FabSwingers.com forum: What was the worst birthday in your life?

By *aked Angel OP Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire

Excluding lockdown obviously.

Mine was in 1988, I have organised a great party and my girlfriend left me the day before.

Ended up with a bottle of gin and got d*unk all the evening. Cannot remember most of it.

I cannot drink gin anymore since then

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yay for positive uplifting stories

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

The one where I couldn't come home when I was supposed to. Got a suntan at Christmas though so swings and roundabouts

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 40th birthday still hasn't been celebrated thanks to covid lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My 40th birthday still hasn't been celebrated thanks to covid lockdown.

This can be easily rectified !

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By *ampshire_guy40Man
over a year ago

hampshire

All my birthdays after my parents passed away since 2018 have been shit because I don't feel like celebrating my birthdays anymore because there not the same without them around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My 40th birthday still hasn't been celebrated thanks to covid lockdown.

This can be easily rectified ! "

Don't even cause trouble you!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Spending my birthday in the neonatal intensive care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last one.

Next question.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

The 2 my ex husband compleatly forgot.

The one where he brought me a hand cream, and him a bottle of Jim beam.

Having to share every birthday with my twin. Lots as a child having a joint prescent. A football for example.

Or having to share my first bike with my twin when we were 6. I only got to ride it when it had a puncture.

Take your pick.

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By *ev257Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Not saying it was my worst, but the night of my 23rd birthday 2 of us had a fight with a stag night n ended up in hospital.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40th. Spent it in hospital after my vasectomy went horribly wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 7th I broke my jaw at my own party ...

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By *just.meMan
over a year ago

hartlepool

The first one, all down hill from there

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By *J35mcrMan
over a year ago

Leigh

Any after 2017, not the same without my dad

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

My 40th i was in spain and my mother in law stopped answering the phone i had to get a neighbour to break the door down to find her dead! It took 4 days to get back to uk so i didnt have much fun !

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By *ananabrumMan
over a year ago

castle bromwich

1st birthday after my dad passed away, opening my birthday card and seen at the bottom love mom. Not seeing dad on the card hit me harder than burying him

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

One year everyone in close family was sick so we postponed it.

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By *J35mcrMan
over a year ago

Leigh

Any after 2017, not the same without my dad

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

2005. My 50th the first birthday without my wife who died 5 months earlier

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve a friend who went out walking up a mountain for her 50 birthday. They had a argument at the top and ended up coming down about 50 meters apart.

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By *otshot14Woman
over a year ago

nuneaton

Can think of some good birthdays not bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gran died on my 21st. Got a phone call when I was out with freinds saying she wasn't going to make it so left the pub and went to the hospital.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

The last one. Got bad news x 3

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

My 40th, the day I found out the ex was cheating on me

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

My 18th. Everyone else in my family had a huge celebration. I was told that we were having it at home.

Only plus side was that I spent more time with the family dog.

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By *rangesmartieWoman
over a year ago

Devon

I've had several terrible birthdays. My family are not big on celebrating them. So I've never had parties and stuff.

My 14th birthday I had my tonsils out. My 18th, I had a head on collision with a lorry (I wasn't driving). One memorable one was my partner trying to kill himself and take us with him.

I'm determined that 40 is going to be great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 33 years I don't think I can say I have ever had a good Birthday.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My 16th, my dad died a couple of days before. And absolutely horrendous for my mum and brother too.

On the plus side ever other birthday has been an improvement on that one luckily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First one after my divorce

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By *aked Angel OP Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire

Thanks for sharing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brb birthday is next month

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

My 40th, had just left my ex husband & had a kidney infection. It was a weird & difficult time - hope 50th is better!!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Hmmm. Had a few. When I was married my wife invited all of HER friends to a bbq at ours so I ended up prepping, cooking then cleaning up while they all got smashed... so I was also looking after everyone's kids.

Another when I was remodelling the kitchen and she decided to fuck off to her friends for the weekend leaving me on my own working 18 hour days. Almost had a breakdown over that.

I've also spent 5 of my last 7 birthdays in various shitty desserts around the world. This year will be my first birthday since 2016 I get to spend with family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All my birthdays after my parents passed away since 2018 have been shit because I don't feel like celebrating my birthdays anymore because there not the same without them around "

I was going to post until I saw this.

Feeling for you mate

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had 2 good birthdays in my life my 39th and 40th

The lowlights were 41 when the day was forgotten until i planted a reminder 42 when i was forgotten completely 12 when i won a fight then got hit kicked in the head by his older brother and 8 mates and when i got knocked out scoring a try so couldnt go out partying at 21

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Only had one party as a child think I was 8 and all the balloons blew over the garden wall x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Had my second at 60 was sposed to b a surprise party but I found out and had to pretend I didn't know! Lol x

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By *ickeyblueeyes7Man
over a year ago

newport

My 17th, I’d joined the Royal Navy so spent it travelling down to Torpoint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 40th was awesome.

In lockdown.

My recently made ex was out fucking other women.

I'd ran out of wine.

Spent the day not talking to another adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My 40th was awesome.

In lockdown.

My recently made ex was out fucking other women.

I'd ran out of wine.

Spent the day not talking to another adult.

To clarify, it would of been the same even without the lockdown part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My 40th was awesome.

In lockdown.

My recently made ex was out fucking other women.

I'd ran out of wine.

Spent the day not talking to another adult.

To clarify, it would of been the same even without the lockdown part."

I get the impression you enjoy not talking to other adults so that’s got to be a win right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was about 5 and my mother slipped a disc in her spine. I spent my birthday sitting next to her waiting for an ambulance.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I had neuro virus for my 30th,that was really grim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1st birthday after my dad passed away, opening my birthday card and seen at the bottom love mom. Not seeing dad on the card hit me harder than burying him"

Yep, can relate to that one...

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

On balance I have probably had more terrible birthdays than good ones.

Over the years partners have tried bless them to make it as good for me as possible but the events that caused my hatred of that day cast a very deep dark shadow.

Same as Christmas.

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