FabSwingers.com forum: I’m fairly new. How do you get meets as I’ve found it hard to get verified

By *nshapeman OP Man
over a year ago

peterborough

Really wanting to get involved in the scene swinging but finding it difficult. Anyone else finding this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message, start conversation, realise you’re compatible, arrange meet and then meet.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Message, start conversation, realise you’re compatible, arrange meet and then meet.

All the above and attending social or go to clubs

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Really wanting to get involved in the scene swinging but finding it difficult. Anyone else finding this? "

You have really good pics man

. Maybe add a couple more, one of you in something smart, clothes-wise. Suits are a big hit on here, for example

And maybe add more to your bio. Tell them something about you, what you like, and what you're looking for. Will help the right people find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots find it difficult, especially single men.

Suggest looking in the meets section of the forum here and going to a few and getting to know a few people.

It wouldn't hurt to take a look at your profile and flesh it out to give others the chance to make a connection.

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By *escourtesMan
over a year ago

hereford

Hi, youve got a crap profile mate! Describe yourself, sell yourself! Imagine youre selling a car what would you include? Also just keep sending messages, get in the chat rooms...

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Hi, youve got a crap profile mate! Describe yourself, sell yourself! Imagine youre selling a car what would you include? Also just keep sending messages, get in the chat rooms..."

He never asked for a review of his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op pull up a chair and let me tell you a tale…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check social events, swinging clubs too are good to meet and also get Veris too, like the pics too

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Really wanting to get involved in the scene swinging but finding it difficult. Anyone else finding this? "

This post is longer than your profile (if you remove the pointless warning message).

Effort in = results out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a YouTube tutorial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really wanting to get involved in the scene swinging but finding it difficult. Anyone else finding this? "

Yes. As soon as you start posting in the forums!….

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As others said op you need to actually write a profile ,what you're looking for and what you offer .

You need to give others a reason to want to meet you.

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By *nshapeman OP Man
over a year ago

peterborough

Really appreciate everyone’s comments. Profile write up definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick pics.

From all angles.

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By *escourtesMan
over a year ago

hereford

Im changing my profile name to...Dick Pic

LOl

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Offer cake.

Expect nothing.

Don't be a twat.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Offer cake.

Expect nothing.

Don't be a twat."

Best advice ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a cracking body.

Get mixing more on here and in socials, clubs as suggested.

As long as you're not a total cunt or have zero personality then there's absolutely no reason you shouldn't meet someone

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Really appreciate everyone’s comments. Profile write up definitely "

I see you ignored the advice

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Really appreciate everyone’s comments. Profile write up definitely

I see you ignored the advice "

They always do...

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By *nshapeman OP Man
over a year ago

peterborough

I’m in the the process of writing it in notes on my phone so in due time

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