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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else get pissed off with the absolute dickheads who appear on this show?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

At least those dickheads are actually getting themselved checked out and on TV too!

Id be more worried about the 1000s more that are dickheads that don't get checked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least those dickheads are actually getting themselved checked out and on TV too!

Id be more worried about the 1000s more that are dickheads that don't get checked out

totally agree there!!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you got pissed off by dickheads you probably wouldn't watch television.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least those dickheads are actually getting themselved checked out and on TV too!

Id be more worried about the 1000s more that are dickheads that don't get checked out

A good point at least they are actually doing something pro-active. Sadly there are many out there who say they are getting tested and find something else to do rather than follow through.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh its not that that's pissing me off, well done for going having yourself tested, especially on national televison!

Its some of their attitudes that piss me off e.g. one guy bragged that he shagged 4 girls whilst he was awaiting the results of an HIV test or one girl who openly stated to her parents that she always did unprotected sex with strangers on nights out because "it feels better"!!

And yes, the 1000s more who don't get checked are more worrying lol.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I only watch this when I see a thread - I keep forgetting it's a series and not a one off. It's becoming a bit of a guilty secret.

I just hope young people are watching and that some of the, perhaps too subtle, sexual health education gets through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh its not that that's pissing me off, well done for going having yourself tested, especially on national televison!

And yes, the 1000s more who don't get checked are more worrying lol."

There are people even on here who apparently play while waiting for results and even worse don't tell people after the fact they could have been at risk. I am always astounded at the lack of social responsibility and the lack of care and concern some have for the people they fuck.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm a regular attendee at the local STI clinic and often see the same faces, most of whom are half my age.

Almost without exception they treat the business of being told they're 'all clear' as an unconditional licence to continue as before.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I'm a regular attendee at the local STI clinic and often see the same faces, most of whom are half my age.

Almost without exception they treat the business of being told they're 'all clear' as an unconditional licence to continue as before."

Isn't that EXACTLY the same as you yourself are doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you got pissed off by dickheads you probably wouldn't watch television."

I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If somebody is sleeping around and having unprotected sex should be given at least 30 years in prison there was a guy in the uk some years back who was sleeping around and he was put in prison for passing HIV to girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If somebody is sleeping around and having unprotected sex should be given at least 30 years in prison there was a guy in the uk some years back who was sleeping around and he was put in prison for passing HIV to girls."

Would you define 'unprotected sex' please?

Because 'sex' by definition can, of course, include oral - so if you're going to lock everyone up who has had unprotected oral Im guessing about 95% of this site needs to line up outside the gates of Wandsworth.

Gotta love knee-jerk, high-horse attitudes.

Its _iews like this that cause other people to lie about their sexual practices on this and other sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only watch this when I see a thread - I keep forgetting it's a series and not a one off. It's becoming a bit of a guilty secret.

I just hope young people are watching and that some of the, perhaps too subtle, sexual health education gets through."

Sad part is, Lickety, that 'young people' won't get the point the programme is making, and probably only see the characters as sort-of role models...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Adults are just as bad as the younger generation in getting tested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adults are just as bad as the younger generation in getting tested. "
Yep - greatest increase in STI's since the t'internet came about is in the over 50's....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Adults are just as bad as the younger generation in getting tested. Yep - greatest increase in STI's since the t'internet came about is in the over 50's....

lol i just laughed out loud then but i can understand why. As maybe some have prob never heard of half the stuff going around now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adults are just as bad as the younger generation in getting tested. Yep - greatest increase in STI's since the t'internet came about is in the over 50's....

Thanks for that

Am off to knock 5/6 years off my age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you define sleeping around. I've had lots of unprotected oral. And loads of bb over the years. Yet still currently have not caught a thing.

So should I be locked away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you define sleeping around. I've had lots of unprotected oral. And loads of bb over the years. Yet still currently have not caught a thing.

So should I be locked away."

If they come for you, they will most likely come for me also.

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Lock all of you away? Can't see how that would be punishment? You'd be far too busy having more bb fun I imagine lol

On a serious note, each to there own. So long as those partaking are upfront about it other parties know the risks and are all consenting adults. It's when people hide it and lie that unwelcome surprises pop up.

And even if these people are taking it as green light to carry on at least they are getting checked, maybe the message to these young ones will sink in eventually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adults are just as bad as the younger generation in getting tested. Yep - greatest increase in STI's since the t'internet came about is in the over 50's....

Thanks for that

Am off to knock 5/6 years off my age range

My pleasure Bussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the 2 gay boys working in the "porn industry" and not getting checked often was very shocking

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I dont get why the OP thinks they are dickheads.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The majority of those going are attending because they are worried about their, and/or their partner(s), health and want to be checked to make sure they are not infected or carrying something. Those people I am fine, if not impressed, with for doing this e.g. the girl who went because she thought she might be pregnant and thought she may have caught an STI too.

Its that small minority (as there always is in society) that pisses me off e.g. last night's episode featured 2 guys who work in the porn industry, but hadn't tested themselves for over a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The majority of those going are attending because they are worried about their, and/or their partner(s), health and want to be checked to make sure they are not infected or carrying something. Those people I am fine, if not impressed, with for doing this e.g. the girl who went because she thought she might be pregnant and thought she may have caught an STI too.

Its that small minority (as there always is in society) that pisses me off e.g. last night's episode featured 2 guys who work in the porn industry, but hadn't tested themselves for over a year. "

Irresponsible and unfair to people they played with although I thought porn stars needed an up to date cert when they turn up for filming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought so too, but that's what the 2 blokes said.

