FabSwingers.com forum: Filters

By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

If Fab were to add new filters what would you like to see?!

Mine wound be Hotwife

Come on peeeps

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over a year ago

Questionable standards in men

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I would like a filter that allowed people to contact me by the reply privately button on the forums despite other filters. I know some would still abuse it but I think it would be manageable and I'd like forum friends to be able to message me.

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Questionable standards in men

That goes both ways

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"I would like a filter that allowed people to contact me by the reply privately button on the forums despite other filters. I know some would still abuse it but I think it would be manageable and I'd like forum friends to be able to message me. "

Yep , just tried …. Doesn’t allow me to abuse or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...

I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hydrated

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Filter out people looking for hung only and elite, whatever they think that is

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

"I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...

I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country.

Exactly this! Be amazing to set a mile limit to be able to contact. I also request local only and get tonnes from 5+ plus away

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

Let’s add in a delete your post button for when your phone glitches haha sorry for the parrot in the chat

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?

I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.

I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter.

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Filter out people looking for hung only and elite, whatever they think that is

No offence intended to BBC but the amount of ladies looking for that only but show up in my advance search … it really limits the numbers

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?

I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.

I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter. "

A bit of both really

Plus at the end of the page have a tick box to say you actually read the bio

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd like it if the filter that allows people to add a photo to message ,then delete was changed.For example once you add a pic,you can't delete it to get round a filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A filter so only local people could message

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"I'd like it if the filter that allows people to add a photo to message ,then delete was changed.For example once you add a pic,you can't delete it to get round a filter."

That’s actually a good one , no dodging

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

"I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...

I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country.

this would be a good one

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"A filter so only local people could message"

I know us men see women on here and think she’s lovely and text in the hopes of actually meeting at some point at a club or so on as this community can be very small at times but I do agree with you as it’s pointless to receive a text say from Scotland or Texas

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Filter out people looking for hung only and elite, whatever they think that is

No offence intended to BBC but the amount of ladies looking for that only but show up in my advance search … it really limits the numbers

Yeah I can't cater for them either

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?

I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.

I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter. "

They could just scroll without reading it though still

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?

I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.

I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter.

They could just scroll without reading it though still "

They have to highlight certain words in the bio to unlock the filter

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile

LvM

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile

LvM"

But I do know some people here including couples that state non smoking and I clearly know they do smoke….. so that’s a tricky one

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

LvM

But I do know some people here including couples that state non smoking and I clearly know they do smoke….. so that’s a tricky one "

Well if they could introduce an effective "Liar" filter then I'm sure that would be exceptionally helpful too

LvM

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?

I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.

I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter.

They could just scroll without reading it though still

They have to highlight certain words in the bio to unlock the filter

In reverse

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

LvM

But I do know some people here including couples that state non smoking and I clearly know they do smoke….. so that’s a tricky one

Well if they could introduce an effective "Liar" filter then I'm sure that would be exceptionally helpful too

LvM"

Exactly… I’ll get on it

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

Not really:

Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found

LvM

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

LvM"

as a smoker, i find the huge plumes of smoke from a vape aweful, just my view

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

LvM"

I'd like to know because vaping also bothers me, and some people take it as not smoking. (Not a condemnation of vapers or smokers, just - I'd like the filter!)

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Body type filter, so before I messaged someone I could be sure they haven't specifically excluded my lardy arse.

And yes, I know the body type categories are subject to a lot of interpretation on here but it would be better than nothing!

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

LvM

as a smoker, i find the huge plumes of smoke from a vape aweful, just my view"

Looks like a choo choo old stream train when vaping out of a moving vehicle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

Hahahahahahaha

Brilliant

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

LvM

as a smoker, i find the huge plumes of smoke from a vape aweful, just my view"

If there's plumes of smoke coming from a vape then there's a problem as it's meant to be steam

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

LvM

I'd like to know because vaping also bothers me, and some people take it as not smoking. (Not a condemnation of vapers or smokers, just - I'd like the filter!)"

That's because for it to be smoking you would need there to be smoke

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...

I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country.

Exactly this! Be amazing to set a mile limit to be able to contact. I also request local only and get tonnes from 5+ plus away

I never meet men local to me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

LvM"

If they vape though I doubt they’d say they’re a smoker. It’s not smoking. I wouldn’t. I would assume any one who has smoking on there actually smokes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

LvM

I'd like to know because vaping also bothers me, and some people take it as not smoking. (Not a condemnation of vapers or smokers, just - I'd like the filter!)

That's because for it to be smoking you would need there to be smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Body type filter, so before I messaged someone I could be sure they haven't specifically excluded my lardy arse.

And yes, I know the body type categories are subject to a lot of interpretation on here but it would be better than nothing!"

Totally agree with this one ??

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm able to work with the filters already provided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If Fab were to add new filters what would you like to see?!

Mine wound be Hotwife

Come on peeeps

Mine would be for 6ft plus men

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

LvM

I'd like to know because vaping also bothers me, and some people take it as not smoking. (Not a condemnation of vapers or smokers, just - I'd like the filter!)

