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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If a stranger sat right next to you for a period of longer than 10 minutes....would you initiate a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no, no way, nuh uh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually, yes. Had some great random convos.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Depends. If they look a bit mad then no, although they'll probably talk to me because I'm a proper weirdo magnet.

If they look in any way approachable then yes. I love chatting to new people and there's almost always something interesting in the chat.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Yes unless they didn’t chat back!! I feel obliged to make small talk with someone I’m next to on a plane or shop queue! Actually, I must be a total pain in the ass!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a fine line between undress with the eyes and crazy eyes

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

No. Those kind of enforced social interactions are my idea of hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve probably been talking to them for the past 5 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weirdo magnet you know I'd say hii but most you ladies are giving cold shoulders

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

No....

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Weirdo magnet you know I'd say hii but most you ladies are giving cold shoulders "

Not all of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No respect my anti social cone of silence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na unlikely i dont like people until i like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clarify .. is it a lass, and how big are her tits? #ContextIsEverything

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By *el13ABCMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

No not a chance

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I would. I’m quite a chatty guy, there’s usually something comment-worthy going on to chat about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely why not pass some time on

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably unless I wasn't in the mood for conversation

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Just to clarify .. is it a lass, and how big are her tits? #ContextIsEverything "

Yes I am and they are ( G ) ( G )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have to, they usually start talking to me. Damn my smiley face!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to clarify .. is it a lass, and how big are her tits? #ContextIsEverything

Yes I am and they are ( G ) ( G )"
well thats a game changer

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Yes of course. I love to socialise

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Just to clarify .. is it a lass, and how big are her tits? #ContextIsEverything

Yes I am and they are ( G ) ( G )well thats a game changer "

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By *art1968Man
over a year ago

stafford

Normally yes even on the tube sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Just stare at them until they felt uncomfortable and moved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to clarify .. is it a lass, and how big are her tits? #ContextIsEverything

Yes I am and they are ( G ) ( G )"

Ahh well if it was YOU that sat next to me I’d probably go off on one and bore you to death about just how BAD Jar Jar bloody Binks was in The Phantom Menace. And ask to see your Star Wars pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to clarify .. is it a lass, and how big are her tits? #ContextIsEverything

Yes I am and they are ( G ) ( G )

Ahh well if it was YOU that sat next to me I’d probably go off on one and bore you to death about just how BAD Jar Jar bloody Binks was in The Phantom Menace. And ask to see your Star Wars pants "

You mean undercover Sith Lord Binks?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Yes I am a chatter box. Unless there working or earphones in. I am very bubbly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time we have very low body language skills of reading other's how they stand,arms placed in certain postions. Head shoulders and eye contact.

We judge looks among many other things about them. And have opinions based on no facts!!!

Until they speak or ask something.

Have we ever had that? And felt our very wrong judgement of others.

But we put it down to i dont fancey them. Nor like the look of them, not my type. My preference is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, within a minute or two on public transport. Within 5 minutes in a pub. Within 10 in a night club and in a swinging club I'd let them lead the chat.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I would say it depends on where you are and the body language and eye contact. Also I find that in the South West people are less open to random conversations than in the North and back home in Ireland. At home you would not get past a couple of minutes before the chat and craic starts.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Yes I am a chatter box. Unless there working or earphones in. I am very bubbly "

Would like to see how much of a chatterbox you are in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I can guarantee they would talk to me.

Always happens, it's like they can smell my social awkwardness and want to make it worse haha

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Depends if they seem approachable, some people give off good vibes and other don't

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"No, but I can guarantee they would talk to me.

Always happens, it's like they can smell my social awkwardness and want to make it worse haha"

Haha that would be me then

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By *andSCouple
over a year ago

Old London Town


"If a stranger sat right next to you for a period of longer than 10 minutes....would you initiate a conversation "

Too long travelling on trains into work, so no way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weirdo magnet you know I'd say hii but most you ladies are giving cold shoulders "

Its a london thing down here. .

I chat to most on the tubes busses out shopping etc.

Not all about oh i fancey them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to clarify .. is it a lass, and how big are her tits? #ContextIsEverything

Yes I am and they are ( G ) ( G )

Ahh well if it was YOU that sat next to me I’d probably go off on one and bore you to death about just how BAD Jar Jar bloody Binks was in The Phantom Menace. And ask to see your Star Wars pants

You mean undercover Sith Lord Binks?"

Honestly, he’s the main reason I have never watched that film again! Maybe it gets better on second viewing, who knows?

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Generally no, my dad on the other hand will chat to anyone - plainly I didn't inherit the gregarious gene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes with a few caveats.

1. If it's somewhere where the person would reasonably expect to be left alone or is giving off vibes that they want to be left alone.

2. If I can sense that the person is going to be "hard work" or they give reason for me not to want a conversation with them. Although I would respond to pretty much anyone. No guarantee that the conversation would progress beyond pleasantries though.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

It would depend a lot on where and when that happened, certainly not in some random place like a train or cinema or dentists, but maybe at a social event like a wedding or something, but again, maybe not depending on whether I like the look of them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

Is this stranger hot??

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I offer people next to me my haribo sweets as I am nice like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a woman do the keep looking at my balls

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a geordie. Their arse wouldn’t even touch the seat and I’d know what they’d had for tea, where they were born and that I went to school with their cousin.

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By *ynda CTV/TS
over a year ago

Nr pwllheli

I sure do if his hand is travelling up my thigh !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.

Is this stranger hot??

"

Menopausal?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Depends.

Is this stranger hot??

"

Better move away from them if they are because it could be covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.

Is this stranger hot??

Menopausal?"

Not quite yet, but I'll keep you informed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.

Is this stranger hot??

Better move away from them if they are because it could be covid "

Don't want that now I can't have my 10 days off. What's the point??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never be arsed talking to people when I’m out and about in places now I’m the complete opposite. Chat to everyone and anyone. I always think that person could be having a shit day and a chat helps sometimes. Even if it is just general bollocks

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.

Is this stranger hot??

Menopausal?

Not quite yet, but I'll keep you informed."

It won’t be long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.

Is this stranger hot??

Menopausal?

Not quite yet, but I'll keep you informed.

It won’t be long "

Thanks for making my Friday night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.

Is this stranger hot??

Menopausal?

Not quite yet, but I'll keep you informed.

It won’t be long

Thanks for making my Friday night."

You’re welcome. I’m here all weekend

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