FabSwingers.com forum: How far would you travel to meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if people have a cut off point with travelling to meet someone. 50 miles maybe. Gotta be confident off the meet first but for a first time encounter. What's your thoughts?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

For a social or a fuck session?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Playing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although distance does mess me around on here, I came to the conclusion quickly that distance isn’t really the problem to meet someone you really like. But wanting to see someone regularly that’s when it becomes an obstacle.

I’d travel a long way to meet on fab, otherwise I never would.

Manchester doesn’t like me.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I’m all over the uk with work so could make it happen

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Within an hour for me.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

As long as there is an adventure to be had distance is not a issue

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

For a first meet / social then I’d probably say two hours each way, but it would depend on the person and what sort of connection we’d made already.

Furthest I have driven for a meet is four hours, stopping overnight and then driving home the following day.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Playing xxx "

I wouldn’t play with someone if I’d never met them so would have to be a social. About an hour

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Surely distance/time is relative?

I'm pretty much as far east as you can get in the UK, the roads are awful and slow. Someone 20 miles away could be almost an hour door to door.

I'll travel or I just won't meet anyone

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We would probably make a weekend of it so even if our meet doesn’t work out me and my husband still have a lovely weekend away together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right guy, pretty much anywhere.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I've jumped on a plane for a meet ... and had it recipricatrd ... really it's about whether you both think a connection is worth it and each other's personal circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m skint, so as far as my front gate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a fair distance between us- Fraserburgh to Accrington! It's worth every mile and more!!!!!!!

Mr.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've jumped on a plane for a meet ... and had it recipricatrd ... really it's about whether you both think a connection is worth it and each other's personal circumstances

I agree with this.

It’s all about the connection

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"For the right guy, pretty much anywhere."

Right into the very heart of Mordor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've driven 40 miles each way...was definitely worth it

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

As a single bloke I used to travel miles, I think the furthest was Preston (from East London), for a meet. A small group of us would meet up all over the place at organised socials and have a great time.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I don't drive, but as I prefer regular meets, I don't see a point engaging with anyone who lives over an hour drive. Unless they're going to the club on the same day as I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the right guy, pretty much anywhere.

Right into the very heart of Mordor"

Where I feel most at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve traveled a few hours for a meet and it was well worth it! It’s about the connection, trust and rapport that has been built up first that dictates though…… I’d be wary rolling up after a long drive based on nothing more than a quick conversation

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Prefer to keep intial meets within an hour of where I'm situated at the time. As we travel that can end up being all over the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the right guy, pretty much anywhere."

What about for just another man?

*you see what I did there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m skint, so as far as my front gate. "

Is there a toll to pay to pass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to ask this question.

Not that far really. We want to make connections for regular meets, not just one-offs, we also want a social-first, so probably 30-45 minutes drive. Don't working out very well at the moment, far to many time wasters.

Clubs are different, as we will be traveling for 4 hours to get to some clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the right guy, pretty much anywhere.

What about for just another man?

*you see what I did there? "

I did.

And no, who would travel for just another anybody?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m skint, so as far as my front gate.

Is there a toll to pay to pass?

Of course there is. I’m skint after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I brought the Nintendo Switch so depends how long the battery last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the right guy, pretty much anywhere.

What about for just another man?

*you see what I did there?

I did.

And no, who would travel for just another anybody?"

You’re right, I’ll drive to you then….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow that's commitment. Hope it was as romantic as it sounds xx

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Generally about hour travel distance for first meets / social.

Will go further once established

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By *asygoingguy82Man
over a year ago

bognor

2 minutes walk at most but I'd rather they meet me half way

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

About 20 miles, we are lucky as we are in between Cardiff and Swansea so its about 20 miles either way to get to them and that's where we book our hotel's.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I drove 90 miles to Warrington once, for a halfway meet with a woman from Warwickshire. We had a fantastic day in the Village Hotel….

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I often cycle 60 miles to go to a club; I'd be happy to go a lot further by car/motorbike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally about hour travel distance for first meets / social.

Will go further once established "

I’d crawl a thousand miles over broken glass to meet you! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm flattered thanks. Bring a lady friend and I'll meet you at 500 miles x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Generally about hour travel distance for first meets / social.

Will go further once established

I’d crawl a thousand miles over broken glass to meet you! x"

Dude don’t do that as it would take me hours and hours with tweezers and tcp to remove the shards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within an hour's drive for me. I'd love to say I could follow a connection no matter how far - but reality precludes that.

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Probably as far as Ireland if we get a decent invite .....

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

I would walk 500 miles

And

I would walk 500 more…

I might be a bit late arriving though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've traveled Southampton to Budapest, though that was with a regular buddy, not a first meet.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I consider two hours to be a reasonable, easy journey. The fact that I’ve access to the motorway network means that my two hours covers half of the country

I’ve traveled much further in the past though

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't travel too far tbh,first meet is a social only .

I also wouldn't let anyone else travel too far to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally about hour travel distance for first meets / social.

Will go further once established

I’d crawl a thousand miles over broken glass to meet you! x

Dude don’t do that as it would take me hours and hours with tweezers and tcp to remove the shards

It would be my honour to have you apply tcp to my grazes

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By *nn_JamesCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire / South Bucks

The distance is irrelevant to us due to London congestion. Hence, we limit it to about about an hours travel...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Within an hour's drive for me. I'd love to say I could follow a connection no matter how far - but reality precludes that. "

And if I give you a broken watch…?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I would travel about 45 mins. But I would expect the other person to travel as well especially for a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20-30 miles is as far as I would travel

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By *ornym66Man
over a year ago

Col /ips

I would do an hour travel but you have to be sure its all ok to meet you get let down a lot hete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only an hours flight can be anywhere in uk

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Normally I’d say 1 hour drive max.

