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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon

Just read someone's profile on here who summarised that any lady over a size 20 is lazy and morbidly obese weight loss is not instant or easy. There should be nicer phrases for curvier women than BBW .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read someone's profile on here who summarised that any lady over a size 20 is lazy and morbidly obese weight loss is not instant or easy. There should be nicer phrases for curvier women than BBW ."
agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know who's the ugly one and it isn't the woman who wears a size 20.

I do love how people assume you're lazy if you're overweight. It's fucking ridiculous.

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Why do we need to refer to people with reference to their body size ? Size is irreverent? If you are happy with your body then so be it, and besides it's what you do with your body that counts, along with personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never understand people who find the need in commenting on others weight or those who make a habit of putting people down. Nasty to the core.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have they not been expanding anyway so the numbers are not what they used to be. Size 20 waist measurement has increased 8 inches since the 60s! So the numbers are meaningless really.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

BBW seems to be unpopular with women in general regardless of size. Can't see why we can't just use our eyes

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Why would someone even put that on their profile?! Some proper weirdos on here.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People who are that sort of unpleasant just show themselves for who they are.

Block early, block often.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

It’s nit what folk look like it’s whats on the inside never judge a book by its cover

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I have never understood the need for anybody to comment on somebody's (perceived) weight issue (over or underweight)

Why, I wonder, is it of interest to them? I can only imagine it is borne out of the person's own insecurity that people need to make a statement that somebody is overweight.

It says little about the "overweight" person but a fair bit about the commentator. xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Just read someone's profile on here who summarised that any lady over a size 20 is lazy and morbidly obese weight loss is not instant or easy. There should be nicer phrases for curvier women than BBW ."

You don't have to use it. I don't necessarily thinks it's a bad term or a not nice one or how it links to the profile you claim to have seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s nit what folk look like it’s whats on the inside never judge a book by its cover "

How does that work for the folk who only want well hung? Is that a double standard?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s nit what folk look like it’s whats on the inside never judge a book by its cover

How does that work for the folk who only want well hung? Is that a double standard? "

I think there's a difference between "only want positive thing" and what's happening here.

I'll come down just as hard on "I don't want your skinny pencil dick anywhere near me, come back when you've grown a man's schlong" or similar (apologies) as fat shaming.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Oh well. More curvy ladies for me then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s nit what folk look like it’s whats on the inside never judge a book by its cover

How does that work for the folk who only want well hung? Is that a double standard?

I think there's a difference between "only want positive thing" and what's happening here.

I'll come down just as hard on "I don't want your skinny pencil dick anywhere near me, come back when you've grown a man's schlong" or similar (apologies) as fat shaming. "

But is labelling on end of the spectrum positive not in effect suggesting the other end os not so positive and therefore maybe unworthy? And that’s an aspect nobody can really change. Weight on the other hand is largely elective or at least in many cases something someone can change is they should choose. You can’t grow an extra few inches

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Clothing sizes isn't the same for a majority of the well known shops out there anyway, its be proven numerous time before.

So you could be 3 or 4 different clothes sizes in various shops and they all still fit the same body.

Just proves how daft some people are by labelling someone by a clothes size!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s nit what folk look like it’s whats on the inside never judge a book by its cover "

I don’t really agree with that comment in general. On here it often is what folk look like but people all like different things.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Coming back to this, I would imagine that they've put off more women they are hoping to attract by posting that, so they've shot themselves in the foot. I wouldn't go near a profile who put any body size, shape etc. I doubt I'm the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s nit what folk look like it’s whats on the inside never judge a book by its cover "

What they look like and the initial attraction is hugely important, without that it's going nowhere. No amount of personality or goodness on the inside will make fancy them if the initial attraction is not there. It will however make me stay.

As for the OPs post, some people are just arse holes

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Coming back to this, I would imagine that they've put off more women they are hoping to attract by posting that, so they've shot themselves in the foot. I wouldn't go near a profile who put any body size, shape etc. I doubt I'm the only one "

Me neither

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Why anyone would need to comment on other people's perceived obesity on their profile is beyond me.

