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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate looking in the mirror, seeing how old I'm getting. Although I don't look my age.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I stood in front of the mirror this morning thought you need more beauty sleep so I've gone back to bed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate looking in the mirror, seeing how old I'm getting. Although I don't look my age. "

Crap ain’t it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I stood in front of the mirror this morning thought you need more beauty sleep so I've gone back to bed. "

I need a years worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I never stand in front of the mirror. Ignorance is bliss.

If I say anything to myself, it's more along the lines of "I don't need a man".

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I stood in front of the mirror this morning thought you need more beauty sleep so I've gone back to bed.

I need a years worth...of Nero."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I never stand in front of the mirror. Ignorance is bliss.

If I say anything to myself, it's more along the lines of "I don't need a man"."

Haha I need to see what state I look like!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate looking in the mirror, seeing how old I'm getting. Although I don't look my age.

Crap ain’t it"
it is unfortunately, especially when your 30 in the head

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate looking in the mirror, seeing how old I'm getting. Although I don't look my age.

Crap ain’t itit is unfortunately, especially when your 30 in the head "

Haha I am 30 in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a good mix, makes it worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. Just get up and get on with it. Don’t believe in all that claptrap. Never trusted mirrors since seeing Snow White as a kid.

(Mr).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not a good mix, makes it worse "

I’m very sure you’re gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing. Just get up and get on with it. Don’t believe in all that claptrap. Never trusted mirrors since seeing Snow White as a kid.

(Mr)."

Thanks for the input

I’ll continue with my claptrap though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a face only a mother would love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got a face only a mother would love "

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think it’s bullshit tbh , opera Winfrey stuff.

You either believe it or not , telling yourself won’t help if you don’t really believe it. Like do you have a mind and an ego in their and you think one can convince the other it’s wrong ? It’s that what’s happening in our heads….? I don’t think so

My daily mantra is ‘try to experience reality as accurately as I can’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s bullshit tbh , opera Winfrey stuff.

You either believe it or not , telling yourself won’t help if you don’t really believe it. Like do you have a mind and an ego in their and you think one can convince the other it’s wrong ? It’s that what’s happening in our heads….? I don’t think so

My daily mantra is ‘try to experience reality as accurately as I can’ "

Im a hot fox

It’s working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing. Just get up and get on with it. Don’t believe in all that claptrap. Never trusted mirrors since seeing Snow White as a kid.

(Mr).

Thanks for the input

I’ll continue with my claptrap though "

You’re very welcome! Hope it works out x

(Was told years ago by someone a lot wiser than I’ll ever be - confidence comes from proportion towards the goal - not from repeating the desire for it)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing. Just get up and get on with it. Don’t believe in all that claptrap. Never trusted mirrors since seeing Snow White as a kid.

(Mr).

Thanks for the input

I’ll continue with my claptrap though

You’re very welcome! Hope it works out x

(Was told years ago by someone a lot wiser than I’ll ever be - confidence comes from proportion towards the goal - not from repeating the desire for it)"

Ahhh ok

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I think it’s bullshit tbh , opera Winfrey stuff. "

•

Phantom Of The Øprah?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s bullshit tbh , opera Winfrey stuff.

•

Phantom Of The Øprah? "

My favourite

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I stood naked in front of the mirror and wondered how long I could hold that pose before someone threw me out of IKEA.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I think it’s bullshit tbh , opera Winfrey stuff.

You either believe it or not , telling yourself won’t help if you don’t really believe it. Like do you have a mind and an ego in their and you think one can convince the other it’s wrong ? It’s that what’s happening in our heads….? I don’t think so

My daily mantra is ‘try to experience reality as accurately as I can’

Im a hot fox

It’s working "

Exactly , you’re seeing things just as they are anyway .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I stood naked in front of the mirror and wondered how long I could hold that pose before someone threw me out of IKEA."

Ha

Ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s bullshit tbh , opera Winfrey stuff.

You either believe it or not , telling yourself won’t help if you don’t really believe it. Like do you have a mind and an ego in their and you think one can convince the other it’s wrong ? It’s that what’s happening in our heads….? I don’t think so

My daily mantra is ‘try to experience reality as accurately as I can’

Im a hot fox

It’s working

Exactly , you’re seeing things just as they are anyway . "

Smooth talker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning I’ve not looked as yet just made coffee and let cat out

But know acceptance is the key love how we are no one is perfect so most days I like my look and what I have bumps as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s bullshit tbh , opera Winfrey stuff.

You either believe it or not , telling yourself won’t help if you don’t really believe it. Like do you have a mind and an ego in their and you think one can convince the other it’s wrong ? It’s that what’s happening in our heads….? I don’t think so

My daily mantra is ‘try to experience reality as accurately as I can’ "

Precisely! Can anyone honestly say their singing has improved due to a mirror?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good morning I’ve not looked as yet just made coffee and let cat out

But know acceptance is the key love how we are no one is perfect so most days I like my look and what I have bumps as well "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I look in the mirror long enough I begin to bring myself down. ‘Your a d’ck!’ - ‘f’kin idiot! Etc. That type of thing.

