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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though." A small village that I'm not in yet, I'll take that as a win! Welcome  | |||
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"Welcome to fab. Social experiment? "Sydney University "stuff"... 
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"Welcome to fab. Social experiment? "It's like the Truman Show but with more genitals. | |||
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"Welcome to fab. Social experiment?
It's like the Truman Show but with more genitals."You win the internet today LMAO | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? " I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important" | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? " Sure. All of the above. | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important"" Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it. | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important" Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it." Pay people no mind. Posting on the forum can be a different kind of social experiment | |||
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"For the record, I KNOW that there people of no consequence reading the forums. No consequence to me, no consequence to anybody in my family, or any friend, workmate or acquaintance I have ever had. *waves to Tarquin" LOL | |||
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"Hmmmm there’s a lot of reply’s and msgs sent that people wouldn’t say out loud in the presence of others. But feel acceptable to send in a msg on fabs. " That’s what I’m talking about. Who people are in the dark. | |||
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"For the record, I KNOW that there people of no consequence reading the forums. No consequence to me, no consequence to anybody in my family, or any friend, workmate or acquaintance I have ever had. *waves to Tarquin" | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important" Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it. Pay people no mind. Posting on the forum can be a different kind of social experiment "That’s how I see it almost daily. Consciously trying something out to see the results is an experiment, social or otherwise. People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important"" Same. Fab is an interesting view into a cross section of society and how they interact when covered by the relative veil of anonymity that the internet affords. And as you expect, there is a wide variety of responses and messages ranging from polite, to the point and respectable to outright disturbing. Happy to say the majority are the former though! | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though." I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) | |||
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"Hmmmm there’s a lot of reply’s and msgs sent that people wouldn’t say out loud in the presence of others. But feel acceptable to send in a msg on fabs. That’s what I’m talking about. Who people are in the dark." I'm always in the dark know as the naughty corner  | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)" Fafchester? | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) Fafchester?" 2nd time lucky! Love Fafchester | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important" Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it. Pay people no mind. Posting on the forum can be a different kind of social experiment " thanks, you are very kind. | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. A small village that I'm not in yet, I'll take that as a win! Welcome "Thank you! | |||
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"Welcome to the forum OP. "hotel meats"-)" No-one told there was a buffet. Now I’m really keen! | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)" Idk, the Cornfield maybe? Like that episode of Twilight Zone. (Yes I am a dork and I watch a lot of old TV / films) | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) Fafchester? 2nd time lucky! Love Fafchester " | |||
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"Do exhibitionists and voyeurs have to engage with other people? They might not want to. "And I wish they wouldn’t in that case… | |||
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"Welcome. It’s not really relevant to the conversation but your username makes me want to call you Lynyrd Skynbyrd." They were damned good for a band with such terrible values. Kinda maddening. | |||
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"Welcome to fab. Social experiment? "Thanks! I have to see it that way, as a social experiment. Cause though I won’t elaborate, some people have already tried some really dodgy things. And yes I do know I can change the settings. And sometimes I do change them so I can stop all messages. | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) Fafchester? 2nd time lucky! Love Fafchester
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important" Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it. Pay people no mind. Posting on the forum can be a different kind of social experiment
That’s how I see it almost daily.
Consciously trying something out to see the results is an experiment, social or otherwise.
People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing "*waves to you* | |||
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"Welcome. It’s not really relevant to the conversation but your username makes me want to call you Lynyrd Skynbyrd." You're probably a free bird  | |||
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"Edward Snowden is that you? Nyet" Have some fabs xx | |||
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"Welcome to the party the forums is a awesome place " Thanks! Yeah it seems to be. | |||
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"Did you have any expectations when you joined?" I suppose I expected more swingers than single men looking for single women, was that totally naive of me? | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important" Same. Fab is an interesting view into a cross section of society and how they interact when covered by the relative veil of anonymity that the internet affords. And as you expect, there is a wide variety of responses and messages ranging from polite, to the point and respectable to outright disturbing. Happy to say the majority are the former though!" Glad to hear it, I think maybe I’ve made this post in an effort to be visible to some of the former. Can’t please everyone and I’m not about to go (even more) insane trying. | |||
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"Welcome to Fab forums OP. A place as no other , where experiences and words they mix together and keep let all of us with a buzz in ourselves imagination "Toto… I don’t think we’re in Kansas anymore. | |||
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"Welcome to fab. Social experiment?
Thanks!
I have to see it that way, as a social experiment. Cause though I won’t elaborate, some people have already tried some really dodgy things.
