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"I know and just delete them " Have you replied to any messages since you've been here? | |||
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"I don't do it. I think as a bloke one of the ways to stand out from the crowd, is to read a full profile then message something that's original that shows what kind of person you are and try to show who your messaging that you're reading the profile and the reason why your messaging is that you think you're compatible and have something to offer. I think copy and paste messages even if you're getting replies from some is asking for trouble. Most women want to see a little effort and can spot a copy and paste message from 1000 yards away. That's just my take on it." This | |||
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"I hate copy and paste messages and just delete them, if you can’t be bothered to put an effort into a message for an individual person, why should I reply? I had a repeater who has sent the same message 6 times over a 2 month period until I told him to get lost, I didn’t meet him from the first message, it sure wasn’t going to happen from future c&p messages… guys - remember who you’ve messaged! " Didn't your biology teacher tell you men have the memory of a gold fish when it comes to girls? | |||
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"I know and just delete them Have you replied to any messages since you've been here? " | |||
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"My copy and past message is this Thanks for the message but sorry your not my type but do hope you find someone who you are they type So it’s going to have to be a no from me happy swingeing " I hated getting this message | |||
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"I hate copy and paste messages and just delete them, if you can’t be bothered to put an effort into a message for an individual person, why should I reply? I had a repeater who has sent the same message 6 times over a 2 month period until I told him to get lost, I didn’t meet him from the first message, it sure wasn’t going to happen from future c&p messages… guys - remember who you’ve messaged! Didn't your biology teacher tell you men have the memory of a gold fish when it comes to girls? " I didn’t do biology | |||
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"I admit I've done it and yeah it does still work. I do get replies. I do tweek my 'copy and paste' messages to the other ladies. Do they know? Well we've all got our guilty sins, haven't we? " I have to write spontaneously, otherwise it doesn't feel like me when I read it back. My guilty sin is engaging in pointless threads in the forums, which is its own punishment... | |||
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"I admit I've done it and yeah it does still work. I do get replies. I do tweek my 'copy and paste' messages to the other ladies. Do they know? Well we've all got our guilty sins, haven't we? " I cannot stand copy and paste. And yes especially those that send the same one over and over. So I've even noticed are using the same copy paste for months on end up to a year sometimes. But my favourite is when they are tweaking the messages with names and forget to tweak. Takes 2 minutes to read a profile and write a message. We are humans and like the personal touch. | |||
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"I hate copy and paste messages and just delete them, if you can’t be bothered to put an effort into a message for an individual person, why should I reply? I had a repeater who has sent the same message 6 times over a 2 month period until I told him to get lost, I didn’t meet him from the first message, it sure wasn’t going to happen from future c&p messages… guys - remember who you’ve messaged! Didn't your biology teacher tell you men have the memory of a gold fish when it comes to girls? I didn’t do biology " Well you're getting a free crash course on the MOST IMPORTANT life's lessons here. | |||
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"My copy and past message is this Thanks for the message but sorry your not my type but do hope you find someone who you are they type So it’s going to have to be a no from me happy swingeing I hated getting this message " Awww hugs wonko | |||
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"I hate copy and paste messages and just delete them, if you can’t be bothered to put an effort into a message for an individual person, why should I reply? I had a repeater who has sent the same message 6 times over a 2 month period until I told him to get lost, I didn’t meet him from the first message, it sure wasn’t going to happen from future c&p messages… guys - remember who you’ve messaged! Didn't your biology teacher tell you men have the memory of a gold fish when it comes to girls? I didn’t do biology Well you're getting a free crash course on the MOST IMPORTANT life's lessons here. " Maybe the guys memory could just improve rather then me getting a crash course | |||
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"I hate copy and paste messages and just delete them, if you can’t be bothered to put an effort into a message for an individual person, why should I reply? I had a repeater who has sent the same message 6 times over a 2 month period until I told him to get lost, I didn’t meet him from the first message, it sure wasn’t going to happen from future c&p messages… guys - remember who you’ve messaged! Didn't your biology teacher tell you men have the memory of a gold fish when it comes to girls? I didn’t do biology Well you're getting a free crash course on the MOST IMPORTANT life's lessons here. Maybe the guys memory could just improve rather then me getting a crash course " Do you not think you're asking a bit too much there? | |||
