FabSwingers.com forum: Youngens in the club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got a friend who is not long turned 20 he says we wants to get into the club scene. I'm not too experienced with the club scene so I had no advice to give him.

His main question was, how welcome would he be in the clubs as a 20 year old?/will he get much play time? Can anyone answer this...

I should add he looks very mature for his age

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I would give him the standard advice of "don't expect anything". Just because it's a swingers club doesn't mean manners and consent go out of the window. Treat like any other night out and politely chat and flirt. Maybe something happens, maybe it doesn't.

Some may be put off by his youth but equally others might not.

LvM

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I got a friend who is not long turned 20 he says we wants to get into the club scene. I'm not too experienced with the club scene so I had no advice to give him.

His main question was, how welcome would he be in the clubs as a 20 year old?/will he get much play time? Can anyone answer this...

I should add he looks very mature for his age "

To be honest… anyone who goes into a club with the “how much play am I likely to get “ mindset will likely get none… people can smell that coming a mile off!

If he can act like a functioning human being and converse with people.. he will be okay

The other thing is that he will need to know what the minimum age is… because a lot of them have 21/23/25 minimums

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I got a friend who is not long turned 20 he says we wants to get into the club scene. I'm not too experienced with the club scene so I had no advice to give him.

His main question was, how welcome would he be in the clubs as a 20 year old?/will he get much play time? Can anyone answer this...

I should add he looks very mature for his age

To be honest… anyone who goes into a club with the “how much play am I likely to get “ mindset will likely get none… people can smell that coming a mile off!

If he can act like a functioning human being and converse with people.. he will be okay

The other thing is that he will need to know what the minimum age is… because a lot of them have 21/23/25 minimums"

I've not encountered that myself. I started going to clubs when I was under 21.

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