FabSwingers.com forum: Speak talk in public, one to one,in a crowd

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do many have the confidence or skills to speak or talk in public,in a crowd or prefer one to one?

Or do maybe a presentation to in.troduce themselves to a set of new people who dont know them at all.?

Or maybe some like just texting,emailing, or fabbing on forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Public speaking is something I've done many times. I prefer not seeing face and being able to project myself. Not good in small groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer 1 to 1 if in a partys and groups make me uncomfortable and want to leave its strange because while working i can talk to anyone big groups small 121 any but in my time i find it hard and end up just being a clown

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Public speaking is something I've done many times. I prefer not seeing face and being able to project myself. Not good in small groups."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer one to one speaking, but at times have to speak to small groups up to 100 or so, in a work capacity, get nerves at times with that.

I actually struggle a bit on the forums at times, speaking to more than one person at a time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Prefer 1 to 1 if in a partys and groups make me uncomfortable and want to leave its strange because while working i can talk to anyone big groups small 121 any but in my time i find it hard and end up just being a clown "

In a work enviroment a job role is work and professional.

Socialy could be we do not want to be judged for our looks, or not be fancied. or not liked for our dress choice.

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By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

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I used to have confidence but right now, not anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a work enviroment a job role is work and professional.

Socialy could be we do not want to be judged for our looks, or not be fancied. or not liked for our dress choice."

woah woah woah woah woah

1st im the definition of desire and seduction being fancied is a daily thing be it work public or any old thing

B i dont care about being judged by anyone unless its going to get me 20 years hell i spend 99% of my free time in a pair of shorts and a rab nesbit vest

I dont like it because i end up showing off also if on the pull find it hard to focus with all the noise

I like to give 100% to 1 not 10% to 10

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I'm as comfortable speaking 1-2-1 as I am to large groups in the 100s. One of my best times was when I was asked to host a world music stage at a music festival at the last minute as the person due to do it bottled it. The marquee we were in held upwards of 500 people.

Next month I will be doing similar for a local town's annual all-day fete and festival, where on average over 1,000 attend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to have confidence but right now, not anymore"

We all go through bad times in this life. Look at the point you was at your peek in confidence,and mindset wise get back to thinking that way again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a work enviroment a job role is work and professional.

Socialy could be we do not want to be judged for our looks, or not be fancied. or not liked for our dress choice.

woah woah woah woah woah

1st im the definition of desire and seduction being fancied is a daily thing be it work public or any old thing

B i dont care about being judged by anyone unless its going to get me 20 years hell i spend 99% of my free time in a pair of shorts and a rab nesbit vest

I dont like it because i end up showing off also if on the pull find it hard to focus with all the noise

I like to give 100% to 1 not 10% to 10"
but saying that i dont go on the pull im quite happy watching a box set having a coffee or 7

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In a work enviroment a job role is work and professional.

Socialy could be we do not want to be judged for our looks, or not be fancied. or not liked for our dress choice.

woah woah woah woah woah

1st im the definition of desire and seduction being fancied is a daily thing be it work public or any old thing

B i dont care about being judged by anyone unless its going to get me 20 years hell i spend 99% of my free time in a pair of shorts and a rab nesbit vest

I dont like it because i end up showing off also if on the pull find it hard to focus with all the noise

I like to give 100% to 1 not 10% to 10"

Cool i hear you loud and clear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm as comfortable speaking 1-2-1 as I am to large groups in the 100s. One of my best times was when I was asked to host a world music stage at a music festival at the last minute as the person due to do it bottled it. The marquee we were in held upwards of 500 people.

Next month I will be doing similar for a local town's annual all-day fete and festival, where on average over 1,000 attend."

Happy day.festival and sunny days are ahead of us, enjoy

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Prefer one to one in a social setting. Work, I talk to crowds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer one to one speaking, but at times have to speak to small groups up to 100 or so, in a work capacity, get nerves at times with that.

I actually struggle a bit on the forums at times, speaking to more than one person at a time."

All a learning curve heh..

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

Biggest class I've presented to was about 160 people, I've worked 1 2 1 too.

Very comfortable in that environment.

I regularly have to make presentations to Directors and industry professionals.

That gives me the heebee jeebees.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given talks to 100+ people but I prefer small groups and 1:1. The anxiety with a larger crowd is too much but I'm told it doesn't show! I don't have a huge amount of confidence - I get nervous as hell. But I do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervywoth 1 to 1, especially if they’re pretty…. Let alone public speaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do many have the confidence or skills to speak or talk in public,in a crowd or prefer one to one?

Or do maybe a presentation to in.troduce themselves to a set of new people who dont know them at all.?

Or maybe some like just texting,emailing, or fabbing on forums? "

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