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"I had a lovely convo with a chap two weeks ago and then it went quiet. Today... exact same opening message appears. When I called him out on it, he allegedly mistakenly deleted all his messages so couldn't remember who he'd messaged previously. Glad to see I made such an impression " It can't have been that 'lovely' if he went quite(ran off)? Hahaha. Just kidding. | |||
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"I don't do it. I think as a bloke one of the ways to stand out from the crowd, is to read a full profile then message ……" I agree with everything you said up to that point. | |||
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"I admit I've done it and yeah it does still work. I do get replies. I do tweek my 'copy and paste' messages to the other ladies. Do they know? Well we've all got our guilty sins, haven't we? " Well done for doing what works for you op. There’s some ladies profiles that have little more than a profile picture of their cleavage and they meet more then menn There’s something to be said for speaking to the masses with a personalised well crafted, witty copy and pasted message | |||
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"I had a lovely convo with a chap two weeks ago and then it went quiet. Today... exact same opening message appears. When I called him out on it, he allegedly mistakenly deleted all his messages so couldn't remember who he'd messaged previously. Glad to see I made such an impression " If it makes you feel better we had a message off a guy in the summer and actually met him. Only once as schedules never matched up after that. A few weeks ago we got a copy and paste message from him. Clearly meeting us for sex wasn't that memorable | |||
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"I’ve sent out 10000 copies of “fancy a fuck” Darn it, would you believe, not one fuckin nibble. Bunch of frigid birds the lot of ya. " Hahaha that cracked me up. You've sent 10000's. Good man. I dare you go for the million mark. | |||
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"I loathe copy and paste messages. And can indeed spot them a mile off." Cool, nice rack | |||
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"You actually message? And you even admit to copy and paste? I've almost given up messaging unless there's a reason to. If someone has posted asking or stating something specific that I know about I'll message. I won't just message for the sake of messaging. " Yeah I do message. You've gotta have a laugh. It's all fun. | |||
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"Don't care if the message is copy and paste unless the profile appeals it won't get read anyhow anymore. " That's what online does to you. You're a different person here. Sadly? | |||
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"Don't care if the message is copy and paste unless the profile appeals it won't get read anyhow anymore. That's what online does to you. You're a different person here. Sadly? " What are you on about ? I'm the same online as I am in my real life. And I'm quite happy with how I interact with others in both aspects of my life. | |||
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"It's been ages since I sent an introductory message, however my opening messages are always unique, tailored and handcrafted. But, in rare circumstances, I will not hesitate in sending a formulaic message when the recipient has offered very little in their profile to go on. That so called "cut and paste" message becomes an ice breaker and the chat subsequently becomes more unique and tailored. Note: I'm not talking about simple "Hi" messages here or any other monosyllabic nonsense." Hahaha you hit it right on the nail. But it is all fun. You can't take this seriously. | |||
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"I dont get whats wrong with a copy and paste message. Every message i send is pretty much the same anyway....tall dark single handsome gent.looking to meet couples etc etc Dunno why people get there nickers in a twist " Hello there generic name, how are you on this generic day? I see you are looking for a generic guy to do generic things with. Would you like to meet in a generic beverage establishment and see if we get along I can/cannot host and will/will not travel. Do you not see? A little personalization can go a long way. Mentioning specifics from their profile show you have at least made an effort and aren't just blanket messaging everyone online. | |||
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"I look at the profile first so rarely even get to the message so I’m not really too bothered. If there’s no cock to be seen or pics of them hanging out of other people they’re on to a winner anyway. Sadly it’s rare. " You was my first victim Nora hahaha. Don't you remember? | |||
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"I look at the profile first so rarely even get to the message so I’m not really too bothered. If there’s no cock to be seen or pics of them hanging out of other people they’re on to a winner anyway. Sadly it’s rare. " Comedy gold this | |||
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"This is my take: read the profile and make something about it, if you’re messaging someone then there must be an aspect that you liked rather than just blindly because you’re horny, either the photos or something like that. At the same time, if you’ve written a joke or something, there’s no problem in re-writing it in if you think it’s appropriate, there’s also no problem in that. The problem is where you write the exact same thing to different people…that’s just moronic " Or the exact same thing to the same person time and again over several weeks!! | |||
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"I look at the profile first so rarely even get to the message so I’m not really too bothered. If there’s no cock to be seen or pics of them hanging out of other people they’re on to a winner anyway. Sadly it’s rare. You was my first victim Nora hahaha. Don't you remember? " How could I forget. Although had no idea I was your first. How spesh do I feel now | |||