And yes I do know I can change the settings. And sometimes I do change them so I can stop all messages."There's loads of experiments that can be done. Welcome to the forums and have fun. | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important" Same. Fab is an interesting view into a cross section of society and how they interact when covered by the relative veil of anonymity that the internet affords. And as you expect, there is a wide variety of responses and messages ranging from polite, to the point and respectable to outright disturbing. Happy to say the majority are the former though! Glad to hear it, I think maybe I’ve made this post in an effort to be visible to some of the former. Can’t please everyone and I’m not about to go (even more) insane trying. "That's the best attitude to have! And hopefully you can get some more of the kind of messages you want. Afterall your profile is well written and you know what you want ! | |||
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"Welcome. It’s not really relevant to the conversation but your username makes me want to call you Lynyrd Skynbyrd. You're probably a free bird "*rimshot* | |||
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing " • ....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"? | |||
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing • ....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"? "I love saying rumpy pumpy
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"Welcome to fab. Social experiment?
Thanks!
I have to see it that way, as a social experiment. Cause though I won’t elaborate, some people have already tried some really dodgy things.
And yes I do know I can change the settings. And sometimes I do change them so I can stop all messages."I'm on "no messages" since April 2020. It's a sheer delight | |||
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"I gave this place a month when I first joined. I was young and naive, full of hope and expectations. Get out while you can "*snort* | |||
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"Welcome to Fab forums OP. A place as no other , where experiences and words they mix together and keep let all of us with a buzz in ourselves imagination
Toto… I don’t think we’re in Kansas anymore."I completely forgot about that | |||
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence? Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important" Same. Fab is an interesting view into a cross section of society and how they interact when covered by the relative veil of anonymity that the internet affords. And as you expect, there is a wide variety of responses and messages ranging from polite, to the point and respectable to outright disturbing. Happy to say the majority are the former though! Glad to hear it, I think maybe I’ve made this post in an effort to be visible to some of the former. Can’t please everyone and I’m not about to go (even more) insane trying.
That's the best attitude to have! And hopefully you can get some more of the kind of messages you want.
Afterall your profile is well written and you know what you want !"Thanks, I think your profile is great as well. Chocolate chip, for the record | |||
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing • ....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"? "It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy… | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) Fafchester?" We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) Fafchester? We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester" Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it. | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though." Ho welcome. Only a snippet so far ypu have come across and noticed. The iceberg from the surface looks small but runs deep. Time will only tell all. And you shall gain your very own conclusion here. Happy fabbing.. | |||
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing • ....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"?
It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy… "• You're on the wrong team, onkey. | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) Fafchester? We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it." All great cities start with a few houses, then grown to become villages, towns and then cities | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) Fafchester? We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it. All great cities start with a few houses, then grown to become villages, towns and then cities" Build it and they will cum? | |||
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"Welcome to fab. Social experiment?
Sydney University "stuff"...
Winston "Oh that's totally revealing, pmsl. Yes, I too view it as such. Quite the necessary position imho. People seem to forget there's an actual human the other side of the convo. 
I like to ask how they'd feel if someone sent that unsolicited opening to their mother or sister.... Morons  | |||
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"with regards to the experiment,ive been on 4 weeks and its shown me how irrelevant i am to the opposite sex.I though id at least get to meet someone .Im very polite in my messages .Maybe thats my problem .I need to be more assertive.There are alot of women who really just want the attention with no intention of meeting anyone .It really is no different from any other dating site ." Being polite is not the problem for anyone. | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though." I feel like we may have opposing views in how seriously to take a site like this. But I hope you have a fulfilling experience either way. | |||
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"with regards to the experiment,ive been on 4 weeks and its shown me how irrelevant i am to the opposite sex.I though id at least get to meet someone .Im very polite in my messages .Maybe thats my problem .I need to be more assertive.There are alot of women who really just want the attention with no intention of meeting anyone .It really is no different from any other dating site . Being polite is not the problem for anyone. " So what is ? Ive been ghosted 3 time accused of being in a relationship .Im not i wouldnt show my face if i was hiding anything.People im talking too refuse to send a picture .The shame of it is its not just about the sex its maybe meeting new People on the same wavelength and having some fun without the BS . | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) Fafchester? We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it. All great cities start with a few houses, then grown to become villages, towns and then cities Build it and they will cum? " I don’t we will have many issues bringing in more inhabitants. Lol | |||
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"It sure can be a peculiar journey, wading through dross and swamp matter to find a nice friendly penis with a face. So many of us think and feel the same as you've stated in your profile and here. Also sounds like you may have read some Jim Butcher judging by your status "don’t mistake my kindness for weakness.", though it has been used by lots of folks. Good luck and enjoy your journey. Excellent profile by the way." Thank you for the support and for reading / complimenting my profile. Yeah, I didn’t coin the phrase for sure but it’s definitely a cliche for a reason. Jim Boucher I will have to look up… or maybe save for a better mood. But I think iI can take it in context. | |||
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing • ....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"? "I’ve got a Madonna song in my head… | |||
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"Welcome OP
I hope you enjoy this experience "Merci x | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) Fafchester? We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it." We’re not getting a cathedral though are we? For my block list? | |||
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"Welcome. It’s not really relevant to the conversation but your username makes me want to call you Lynyrd Skynbyrd. You're probably a free bird "*second rimshot* (thought you’re not wrong) | |||
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"3 Weeks and you've not yet posted to find out when you get your introductory shag? "I get an introductory shag? Well that changes everything! | |||
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"with regards to the experiment,ive been on 4 weeks and its shown me how irrelevant i am to the opposite sex.I though id at least get to meet someone .Im very polite in my messages .Maybe thats my problem .I need to be more assertive.There are alot of women who really just want the attention with no intention of meeting anyone .It really is no different from any other dating site . Being polite is not the problem for anyone. " Second this | |||
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"Welcome to fab. Social experiment?