The one guy's results came back clean and was allowed to perform in a bb gay film, but the other one tested positive for chlamydia and gonorrhoea and was banned from films till he tested negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think the 2 gay boys working in the "porn industry" and not getting checked often was very shocking"

theres loads of people who go years without getting tested

yeah sure when a STI thread comes up on here people pop up and say they get tested regular and im sure they do but for everyone who does i bet there a 100 on here who dont

I met a guy who said he had never been tested in bhis life and he was in his 30s, he said till he thinks he has a problem he sees no point

some people dont realise not all STI show visible symptoms so while everything looks ok they think it is ok

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Its that small minority (as there always is in society) that pisses me off e.g. last night's episode featured 2 guys who work in the porn industry, but hadn't tested themselves for over a year.

Irresponsible and unfair to people they played with although I thought porn stars needed an up to date cert when they turn up for filming. "

Yes they only made one film that year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its that small minority (as there always is in society) that pisses me off e.g. last night's episode featured 2 guys who work in the porn industry, but hadn't tested themselves for over a year.

Irresponsible and unfair to people they played with although I thought porn stars needed an up to date cert when they turn up for filming. "

Only just caught up with this on i-player.

The attitude of the 2 gay guys didn't surprise me at all (used to work with one or two with exactly the same) but it was the 'director' of the movie right at the start of the show who's knowledge/attitude (now sure which it was) astonished me! As far as I know, anyone appearing in a 'mainstream' porn movie has to have a 30-day certificate to prove they are negative (i.e tested AND confirmed clear within the 30 days previous to the shoot) or they don't get on the set. The 'director' didn't even mention that at all. He just gave the impression that it was 'in their interests' to get checked regularly - not that it was an industry requirement. Really worrying if he's going around making porn and isn't asking for proof....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Its that small minority (as there always is in society) that pisses me off e.g. last night's episode featured 2 guys who work in the porn industry, but hadn't tested themselves for over a year. "
Well stick around on fab awhile, its full of people that say one thing but actually mean another, but at least they got tested...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and on a show this morning, a 17 year old guy has fathered 4 children..... scary

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"and on a show this morning, a 17 year old guy has fathered 4 children..... scary

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i only have ONE question...WHY?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"and on a show this morning, a 17 year old guy has fathered 4 children..... scary

i only have ONE question...WHY?

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BUT..... the thing in 'Unsafe' which nearly had me throwing a brick through me laptop was the 19 yr old girl, in a relationship, who thought that 'trust' was a better contraceptive than the pill or a condom....

Guess what??? She's preggers - now ain't that a thang.....??????

Well 'luv', how about, instead of all us nice folk payin our taxes an' stuff, we all 'trust' that by some strange miracle you'll find the money to bring up your kid without us having to bail you out!!!!!

Apologies all, for a non-Thursday rant...... think it must be all the talk of that famous right-winger, Mr Romney, on another thread this morning....

gets ones dander up......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When is this program on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is this program on?"

Sundays BBC3. It was on at midnight this Sunday. I got it on i-player this morning. Saves staying up on a Sunday...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Its on nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From now on any meets I have will be required to double bag! Yeah that's right 2 condoms on. I always have safe sex but now I'm having doubly safe sex!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"From now on any meets I have will be required to double bag! Yeah that's right 2 condoms on. I always have safe sex but now I'm having doubly safe sex!! "

that will just increase the risk of them breaking due to the friction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still waiting for someone I know to pop up on this programme !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From now on any meets I have will be required to double bag! Yeah that's right 2 condoms on. I always have safe sex but now I'm having doubly safe sex!! "

better get the kettle on then rubes cos it takes me about 20 minutes to get 1 on let alone 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From now on any meets I have will be required to double bag! Yeah that's right 2 condoms on. I always have safe sex but now I'm having doubly safe sex!!

better get the kettle on then rubes cos it takes me about 20 minutes to get 1 on let alone 2

Haha I will put dinner on Bussy! I could rustle up an evening meal while you put 2 on! haha

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

the bloke with HIV his behaviour is shocking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the bloke with HIV his behaviour is shocking..

Its awful but so are the people playing bareback with people they don't know; they could be passing anything on. No glove no love...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

how can they get the people to swab themselves?? lazy nurses

when i go its full on legs in stirrups, speculum and KY with a Dr

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

the bloke with HIV his behaviour is shocking..

Its awful but so are the people playing bareback with people they don't know; they could be passing anything on. No glove no love..."

True I have not been a saint with protection but I do now...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

the bloke with HIV his behaviour is shocking..

Its awful but so are the people playing bareback with people they don't know; they could be passing anything on. No glove no love...

True I have not been a saint with protection but I do now..."

However I have been checked!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the bloke with HIV his behaviour is shocking..

Its awful but so are the people playing bareback with people they don't know; they could be passing anything on. No glove no love...

True I have not been a saint with protection but I do now...

However I have been checked!!

I get checked regularly and I also use condoms every single time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

least im not the only one out there having dry sex

hahaha

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I missed a bit - what happened to the woman who came home with a discharge and talked to her boyf on skype? Did she have anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I missed a bit - what happened to the woman who came home with a discharge and talked to her boyf on skype? Did she have anything?"

Nope she was clear.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I missed a bit - what happened to the woman who came home with a discharge and talked to her boyf on skype? Did she have anything?

Nope she was clear. "

Thanks honey

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