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"Nora, would you do me the honour of being my 10001st FAF victim? " | |||
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"I look at the profile first so rarely even get to the message so I’m not really too bothered. If there’s no cock to be seen or pics of them hanging out of other people they’re on to a winner anyway. Sadly it’s rare. You was my first victim Nora hahaha. Don't you remember? " does the first message count as the first copy and paste. Or is it the second that is the first? | |||
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"This is my take: read the profile and make something about it, if you’re messaging someone then there must be an aspect that you liked rather than just blindly because you’re horny, either the photos or something like that. At the same time, if you’ve written a joke or something, there’s no problem in re-writing it in if you think it’s appropriate, there’s also no problem in that. The problem is where you write the exact same thing to different people…that’s just moronic Or the exact same thing to the same person time and again over several weeks!! " God no! 1 message max from me | |||
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"Top tip to all you male Fabbers: Nora is 'heritage': she prefers telegrams and Morse code. Occasionally she may even respond to the odd semaphore. " This may very well be why I might not have a reply yet, she replies by second class mail. | |||
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"Top tip to all you male Fabbers: Nora is 'heritage': she prefers telegrams and Morse code. Occasionally she may even respond to the odd semaphore. This may very well be why I might not have a reply yet, she replies by second class mail. " I always reply to you. Cheeky git. | |||
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"Top tip to all you male Fabbers: Nora is 'heritage': she prefers telegrams and Morse code. Occasionally she may even respond to the odd semaphore. This may very well be why I might not have a reply yet, she replies by second class mail. I always reply to you. Cheeky git. " I’ll just check the post. … | |||
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"Top tip to all you male Fabbers: Nora is 'heritage': she prefers telegrams and Morse code. Occasionally she may even respond to the odd semaphore. This may very well be why I might not have a reply yet, she replies by second class mail. I always reply to you. Cheeky git. I’ll just check the post. … " I haven’t looked at messages today though . | |||
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"Top tip to all you male Fabbers: Nora is 'heritage': she prefers telegrams and Morse code. Occasionally she may even respond to the odd semaphore. This may very well be why I might not have a reply yet, she replies by second class mail. " . ^ he's a ²nd Class Male. | |||
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"Do copy and paste messages on a six month loop count? I've never sent one but I've had a few that ask exactly the same question every six months or so. " Yes of course it does. That's my cycle. | |||
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"Women don't spend time replying so why should men spend time reading profiles or writing a new message every time. Also I can never remember who I messaged before. Profile pics change or look similar. Tits all look the same. " *knuckle bump | |||
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"I don't do it. I think as a bloke one of the ways to stand out from the crowd, is to read a full profile then message something that's original that shows what kind of person you are and try to show who your messaging that you're reading the profile and the reason why your messaging is that you think you're compatible and have something to offer. I think copy and paste messages even if you're getting replies from some is asking for trouble. Most women want to see a little effort and can spot a copy and paste message from 1000 yards away. That's just my take on it." | |||
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"Women don't spend time replying so why should men spend time reading profiles or writing a new message every time. Also I can never remember who I messaged before. Profile pics change or look similar. Tits all look the same. *knuckle bump " ( . )( . ) | |||
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"Women don't spend time replying so why should men spend time reading profiles or writing a new message every time. Also I can never remember who I messaged before. Profile pics change or look similar. Tits all look the same. *knuckle bump ( . )( . )" A boobie bump? I’ll take that | |||
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"Women don't spend time replying so why should men spend time reading profiles or writing a new message every time. Also I can never remember who I messaged before. Profile pics change or look similar. Tits all look the same. " That's what private notes are for . . . . . | |||
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"Women don't spend time replying so why should men spend time reading profiles or writing a new message every time. Also I can never remember who I messaged before. Profile pics change or look similar. Tits all look the same. That's what private notes are for . . . . ." Sex meat spreadsheet. | |||
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"We do it every 2 months. About 400 times. Must admit we are slacking though. We haven’t attached a dick pic once! " let me know of you need one ... | |||
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"We do it every 2 months. About 400 times. Must admit we are slacking though. We haven’t attached a dick pic once! let me know of you need one ... " Never say no to a nice slice of Hovis | |||
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