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Your ideal partner(long term)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm still hopeful.

Integrity, brain's, hardworking, and an insatiable sex drive.

I'd be really interested to hear what everyone's is. Nora? No hiding dear.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Someone who has a witty sense of humour and is a generally good person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind

Compassionate

Tall

Bearded

Trustworthy

Etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind and adventurous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone taller than me who leans to the left, politically speaking.

It’s not a long list but I don’t really put myself out there to find him.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The one I'm married to right now

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

None!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gwen stefani

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

My last partner of any long-standing was/is my best friend, we have pretty much all the same tastes, interests, likes and dislikes, politics etc, she makes me laugh, sex was great and the cuddling/intimacy was even better. Now that I know that’s possible, albeit it took me 55 years to find her, I can’t imagine ever settling for anything less with anyone else as a partner, but as I don’t imagine I will ever find that fit again, I can’t see me ever having another partner as they would only ever be a pale shadow of that relationship which seems unfair to them.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

The one I’m married to!

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By *nked_HeathenMan
over a year ago

Hemsworth

Had mine but lost her. Unfortunate really, she was an absolute diamond, perfect loving caring kind, selfless compassionate loving and intense and best of all her personality was as beautiful as she was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally a meeting of minds, compatible sense of humour, complimentary skills and competencies, a caring, friendly and generous personality ….

Failing that, a bird with big tits

( . Y . )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally a meeting of minds, compatible sense of humour, complimentary skills and competencies, a caring, friendly and generous personality ….

Failing that, a bird with big tits

( . Y . )"

Shit

I’ve small ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that smiles at my shit jokes, accepts me for who I am and understands that I will spend too much money on crap for the car.

Looks completely unimportant

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

By long term are we talking less than or greater than 6 months?

I cant be doing with some porker

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I'm with her

C

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Honest.

Everything else is chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep i definitely think i have found her and we are both happy.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Funny you should say that. Chatting to my dearest friend today, I finally realised why I've been single for 34 years; every lovely chap I've ever met has left me totally deflated with some throwaway comment that's an ism or has demonstrated some coercive behaviour.

Physically, my mate would be tall, bearded and not fat.

He would vote Labour, not smoke, be happy with very little sex, a small and simple life, chickens and a lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv already found him. X

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Don’t bring me into it. A partner is the last thing I want! No no no thankyou. Never ever. So I’ve no idea sorry. Hope you find one though

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Someone who truly and deeply loves me, the passion is mutual, and nothing else matters as long as we are smiling and laughing together.

It’ll never happen, and I’m blaming Cabernet Sauvignon and a few beers in the sunshine.

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By *ixiePoisonWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Honest, spontaneous, funny non smoker...

Did I say rich?

Joking!!!!

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY


"My last partner of any long-standing was/is my best friend, we have pretty much all the same tastes, interests, likes and dislikes, politics etc, she makes me laugh, sex was great and the cuddling/intimacy was even better. Now that I know that’s possible, albeit it took me 55 years to find her, I can’t imagine ever settling for anything less with anyone else as a partner, but as I don’t imagine I will ever find that fit again, I can’t see me ever having another partner as they would only ever be a pale shadow of that relationship which seems unfair to them."

After 40 years of marriage, I thought my life was over when we separated. At the age of 60, I met the gorgeous Goddess that I am now with and who will soon become my wife. Moral = never say never, and it aint over till the fat lady sings. It can happen when you least expect it. Until then, keep watching Xhamster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that can make me smile like an idiot and turn me on all at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found my ideal partner

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My last partner of any long-standing was/is my best friend, we have pretty much all the same tastes, interests, likes and dislikes, politics etc, she makes me laugh, sex was great and the cuddling/intimacy was even better. Now that I know that’s possible, albeit it took me 55 years to find her, I can’t imagine ever settling for anything less with anyone else as a partner, but as I don’t imagine I will ever find that fit again, I can’t see me ever having another partner as they would only ever be a pale shadow of that relationship which seems unfair to them.

After 40 years of marriage, I thought my life was over when we separated. At the age of 60, I met the gorgeous Goddess that I am now with and who will soon become my wife. Moral = never say never, and it aint over till the fat lady sings. It can happen when you least expect it. Until then, keep watching Xhamster."

That's a really nice story. Thank you for sharing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want a long term partner ever again

I've found my fb and I'm content

Missy x

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By *J35mcrMan
over a year ago

Leigh

I'd like to meet someone to spend my life with someone to love and hold at night, the thought of going through the rest of my life alone scares me if I'm honest

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I dont think there is one. I'm not compatible with relationships

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I can't imagine wanting to be in a relationship again

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Oh. OP left

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Oh. OP left "

Noras going to cry again.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Oh. OP left "

Who was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. OP left

Who was it? "

Toan

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Oh. OP left

Who was it?

