regrets.

What does too honest mean to you?"

I speak openly about everything. It unnerves some at first. I have found many aren't accustomed to straight talking. Too concerned with societal norms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty or openness? I choose actively to be both. I find the more open I am, the more meaningful my conversations with other people are.

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By *hieldMan
over a year ago

Neath


"Honesty or openness? I choose actively to be both. I find the more open I am, the more meaningful my conversations with other people are. "

You're right. There's a difference between the 2 but I also choose both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what the honesty is about.

I am single, have a very tight wet pussy, suck like a Dyson and have a current clear STI test.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"I’m honest - but not too generous about personal things "

This... say what you don't mind being repeated has stood me on good stead here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im too honest at times and lie wildly at others it keeps people on there toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a significant difference between telling a painful truth and telling a truth to inflict pain.

Telling people painful truths with the only objective being avoiding social norms is disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you should be honest then people can make their own decision whether they meet you"

Thats what I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honesty or openness? I choose actively to be both. I find the more open I am, the more meaningful my conversations with other people are. "

Yes I do both as well, but find myself question whether I should. However, its very doubtful I will change, just not built that way!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm neither completely honest or open in regards to my personal life with people on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? what are you trying to hide?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bracknell (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

The old adage eh?!... 'ask no questions and you'll get told no lies'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The old adage eh?!... 'ask no questions and you'll get told no lies' "

Is’nt that a thread every week?

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Honesty is the best policy.

I’ve nothing to hide.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I appreciate honesty and find lies a massive turn off.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

There's honesty and honesty!!

If it's about other people, need to let them down gently I think. If it's about me, I'm too honest, so I've been told.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bracknell (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


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The old adage eh?!... 'ask no questions and you'll get told no lies'

Is’nt that a thread every week? "

Daily, surely?!

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

I am quite open with people I meet up with.

That said this lifestyle isn’t a ‘secret’ for me and my fella knows all about it so I’m not worried about some of the things a lot of people are like work, secret from partner etc etc.

GG x

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By *key1980Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

Yes!!!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I appreciate honesty and find lies a massive turn off."

100% me

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't think there's any such thing as too honest, I admire honesty

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