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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well after my 4th Vanilla date the lady was invited over for the evening...OMG she so loves her sex and we were very compatible. Also during the evening we or should I say metioned about anything not done but wanted to in the bed room area...I told her my (every mans I think) fantasy is to have 2 women...

To which she replied I don't have any friends but I'd let you do it early on in our relationship as I'd get jealous later...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Four dates and a sex goddess - lucky you! Have fun getting to the stage when she begins to feel jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emmm, que fab xxx, glad all going well for you TIG xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a high-five and a pint is in order...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to you for the future.. Ibet your pad never looked so clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck to you for the future.. Ibet your pad never looked so clean "

My pad is always clean(well bedroom, bathroom and lounge any way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, her own admission of capable of being jealous would cause me to be concerned, vanilla or not!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Happy days... all the best to you both

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

We are all capable of being jealous, not a bad thing. It's how we control it that counts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmmm, her own admission of capable of being jealous would cause me to be concerned, vanilla or not! "

my thoughts exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two words in op post that would have me running miles, relationship and jealous!!! eekkk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two words in op post that would have me running miles, relationship and jealous!!! eekkk "

The OP is dating, not swinging, at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm, her own admission of capable of being jealous would cause me to be concerned, vanilla or not!

my thoughts exactly..."

Yes I agree too. The statement made, in my opinion, means I want to be the only one for you if we start a relationship. Maybe don't mention the fab profile just yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats with all the talk of the gal in question maybe becoming jealous if the relationship progresses? The op didn't meet her from a swinging site!!!

As he said, it was a 'vanilla' date. I could see the point if he did meet her from here, but, he didn't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats with all the talk of the gal in question maybe becoming jealous if the relationship progresses? The op didn't meet her from a swinging site!!!

As he said, it was a 'vanilla' date. I could see the point if he did meet her from here, but, he didn't! "

Well said young man

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Well after my 4th Vanilla date the lady was invited over for the evening...OMG she so loves her sex and we were very compatible. Also during the evening we or should I say metioned about anything not done but wanted to in the bed room area...I told her my (every mans I think) fantasy is to have 2 women...

To which she replied I don't have any friends but I'd let you do it early on in our relationship as I'd get jealous later...

"

After only meeting three times ( the fourth doesn't count) you discussed sexual fantasies ?

Isn't that ..... a little previous ?

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

So you didn't meet the female on this site???

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Let's look at all the evidence so far to answer that question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you didn't meet the female on this site???"

no

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hmmmmmmm someone had a hissy saying the O.P didn't meet her here and the O.P. responded in a postive vein.......

No he didn't meet her here.

I rest my case m'lud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmm that word jealousy doesnt really fit into swinging IMO not that you are swinging but even the mention of a 3some and jealousy in one sentence dont bode well!!

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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire


"The OP is dating, not swinging, at the moment."

I beg to differ, There is a verification on his profile from the 2nd November 2012, so he is swinging, just not with the girl his dating!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Plus he just butted in while I was summing up and said 'no'

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente


"We are all capable of being jealous, not a bad thing. It's how we control it that counts. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The OP is dating, not swinging, at the moment.

I beg to differ, There is a verification on his profile from the 2nd November 2012, so he is swinging, just not with the girl his dating! "

I beg to beg to differ....

He is dating the Vanilla Woman.

He is swinging with the swingy people.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

OP does your vanilla date know that your on a swinging site?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"OP does your vanilla date know that your on a swinging site?"

Hmmmmmmmmm Let me consider this carefully.........

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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire


"Hmmmmmmmmm Let me consider this carefully......... "

Its a tough one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP does your vanilla date know that your on a swinging site?"

Why should she? Do you tell everyone you meet that your on one?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hmmmmmmmmm Let me consider this carefully.........

Its a tough one"

It was it was....

I call the O.P to the stand

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"OP does your vanilla date know that your on a swinging site?

Why should she? Do you tell everyone you meet that your on one?"

Are you the OP!!! Stop getting involved when I'm not talking to you.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"OP does your vanilla date know that your on a swinging site?

Why should she? Do you tell everyone you meet that your on one?"

I don't use the 'R' word with everyone I meet.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"OP does your vanilla date know that your on a swinging site?

Why should she? Do you tell everyone you meet that your on one?"

I don't, but if I was starting a new relationship it is certainly something that needs to be considered. Some people assume that when they start dating someone they will be the only one that person sleeps with.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have to say it is anyone concerns what the OP does and does not do.. If he chooses not to tell her then he has his reasons..

The only time I would tell someone in the "nilly" world I was on here is if it was getting serious..

He has had 4 dates and a shag its the beginning and not yet made offical that they are an item.. Its early days...

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"OP does your vanilla date know that your on a swinging site?

Why should she? Do you tell everyone you meet that your on one?

I don't, but if I was starting a new relationship it is certainly something that needs to be considered. Some people assume that when they start dating someone they will be the only one that person sleeps with. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP does your vanilla date know that your on a swinging site?

Why should she? Do you tell everyone you meet that your on one?

Are you the OP!!! Stop getting involved when I'm not talking to you."

Erm, i'm sorry, but its a forum! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plus he just butted in while I was summing up and said 'no' "

As it was my OP I didn't "butt in" I responded to a question. It was an unfortunate that my response interrupted your train of thought/thread.

Yes I also did have a meet this week however I am not owned by my new vanilla lady friend and it was my choice to risk meeting someone. After all there are many people who do the same...Hense this being a swing site... Now my lady friend and I have become 1 by being intimate, I will not be arranging more meets... but will continue to post my tuppenceworth on the forums!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats with all the talk of the gal in question maybe becoming jealous if the relationship progresses? The op didn't meet her from a swinging site!!!

As he said, it was a 'vanilla' date. I could see the point if he did meet her from here, but, he didn't! "

and its lady not gal

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Whats with all the talk of the gal in question maybe becoming jealous if the relationship progresses? The op didn't meet her from a swinging site!!!

As he said, it was a 'vanilla' date. I could see the point if he did meet her from here, but, he didn't!

and its lady not gal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to hear your happy lad

Hope it all works out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this thread.

OP will you be posting regular updates for us? I love how this girls sexual preferences may be laid out before us on a 'date by date' basis, so we may pass comment on this strange thing you call 'Vanilla Dating'

I hope she's well up for it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Plus he just butted in while I was summing up and said 'no'

As it was my OP I didn't "butt in" I responded to a question. It was an unfortunate that my response interrupted your train of thought/thread.

Yes I also did have a meet this week however I am not owned by my new vanilla lady friend and it was my choice to risk meeting someone. After all there are many people who do the same...Hense this being a swing site... Now my lady friend and I have become 1 by being intimate, I will not be arranging more meets... but will continue to post my tuppenceworth on the forums! "

Did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I like this thread.

OP will you be posting regular updates for us? I love how this girls sexual preferences may be laid out before us on a 'date by date' basis, so we may pass comment on this strange thing you call 'Vanilla Dating'

I hope she's well up for it

even if she isn't I would be content with what we did...

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good to hear your happy lad

Hope it all works out. "

Cheers Rusty

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Too late to take it back ....

Did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too late to take it back ....

Did."

I will not get involved on a tit for tat did didn't thread granny...mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your just dating and not actually got to the point of saying your 'exclusive' and its a relationship then id say do what you want and have meets.

Glad your enjoying dating. Good luck

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