But as I like to travel generally, if I feel strong connection in chat and talks I’ll travel anywhere in UK combining the meet with some sightseeing or other activities we can do there.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

It's two hours to the cap d'agde for me. That'll do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree Alex

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By *hilm2011Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I flew to Detroit USA from England in 2000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, about an hour (+/- 15 mins) or around 60 miles. Probably more for right woman/couple

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

2-3 hours.. give or take traffic.

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By *eeling0880Man
over a year ago

Pennines

Yes around hour seems about right enough

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

We are travel anywhere if we click with people but we make a weekend of it and use it as an excuse to explore a new part of the country as well as having a meet one of the nights

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Furthest would be an hour. Unless it was Emilia Clarke, then I'd fly to the moon if I had to :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say an hour have done further in past and obviously if not get on can be a let down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you only do club meets these days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One hour xx

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By *rotic LoverMan
over a year ago

York

About an hour. Travelled further before and made a night over and day out of it, worked well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60+ miles. 80+ miles driving

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

200 miles (each way) is the most so far.

Back when fuel was merely expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel to wherever my Mr was, distance isn't a factor for me. Wherever he is I will be

Mrs

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"One hour xx"

That must cover a large area of Norfolk and Suffolk

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

5 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"200 miles (each way) is the most so far.

Back when fuel was merely expensive. "

Damn. Yes, fuel prices.

Op changed my mind, my answer is walking distance. If she’s proper fit, I might run.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve gone to London a few times but it wasn’t just solely to meet.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

If its just for a social then depends who it is, probably 10-20miles.if its going to be a definite play,(fuck),I've driven to London....but that was arranged a week in advance though as I was travelling down anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within an hour's drive for me. I'd love to say I could follow a connection no matter how far - but reality precludes that.

And if I give you a broken watch…?

Well..my god..I'd travel anywhere for a broken watch!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I'd travel to wherever my Mr was, distance isn't a factor for me. Wherever he is I will be

Mrs "

Doesn't real life ever get in the way of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd travel to wherever my Mr was, distance isn't a factor for me. Wherever he is I will be

Mrs

Doesn't real life ever get in the way of this?"

He is my life

Mrs

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Nowhere I can't get back from on the same evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days unless its in my day to day route about 3 miles fuel lifes too expensive for me to go gallivanting around the country in search of vaginia extravaganza

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

An hours drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that don't meet locally but will meet from another locality are the time wasters...

From personal experience....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the arrangement. But maybe an hour or so driving. If social, would look for somewhere halfway

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’ve travelled a couple of hours either way but then that’s the beauty of being in the muddle, no one’s too far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travelled further when started in kink than have for swing

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

At this point if it’s further than 20 mins I’m not doing it.

And that’s a push.

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

"5 miles"

Counts Twyford out, lucky if you cross the river. . . .

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

"5 miles

Counts Twyford out, lucky if you cross the river. . . ."

I will yravel up and down the country for the right person. Its only distance, and worth it.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

For a social 15mins max, meet hmm

hour drive max

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not far at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go that far, probably no more than an hour at the most x

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Depends on the type of meet, who it’s with, the amount of interaction beforehand and how much notice.

For a planned meet with plenty of notice then anything up to 3 or 4 hours drive is possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So it boils down to who it's with. Are they worth it? How certain that it's genuine. Is this why lots of people now only meet in clubs? Is there a better way to arrange meets maybe. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social most deff, if all goes well.

Have traveled 3hrs one way to see FWB for 4 yrs.

All depends on the person,closer is more qualty meets for time.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"For the right guy, pretty much anywhere."

I don't believe you would go further than your local supermarket

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Have car, won’t travel.

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By *rotic LoverMan
over a year ago

York

Around an hour after some strong sexual chemistry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

500 miles

DA DA DA

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Several miles. I’d even get the car out.

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Between an hour and and hour and a half, which given we are very close to the M6, gives us quite a wide scope

MJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem being that if you travel a couple of hours each way (4hr round trip) and you like each other and feelings arise, are you going to keep that up to meet regularly? I wouldn’t, it wouldn’t fit in with my busy life and would turn into a bit of a ball ache to be honest.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Somebody has travelled 80 miles as the crow flies to see us. We would happily do that to see her too.

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By *ade crossTV/TS
over a year ago

chiselhurst

Depends i am happy to drive for an hour or so. But get worried about time wasters

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I've jumped on a plane for a meet ... and had it recipricatrd ... really it's about whether you both think a connection is worth it and each other's personal circumstances

Heck, my spelling! ... *reciprocated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The end of my street, maybe

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Been as far north as Dundee and as far south as London

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Up to an hour as a rule. Anything else isn’t really feasible for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as far as I used to, thanks to the current economic situation.

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"500 miles

DA DA DA"

But would you walk????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my limit is about an hours drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much we want to meet each other

And considering I travel to places to see friends and family it is no issue

However if it’s just a one off social or sex I’d have to say an hour

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Before I used to travel all over london, but now I dont really have the time, so, local would be perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've jumped on a plane for a meet ... and had it recipricatrd ... really it's about whether you both think a connection is worth it and each other's personal circumstances

Heck, my spelling! ... *reciprocated

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how's about the 130 miles to n.wales xxx

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