What's it going to achieve apart from alienation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be read as david attenborough)

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An animal with very specific needs who likes to shame females into sex the human bellend sometimes known as the cheekius cuntius

These creatures are quite rare but driven by an impulse to have sex but there seduction technique is rather basic

 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folks are both classless and clueless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my size clearly on my profile because I used to say I'm a larger lady and folk would say oh but I like curves.

I'm not just curvy I'm fat so felt putting the size on would make people aware of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I read that on a profile, I wouldn't think oh, I'm thin, I'm his type, I'll message him. I'd think he was a horrible human and block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clueless Nasty pasty.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've been a size 18 all my adult life and have recently crept up to a size 20. It doesn't bother me - but by jove it bothers lots of folk including

Dr - "advised" me to lose "a significant amount of weight" - whilst at the same time being sat in front of me far bigger than I. I thanked him for the "advice" and pointed out if I wanted it, then I'd be looking for help from someone who practised what they preached.

Consultant at hospital. Had to sit on a weigh chair then go and see him. He looked at my weight then the bmi index, looked at me and said I was morbidly obese and needed to do something about it. I asked if he was going to ask anything about my diet/activity levels - he said no, the bmi told him all he needed to know. I called him a pillock (and may have added sanctimonious too).

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I have never understood the need for anybody to comment on somebody's (perceived) weight issue (over or underweight)

Why, I wonder, is it of interest to them? I can only imagine it is borne out of the person's own insecurity that people need to make a statement that somebody is overweight.

It says little about the "overweight" person but a fair bit about the commentator. xx"

Very well said xx

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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon


"I've been a size 18 all my adult life and have recently crept up to a size 20. It doesn't bother me - but by jove it bothers lots of folk including

Dr - "advised" me to lose "a significant amount of weight" - whilst at the same time being sat in front of me far bigger than I. I thanked him for the "advice" and pointed out if I wanted it, then I'd be looking for help from someone who practised what they preached.

Consultant at hospital. Had to sit on a weigh chair then go and see him. He looked at my weight then the bmi index, looked at me and said I was morbidly obese and needed to do something about it. I asked if he was going to ask anything about my diet/activity levels - he said no, the bmi told him all he needed to know. I called him a pillock (and may have added sanctimonious too)."

Quite right! I've struggled most of my life trying to lose weight and it always being the cause of my problems

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By *ereagainlolMan
over a year ago

Lerwick

The term fabulous is used for a bigger woman on here and also by women who think they have a gorgeous figure, so without a picture, you don't know what they look like.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Why would anyone read that on someone's profile and think oh that's the person for me!

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Just read someone's profile on here who summarised that any lady over a size 20 is lazy and morbidly obese weight loss is not instant or easy. There should be nicer phrases for curvier women than BBW ."

Post the profileeeeee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read someone's profile on here who summarised that any lady over a size 20 is lazy and morbidly obese weight loss is not instant or easy. There should be nicer phrases for curvier women than BBW .

Post the profileeeeee! "

So cunt shaming is acceptable?

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Just read someone's profile on here who summarised that any lady over a size 20 is lazy and morbidly obese weight loss is not instant or easy. There should be nicer phrases for curvier women than BBW .

Post the profileeeeee!

So cunt shaming is acceptable? "

In my book it is!

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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon


"Just read someone's profile on here who summarised that any lady over a size 20 is lazy and morbidly obese weight loss is not instant or easy. There should be nicer phrases for curvier women than BBW .

Post the profileeeeee! "

Lol they said they do like curvy women.. I said curvy comes in different sizes

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I don't know why we have to use the phrase big beautiful women, to me they're just beautiful women.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s nit what folk look like it’s whats on the inside never judge a book by its cover

How does that work for the folk who only want well hung? Is that a double standard?

I think there's a difference between "only want positive thing" and what's happening here.

I'll come down just as hard on "I don't want your skinny pencil dick anywhere near me, come back when you've grown a man's schlong" or similar (apologies) as fat shaming.

But is labelling on end of the spectrum positive not in effect suggesting the other end os not so positive and therefore maybe unworthy? And that’s an aspect nobody can really change. Weight on the other hand is largely elective or at least in many cases something someone can change is they should choose. You can’t grow an extra few inches "

I think it's an entirely different thing. A little tact is far easier than weight loss.

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