Toan "

Maaaan, no more sparky chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one who is my soulMATE

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

My wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one I'm married to right now "

As above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has the OP found his perfect partner and left?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the OP found his perfect partner and left?"

One of his workmates asked him out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww, I like the OP and his quirky posts, not the first time he’s left and I know he’ll be back soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww, I like the OP and his quirky posts, not the first time he’s left and I know he’ll be back soon! "

Nob.

Not the op,,, you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww, I like the OP and his quirky posts, not the first time he’s left and I know he’ll be back soon! "

Cute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found mine 5 years ago and we will be together for the rest of our lives.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Someone who is "into" me regardless of where we are or what we do or what we have.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Oh. OP left

Noras going to cry again."

Did Nora take OP out?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind

Good with kids/family oriented

Sexy

Thoughtful

Caring

We would have to have amazing sexual chemistry

Looks are unimportant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is kink friendly, funny, prefers to be the main decision maker, loves deep conversations and into hiking.

Long list I know

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Oh. OP left

Noras going to cry again.

Did Nora take OP out?! "

She shot him down at least twice today . . . . . .

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve already found him.

He is ambitious, super hard working, incredibly intelligent, handsome, caring, loving, supportive, trustworthy, deals with me amazingly and his cock was made to fit me perfectly.

And he is all mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with similar values and sense of humour, who wants to love and be loved. A meeting of souls, hopefully. The highly sexed kinky types...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. OP left

Noras going to cry again.

Did Nora take OP out?!

She shot him down at least twice today . . . . . ."

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Oh. OP left

Noras going to cry again.

Did Nora take OP out?!

She shot him down at least twice today . . . . . ."

She always hits the boys she likes…

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Someone who will give me love and affection, have common interests with me, support me and share my life with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. OP left

Noras going to cry again.

Did Nora take OP out?!

She shot him down at least twice today . . . . . .

She always hits the boys she likes… "

Ooh will this be in the sequel?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Oh. OP left

Noras going to cry again.

Did Nora take OP out?!

She shot him down at least twice today . . . . . .

She always hits the boys she likes…

Ooh will this be in the sequel? "

I reckon she’s taken him outside to spank him…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like someone like the OP who has eccentric opinions and doesn't overstay their welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single, under 60, likes to swing, doesn't look like roadkill... Apparently my expectations are wildly high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like someone like the OP who has eccentric opinions and doesn't overstay their welcome."

Made me lol

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Oh. OP left

Noras going to cry again.

Did Nora take OP out?!

She shot him down at least twice today . . . . . .

She always hits the boys she likes…

Ooh will this be in the sequel?

I reckon she’s taken him outside to spank him… "

I reckon she's pouring cold vegetable soup over him as we speak

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

My wife (-;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. OP left

Noras going to cry again.

Did Nora take OP out?!

She shot him down at least twice today . . . . . .

She always hits the boys she likes…

Ooh will this be in the sequel?

I reckon she’s taken him outside to spank him… "

Well that's..quite a spanking to send him UNLOS!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I'm looking for a long term partner

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

A lady who wants sex 24/7!

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

Someone who spends the day at work, actually working and not talking bollocks to his mates and wrestling.

*I appreciate this is wasted.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mission Impossible...!

I’ve way too many faults...

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Someone who spends the day at work, actually working and not talking bollocks to his mates and wrestling.

*I appreciate this is wasted.

Winston"

I can assure you it isn't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking. Until then the mrs will have to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lady who wants sex 24/7! "

Sounds exhausting

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"Someone who spends the day at work, actually working and not talking bollocks to his mates and wrestling.

*I appreciate this is wasted.

Winston

I can assure you it isn't..."

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older guy rich & got one foot in the grave perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older guy rich & got one foot in the grave perfect "

Dicky ticker?

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Someone who's my equal.

Someone who sees me as a life partner and not a mother or maid.

Someone who treats me with respect.

They have to love kissing, and deal with me being very tactile touching is my love language

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older guy rich & got one foot in the grave perfect

Dicky ticker?"

haha

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I havent found her yet, she is only in my dreams, but ideally a cougar, big boobs, who likes to get naughty both in and out of the bedroom, to go out for walks, holding hands, take a coffee now and again and as well to cuddle up the sofa and to munch on some haribos on the weekends

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

A chatty, funny, intelligent, non-monogamous guy with a penchant for fatties. Helps if he's free overnight at weekends and either has a clean home with fresh sheets and a tidy bathroom or is willing to come to mine all the time.

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