Sydney University "stuff"...
Winston
Oh that's totally revealing, pmsl. Yes, I too view it as such. Quite the necessary position imho. People seem to forget there's an actual human the other side of the convo.
I like to ask how they'd feel if someone sent that unsolicited opening to their mother or sister.... Morons "Yes. This. | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though. I feel like we may have opposing views in how seriously to take a site like this. But I hope you have a fulfilling experience either way. " Thanks, and I’m sure you’re right. How serious depends on circumstances as well, I had a rough one this week that went off the site so that I will be informing my feelings unavoidably. Always appreciate being able to admit we may disagree though and have that not not be the end of the world. | |||
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"Hmmmm there’s a lot of reply’s and msgs sent that people wouldn’t say out loud in the presence of others. But feel acceptable to send in a msg on fabs. That’s what I’m talking about. Who people are in the dark. I'm always in the dark know as the naughty corner "Livin’ in a powder keg and givin’ off sparks? | |||
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Take things with a pinch of salt…don’t waste time on people you aren’t interested in and just have fun.
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though." Welcome to the lunatic asylum that is the forums. All sorts of people in here. Funny, serious, chilled argumentative. *whispers........... get the fuck out now while you can!!!!
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing • ....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"?
It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy… "Those offers must have been flooding in now | |||
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"Welcome, that is a good test too. I also think that if all the sexes did this experiment when joining, the result would differ greatly between them with women comming on top "Women always come on top *nods wisely* | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though." So what we saying Scotby or Longtown | |||
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"Houghton would be most fitting given this site! "Hahaha 100% | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though." Its just as bad for guys on here when you get more rejections than a second hand clothes shop. | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though." Fk me that’s an amazing story! Hold into that list until the next jubilee and you’ll be eligible for city status. You’re quite right though. This place is a shit show - only rivalled by Mos Eisley and episodes of Shameless. I’m sure we’ll all buck up our ideas now that we’ve had a stern word from Someone of consequence! Welcome to the madhouse. | |||
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"Welcome, that is a good test too. I also think that if all the sexes did this experiment when joining, the result would differ greatly between them with women comming on top
Women always come on top *nods wisely*"Yes they do and in sexual positions as well | |||
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"Did you have any expectations when you joined? I suppose I expected more swingers than single men looking for single women, was that totally naive of me?" not at all. ThatMs what we though years ago when we joined. And for better or worse it has not slid further and further to being a dating site for singles who want to ‘swing’ until they meet their soulmate. But whatever. There’s still Some banter and it is a handy platform to keep in Touch with people whom you’ve met at a club. All the best | |||
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"Did you have any expectations when you joined? I suppose I expected more swingers than single men looking for single women, was that totally naive of me? not at all. ThatMs what we though years ago when we joined. And for better or worse it has not slid further and further to being a dating site for singles who want to ‘swing’ until they meet their soulmate. But whatever. There’s still Some banter and it is a handy platform to keep in Touch with people whom you’ve met at a club. All the best "Oh, the banter on these forums is great. And I’m looking forward to making all kinds of new friends. Eventually expect to hit some clubs too. | |||
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing • ....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"?
It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy…
Those offers must have been flooding in now "BTW I love your profile | |||
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be. Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes. For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday. I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game. My block list is already the size of a small village though." That's a lot of village idiots for one village!
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"Welcome to the madhouse! You're very brave to show your face as your profile pic. Hope you have fun on here x" Thanks! I am having fun. That’s just my personality.for me it’s kinda, may as well show my face cause I already walk around unapologetically with a shaved head in a northern town… and I’ve actually been recognised on here by locals more than once! (Though I think they should’ve had the common sense not to write to me here about it…oh, well.) I guess I just figure, in for a penny in for a pound. People are going to see my face in the clubs. On social media. Etc. but I totally understand why most people don’t have profile pix like mine. | |||
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing • ....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"?
It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy…
Those offers must have been flooding in now
BTW I love your profile "• Agreed; Babs' profile is refreshingly uninhibited and forthright! | |||
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