FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you all think of them?

Do too many put you off a profile?

I personally feel less is more. A small amount of good ones feels enough.

Anyone choose not to display them all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to see none at all. 4 maximum. More and I won't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in the ‘don’t display them at all’ camp. I don’t ask for them when I meet people, but will get them occasionally. What I do with another person is between me and them.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Hundreds of verifications from every week is off putting. A few verifications all hidden and we wouldn't reply. A happy medium and we will read them along with the profile.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Can't display what I don't have.

Doesn't bother me either way

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Only recent ones, anything older than say 6 months is almost irrelevant - apart from if we really like it.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I don't really care to be honest

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"What do you all think of them?

Do too many put you off a profile?

I personally feel less is more. A small amount of good ones feels enough.

Anyone choose not to display them all?

100% depends on what is written in them.

If all veris are last minute sex meets with hundreds of strangers - we don't judge, just choose not to approach that person.

If there's only 4-5, but every single one is describing in detail on what sex was had, how long, in which positions topped off with " treat them with respect" we also choose not to approach that person.

If someone like us has hundreds from attending events - we assume that person is sociable and easy going, so we do approach them.

We don't display all of our veris simply because we don't think anyone would want to read the old ones.

On my single profile - I ask not to be verified when I meet someone.

More veris a single woman's profile has the worse messages she seems to get.

Missus

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"What do you all think of them?

Do too many put you off a profile?

I personally feel less is more. A small amount of good ones feels enough.

Anyone choose not to display them all?

Seems like they’re pretty easy to fake. Which isn’t comforting.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

I agree, having a few is what prefer. I use them to see that someone is genuine, isnt a fantacist and will actually turn up to a meet. I find ones that are too graphic off-putting. Its all about chemistry and vibes so the actual sex is always different between different people. I try to be discrete on veris i leave and focus more on the personality side of them. X

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

"I agree, having a few is what prefer. I use them to see that someone is genuine, isnt a fantacist and will actually turn up to a meet. I find ones that are too graphic off-putting. Its all about chemistry and vibes so the actual sex is always different between different people. I try to be discrete on veris i leave and focus more on the personality side of them. X

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Veris make for awesome reading

I display all of my social ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like veris. I am not Trip Advisor or Trust Pilot. And more than half here are fake veris.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Mine are pretty much all for socials, they just prove I'm genuine, and I look like my photos.

I find the detailed ones people leave about their meets a bit cringe

but each to their own.

They can be a good filter too.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

The only real use I find to them is to help know if a profile is real. I doubt anyone displays a bad one. By that I mean reflecting negative veiws of the person (there's plenty of terrible cringy ones out there). I much prefer to talk to and meet someone making up my own mind on them rather than trust random Internet opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got loads, but they are nearly all social ones.

It doesn’t bother me if people don’t like it

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I don't get why lots out people off.

Do you think because they haven't been listed, they haven't met lots of people?

I have a fair few now, but that's because I go to and help out at socials, so most are social veri's.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve got quite a few- mostly from socials.

Couldn’t care less if people are put off by them or not.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"I’ve got loads, but they are nearly all social ones.

It doesn’t bother me if people don’t like it

This for me too

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

I prefer getting just social ones and show mine...If people make assumptions from that or judge it then that's alright

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

They can serve as a type of filter I guess... If people make assumptions/judgements just from reading a few sentences about a situation they weren't even involved in, then it's likely we'd not get on anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine are socials. I choose not to show the figures or the veris just because it’s personal. No one else’s business. I’m not a hotel or a restaurant that needs public display of its reviews!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I have a single guy profile in Fab, ergo; I have to try that bit harder than the next guy, and displaying verifications is part and parcel of whether someone is likely to want to meet me, over others. I've had all my veris hidden in the past, and people have asked to see them (presumably to check they're real?).

I display all the veris I can, and hate the fact you lose the ones when someone deletes their profile. I had some real corkers!

I don't understand that 'must be within the last 6 months' nonsense btw; did I suddenly stop being a decent geezer 6 months ago, or did I magically transform from a complete arse 6 months ago......?

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

I don't want to see any and I don't display any

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By *onewolf444Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It depends on the verification. There might have been several from one social event.

If they are all positive that's a good thing.

If someone has one verification but isn't photo verified. That rings an alarm bell for me. It takes seconds to photo verify.

Therefore for me it is about quality of the verification as the number.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all! Great responses!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't care about numbers, it's who they are from and content I consider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display mine as a lot are from meeting as a couple, so not relevant now. They don't really mean a massive lot anyways. And nobody ever leaves a bad one, or if they did the person would just hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not really bothered about them. Easy to fake. We see far to many fake profiles and time wasters. I think for single guys they are more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like seeing the women that a man I'm perving on has met. If they're as hot as me, then I think the man is worthy of my time. "

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We don't meet people with out any at all.

Personally, I tend to find it a little off-putting if an account has hundreds. However, in that situation they are often from a Fab group social.

I also think users should not be able to pick and choose which ones they display.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only display 2 incase someone wants to check up on them for instance, but actually seeing loads on one profile for me is not great, how much jizz they took, squirted like a sperm whale, minge like a wizards sleeve etc. Just gives the ick

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I prefer to see none at all. 4 maximum. More and I won't meet them. "

Not even for a high five?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"We don't meet people with out any at all.

Personally, I tend to find it a little off-putting if an account has hundreds. However, in that situation they are often from a Fab group social.

I also think users should not be able to pick and choose which ones they display. "

I disagree with not being able pick and choose. I've had a few that were a little too detailed and explicit, and it isn't something I want to show as I know some don't like them.

Also, someone could falsely veri you saying all sort of nasty stuff. You could report them, but it's your word against theirs, and more work for the mods, so it won't happen.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I show all my social ones.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Like collecting them x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’ve only ever showed social ones. I always read veris though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh just propaganda

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I mainly show social ones and if I do get sexy time ones I specifically ask for non graphic ones ..

I don't display those anyway..

I like to read others unless there's like 300 . That I cba with

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

I LOVE reading them. I have hundreds on my personal profile but that’s because of this social organising and the hundreds that attend.

That and I’ve been living my best sexually abundant swing life!

GG xx

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I disagree with not being able pick and choose. I've had a few that were a little too detailed and explicit, and it isn't something I want to show as I know some don't like them.

Also, someone could falsely veri you saying all sort of nasty stuff. You could report them, but it's your word against theirs, and more work for the mods, so it won't happen. "

You make some good points.

It just seems to me that the veri system is pointless if I can choose to show only the good ones and hide the negatives. Not sure how a better system would work though, given the things you mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have any

Not likely to get any

Don't care

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I’m happy to display mine (and my verifications)

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I never display mine - causes too much controversy with people trawling who you have or have not met.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I like reading them as a reminder of good times. I like reading others because I'm a nosy cow. I don't display them though, can't be doing with the drama that can cause

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

it just proves I am real and to simply put it. not a twat

As for others a nice little insight

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I only display 2 incase someone wants to check up on them for instance, but actually seeing loads on one profile for me is not great, how much jizz they took, squirted like a sperm whale, minge like a wizards sleeve etc. Just gives the ick"

But if they have them displaying you know they aren't the person for you.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's not the amount that would put me off,more the content .

Ie all really graphic

I like to read them , especially the funny ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to see none at all. 4 maximum. More and I won't meet them.

Not even for a high five?

Maybe.

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

more than 10 in a few months , i wont even bother, can get that in my local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get why lots out people off.

Do you think because they haven't been listed, they haven't met lots of people?

I have a fair few now, but that's because I go to and help out at socials, so most are social veri's."

Some people are open and some are private.

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