I do look oldest than I feel but younger than I should. But there’s been enough compliments my way to not worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I look in the mirror long enough I begin to bring myself down. ‘Your a d’ck!’ - ‘f’kin idiot! Etc. That type of thing.

I do look oldest than I feel but younger than I should. But there’s been enough compliments my way to not worry about it.

"

Accepting the compliments is my toughest job

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I immerse myself daily in my imperfectly perfect imperfections.

....and then I make a Cafetière.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I immerse myself daily in my imperfectly perfect imperfections.

....and then I make a Cafetière."

Instant coffee here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I immerse myself daily in my imperfectly perfect imperfections.

....and then I make a Cafetière.

Instant coffee here "

Now a mirror that you could ask for coffee and then it would be ready in the kitchen when you go downstairs would be handy.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I immerse myself daily in my imperfectly perfect imperfections.

....and then I make a Cafetière.

Instant coffee here "

•

I'll make it instantly for you in my Cafetière. Post-haste!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I immerse myself daily in my imperfectly perfect imperfections.

....and then I make a Cafetière.

Instant coffee here

•

I'll make it instantly for you in my Cafetière. Post-haste!"

Gëntlemåñ

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early"

I'm not hot or a fox but I do try and convince myself I'm better than I believe.

It helps.

So does coffee and cake

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Not a mantra as such

But I'm good enough and that's good enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the opposite, I've stopped looking in the mirror. The more I look, the more I self criticize. Just a quick check I look presentable then I walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I look in the mirror long enough I begin to bring myself down. ‘Your a d’ck!’ - ‘f’kin idiot! Etc. That type of thing.

I do look oldest than I feel but younger than I should. But there’s been enough compliments my way to not worry about it.

Accepting the compliments is my toughest job "

Oh yeh. I read your other thread. I know some are complimentary compliments, they may feel they need to say it maybe. But, sometimes one or two feel genuine. Maybe they’re just good at lying. I don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tick the 'Looking for men' box. Instantly fuckable and desirable hole.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I just tick the 'Looking for men' box. Instantly fuckable and desirable hole. "

Funnily enough, that’s what I do too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just tick the 'Looking for men' box. Instantly fuckable and desirable hole.

Funnily enough, that’s what I do too! "

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My eyesight is getting terrible so normal mirrors are not a problem as I look in soft focus. I’ve had to start using a magnifying mirror for makeup etc.

Not for the faint of heart are they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just tick the 'Looking for men' box. Instantly fuckable and desirable hole.

Funnily enough, that’s what I do too! "

you might be onto something there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning op nice post .

Mindset positive mantra's are very important. How we think and feel counts towards any outcome.

Just like foods. What you eat is what you are.

Many mistake it i eat healthy ,i should live for ever, quality of life and time is important not the length of time.

" all in the mindset,use good words and thoughts! Towards yourself and others if one can,other wise stay quiet."

Peace.

Just shareing ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early

I'm not hot or a fox but I do try and convince myself I'm better than I believe.

It helps.

So does coffee and cake"

I’ve had 3 coffees

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a mantra as such

But I'm good enough and that's good enough "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do the opposite, I've stopped looking in the mirror. The more I look, the more I self criticize. Just a quick check I look presentable then I walk away."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just tick the 'Looking for men' box. Instantly fuckable and desirable hole. "

Haha

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early"

You are hot. Stop worrying lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My eyesight is getting terrible so normal mirrors are not a problem as I look in soft focus. I’ve had to start using a magnifying mirror for makeup etc.

Not for the faint of heart are they! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Morning op nice post .

Mindset positive mantra's are very important. How we think and feel counts towards any outcome.

Just like foods. What you eat is what you are.

Many mistake it i eat healthy ,i should live for ever, quality of life and time is important not the length of time.

" all in the mindset,use good words and thoughts! Towards yourself and others if one can,other wise stay quiet."

Peace.

Just shareing .."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early

You are hot. Stop worrying lovely xx"

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I looked in the mirror and Said I best not look too long in case it cracks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I looked in the mirror and Said I best not look too long in case it cracks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look in the mirror and tell myself that being potatoey is classy

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I look in the mirror and tell myself that being potatoey is classy "

I like potatoes . You're all gorgeous. Stop beating yourselves up based on other people's assumptions x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m the days before I’m going out I let my hair get nesty and don’t wear makeup so that when I do my hair and face I feel like a different person. I feel like a fat, weird looking supermodel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look in the mirror and tell myself that being potatoey is classy "

You’re gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m the days before I’m going out I let my hair get nesty and don’t wear makeup so that when I do my hair and face I feel like a different person. I feel like a fat, weird looking supermodel. "

shut up !! You’re beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is

Fuck it I'm fat. If they don't like it fuck em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early"

Well I don’t know to much about anything but for sure you have really pretty eyes

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston


"I looked in the mirror and Said I best not look too long in case it cracks

"

No sad faces please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine is

Fuck it I'm fat. If they don't like it fuck em "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early

Well I don’t know to much about anything but for sure you have really pretty eyes "

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I looked in the mirror and Said I best not look too long in case it cracks

No sad faces please "

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Mine is

Fuck it I'm fat. If they don't like it fuck em "

Wise words my man

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Mine is

Fuck it I'm fat. If they don't like it fuck em "

I rock a “dad bod” I don’t care it’s there to stay

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I use reaffirmation meditation

I am the best person right now that I want to be, my love starts and ends with me, as if my cup is not brimming with self love how can I possibly give any to anybody else

Learning when to balance out giving and taking is hard though and it's very easy to fall into a love deficit, that's when self love meditation is most important, realising it's time to curl up and renergize my soul and spirit for me xxx

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early

I'm not hot or a fox but I do try and convince myself I'm better than I believe.

