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I’ve become Really Kinky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve become really kinky lately and normal sex just doesn’t do it for me. Looking for a female partner who can experiment with me and possibly show me a thing or two. Tie and tease is good and also lately a blind fold adds something extra. I need to experiment a lot more . I’m not that confident , how can I approach a lady and let them know what I’m into without them thinking I’m weird???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest meeting someone and getting to know them first and then broach the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They will only think it weird if you make it weird. Be open and honest with yourself and about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just find it really hard. Obviously in a club or spa it’s easy to talk to people. But I want something more natural. I guess it will come in time and I should rush. Just have so much I want to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest putting hints in your profile about your kinks. Kinky people do tend to find each other. Photos can also be great for this - holding a prop perhaps. Present the image of the kinky man you are and kinky women will be drawn to it.

Alternatively use kink sites/apps to find people and attend kink events. Plenty of venues that hold swing events also run kinky ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you aint slurry guy go for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, sounds like very good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just find it really hard. Obviously in a club or spa it’s easy to talk to people. But I want something more natural. I guess it will come in time and I should rush. Just have so much I want to try "

I am a few years down the road and tbh I no longer meet people and then mention the kink. I am upfront with it. Accept me with my kink or not at all. That's how important it is to me. And trying to explain what D/s is to a vanilla person is just fucking painful.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Thanks, sounds like very good advice. "

My old POF profile (and current t*nder one) said something like, "more kinky than vanilla." That did the trick in ensuring that I only ever ended up chatting with people who were at least open to it.

Just try to avoid coming across like a Christian Gret wannabe.

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