That's because for it to be smoking you would need there to be smoke

Yup. And if vaping gives me migraines and cigarette smoking gives me nosebleeds, I want neither, no matter how much not smoking it is.

My body, my health, my needs.

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"If Fab were to add new filters what would you like to see?!

Mine wound be Hotwife

Come on peeeps

Mine would be for 6ft plus men

I’ll get in line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instashaggers

Head smushers

And the ones that seem to be just my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

Not really:

Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found

LvM"

Don't I know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

Not really:

Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found

LvM

Don't I know it."
i look like ryan with a beard

but then again i often tell lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

Not really:

Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found

LvM

Don't I know it.i look like ryan with a beard

but then again i often tell lies "

Yes you do.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

Not really:

Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found

LvM

Don't I know it."

I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you

I shouldn't joke but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

Not really:

Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found

LvM

Don't I know it.

I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you

I shouldn't joke but

I just want to perv on him.

He can be gay, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be attracted to me anyway.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

Not really:

Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found

LvM

Don't I know it.

I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you

I shouldn't joke but

I just want to perv on him.

He can be gay, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be attracted to me anyway. "

Why don't you just perv the real one, he has done porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

Not really:

Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found

LvM

Don't I know it.

I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you

I shouldn't joke but

I just want to perv on him.

He can be gay, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be attracted to me anyway.

Why don't you just perv the real one, he has done porn"

Don't get me all excited.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Not a dickhead

Ryan Reynolds lookalike

Has a personality

That would just break fab

Not really:

Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found

LvM

Don't I know it.

I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you

I shouldn't joke but

I just want to perv on him.

He can be gay, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be attracted to me anyway.

Why don't you just perv the real one, he has done porn

Don't get me all excited. "

Well that's what I'm here for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If Fab were to add new filters what would you like to see?!

Mine wound be Hotwife

Come on peeeps

Mine would be for 6ft plus men

I’ll get in line

Oh you are very well aware that you're top of that line

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"If Fab were to add new filters what would you like to see?!

Mine wound be Hotwife

Come on peeeps

Mine would be for 6ft plus men

I’ll get in line

Oh you are very well aware that you're top of that line

I’ll be calling in on my next journey home , get the tea and biscuits ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like the absolute opposite.

I hate when men message me from the forums and try and continue conversations in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use filters for coffee and tights as filters for filtering paint.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

...but you can message them first?

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I would like the absolute opposite.

I hate when men message me from the forums and try and continue conversations in my inbox "

Guilty as charged for this

but I’ve actually met some friends this way

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

...but you can message them first?

Very true …. I’ll be waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has a personality filter would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified big ass (blue tick)

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...

I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country.

Checks distance... Damn.

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Has a personality filter would be great

I have many personalities

does that count

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Sexy mofo filter.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Has a personality filter would be great

I have many personalities

does that count

Split ones?!

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By *oldyoudown41 OP Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Has a personality filter would be great

I have many personalities

does that count

Split ones?!

How did you guess

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

An actually bisexual not just pretending for my husband tick box?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Sliding scale of inches..

Min to Max

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I'd like to see filters that actually work and you can't tweak your profile to get round

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

Distance would be a good one.

Some context sensitive filters might be useful as well for example:

No single guys, except bi guys might be useful for some couples.

Bareback is also one that might be very useful for some (not us, but clearly people on here do it). Far better that those of us who don't can say we don't want to hear from those who do, and those who do can have a higher strike rate not messaging those who aren't into it.

We REALLY need to revamp the whole trans categorisation setup. Plus the sexuality one actually. Currently it's just TV/TS as I understand it. There's a huge difference between those categories. It also makes things very confusing trying to parse the sexuality of such a person.

For example a person who is TV/TS and lists as straight. Since you don't know how they identify (TV would usually still identify as their biological gender but TS would not) you have absolutely no idea which genitals they are looking for, which must be frustrating for them as well as us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really annoys me, so much time wasted having to reply just to say they are to far away. I do state in my profile anymore than 30 miles then don't bother but still get people hundreds of miles asking to be my fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also a separate filter for watch bi/gay/TV/trans . Always have to go into profiles to find if they are bi or not. D

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Distance, and separate the meet and web cam veri’s.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

...but you can message them first?

I meant if they had something to say off the back of forum interactions. Plus I've also had issues where neither of us have been able to message the other because of filters even though we want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ….

...but you can message them first?

I meant if they had something to say off the back of forum interactions. …. "

Like how every time I see your profile picture I wish I could be knelt behind you kissing your ass!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I ….

...but you can message them first?

I meant if they had something to say off the back of forum interactions. ….

Like how every time I see your profile picture I wish I could be knelt behind you kissing your ass!

Not quite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10" soft cocks with very small balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ….

...but you can message them first?

I meant if they had something to say off the back of forum interactions. ….

Like how every time I see your profile picture I wish I could be knelt behind you kissing your ass!

Not quite

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sorry. My mistake.

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

I get loads of couples look at my profile. I would love an automatic block if they block messages from trans. I block as many as possible.....

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