It helps.

So does coffee and cake

I’ve had 3 coffees "

No cake?

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside


"I think it’s bullshit tbh , opera Winfrey stuff.

You either believe it or not , telling yourself won’t help if you don’t really believe it. Like do you have a mind and an ego in their and you think one can convince the other it’s wrong ? It’s that what’s happening in our heads….? I don’t think so

My daily mantra is ‘try to experience reality as accurately as I can’

Im a hot fox

It’s working "

You have gorgeous eyes - like a hot fox

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

All my mirrors are opaque. They give me a clouded view on how I look. I'm fine with this.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I’m the days before I’m going out I let my hair get nesty and don’t wear makeup so that when I do my hair and face I feel like a different person. I feel like a fat, weird looking supermodel. "

•

I'm looking forward to redeeming my SaffWrøng Voucher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling mistake?

Depreciation is where something loses value over time.

Deprication is where someone puts themself down.

OK it isn't an OED definition.

"You can try and risk failure or you can not try and ensure it"

"I am owed nothing, I owe nothing, I came into the world with nothing and will leave it the same. All the things are to be experienced and they will be gone one day"

"Other people's opinions are none of my business and my opinion is none of theirs"

They may seem dark yet as we come to understand them they work as a fantastic tool to recognise our own confidence.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Spelling mistake?

Depreciation is where something loses value over time.

Deprication is where someone puts themself down.

OK it isn't an OED definition.

"You can try and risk failure or you can not try and ensure it"

"I am owed nothing, I owe nothing, I came into the world with nothing and will leave it the same. All the things are to be experienced and they will be gone one day"

"Other people's opinions are none of my business and my opinion is none of theirs"

They may seem dark yet as we come to understand them they work as a fantastic tool to recognise our own confidence."

*deprecation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look in the I use ms teams

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Spelling mistake?

Depreciation is where something loses value over time.

Deprication is where someone puts themself down."

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No, that's "self-deprecation"

There is no such word as "Deprication".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t think I’ve spelt anything wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a little song that goes

"Every little cell in my body is happy.

Every little cell in my body is well"

It's from a Qi Gong class that I do online

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a little song that goes

"Every little cell in my body is happy.

Every little cell in my body is well"

It's from a Qi Gong class that I do online "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a little song that goes

"Every little cell in my body is happy.

Every little cell in my body is well"

It's from a Qi Gong class that I do online "

Is there a little dance that goes with that ditty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for correcting my spelling - I'm always correcting others smelling pistakes. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a little song that goes

"Every little cell in my body is happy.

Every little cell in my body is well"

It's from a Qi Gong class that I do online

Is there a little dance that goes with that ditty? "

Well I'm always up for a lil dance. Shook my booty big time last night actually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early"

I love this OP! I definitely think it helps. Confidence is really sexy (more so than looks for me) so just by repeating your mantra, you are making yourself sexier!

And there is research that says that we can change what we think and feel by simply by telling ourselves what we want to think and feel.

I use my partner to help myself feel sexy. I strut around naked and tell him how sexy I am, maybe wiggling my boobs or bum in his face. He is very gratifying

I also have a practice of never arguing with people when they give me a compliment. Instead I simply say "thanks" or enthusiastically agree. Having a "no-arguing" rule stops me from being over-modest and coy, something that society kinda encourages us to do, but doesnt help our confidence.

Keep doing your mantras!

Fay x

*Wiggles boobs and bum with a satisfied expression on face*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I stood in front of the mirror and said

‘You’re a hot fox’ this morning.

Going to see if this morning mantra of kinds, helps one self confidence.

I of course, am a hot fox - I just need to convince myself and the tall, bearded gorgeous men I am too

Tell me about your mantras or if you do anything to kick start your confidence

This actually could be way too early

I love this OP! I definitely think it helps. Confidence is really sexy (more so than looks for me) so just by repeating your mantra, you are making yourself sexier!

And there is research that says that we can change what we think and feel by simply by telling ourselves what we want to think and feel.

I use my partner to help myself feel sexy. I strut around naked and tell him how sexy I am, maybe wiggling my boobs or bum in his face. He is very gratifying

I also have a practice of never arguing with people when they give me a compliment. Instead I simply say "thanks" or enthusiastically agree. Having a "no-arguing" rule stops me from being over-modest and coy, something that society kinda encourages us to do, but doesnt help our confidence.

Keep doing your mantras!

Fay x

*Wiggles boobs and bum with a satisfied expression on face*

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