FabSwingers.com forum: Not Complaining Just Curious

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they have more options mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they have more options mostly. "

That

as a male you have to stand out from the crowd somehow, otherwise you won't get any

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Because they hold the keys to that sexy poon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

They don’t. They fake it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we make it work for us & have bits that people want..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here."

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is that most guys when joining the site, think they are going to get more pussy than a mad cat lady, but reality bites and then think the couples and single females have it easy. That ain't true, yes we have more choice, but its really hard work getting to where you want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun. "

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you want im having a blast chatting bubbles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x"

Struggling to find what I'm looking for.

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x

Struggling to find what I'm looking for. "

U2 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x

Struggling to find what I'm looking for. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x

Struggling to find what I'm looking for.

U2 ?"
i heard bono has severe E.D

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x

Struggling to find what I'm looking for.

U2 ?i heard bono has severe E.D"

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

This site is kinda amazing really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The important word in the OP was 'seem'. When we look at other people we only see small bits of their life whereas with ourselves we know all of it. Given that people tend to only display the bits that they think are positive this gives us a very skewed view of others.

Women on here don't have any more fun than men - just think, apart from the very few that are gay, for every woman having a bit of 'fun' there is a man also enjoying himself. I find life tends to be far more enjoyable when I concentrate on what I have rather than what I don't and don't look at what others have as a bench mark for what U feel I should get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x

Struggling to find what I'm looking for.

U2 ?"

You've no idea, people think it's easy for women but I have climbed highest mountains, I have run through the fields...

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x

Struggling to find what I'm looking for.

U2 ?

You've no idea, people think it's easy for women but I have climbed highest mountains, I have run through the fields... "

One, two, three, fourteen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

Two questions...

1. How do you know single women seem to have more enjoyable time, have you evidence to support the claim?

2. Define "enjoyable time"?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nah I don’t agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some men who have a very good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know some men who have a very good time"

You’re right. I had a good time once…………*looks out of the rain drenched window toward the woods…….

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

Is it ‘more enjoyable’? Or are we looking at the issues guys have (too many guys) and assuming they’re having a ball (every pun intended!) but are actually having just as hard (another pun intended) as we are but for completely the opposite reason? Too much attention.

One’s feeling about an experience is all relative. I’ve had a great time on fab but use it for completely different reasons now than, say two years ago.

You get what you put in (intended!) and if you’re not getting what you want, you change it up a bit!

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

One’s feeling about an experience is all relative. I’ve had a great time on fab but use it for completely different reasons now than, say two years ago.

You get what you put in (intended!) and if you’re not getting what you want, you change it up a bit!

Have fun! "

I agree, I think the point is guys moan about not having any luck, there are regular "what am I doing wrong" threads. Whereas women just get on with it and keep it to themselves.

In was in the "what am I doing wrong" group early on, but know, I just chat to a few and come here to the forum and engage in conversations.

I'm firmly in the "if it happens, it happens" group now.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its difficult for everyone to find what they are looking for.

You just see more men posting about it

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s just that men face the average, women face the extremes

Most men are right in the middle. No messages, no replies, no meets. Not exactly fun, but not a bad time either

Women are more on the extremes. Lots of messages, lots of opportunities, but lots of let downs too.

Depends which side you prefer. Typically, yes women have the better situation because some opportunity is gonna be better then very little / none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

One’s feeling about an experience is all relative. I’ve had a great time on fab but use it for completely different reasons now than, say two years ago.

You get what you put in (intended!) and if you’re not getting what you want, you change it up a bit!

Have fun! "

We also have abuse thrown our way on a daily basis too

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

You really don't know OP?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

Numbers.

Probably 30000 single gents here, nowhere near that as single females.

Not everyone is looking for a single gent where as men, women, couples could easily be looking for a lady.

It's a numbers game and the numbers favour one and not the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

One’s feeling about an experience is all relative. I’ve had a great time on fab but use it for completely different reasons now than, say two years ago.

You get what you put in (intended!) and if you’re not getting what you want, you change it up a bit!

Have fun! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

Welcome to the forums.

Verifications, pics, profiles can all make it seem like people are fucking all over the place. Some are but many aren't.

I think it's better as a woman as I get messages even with my shit profile. I understand how shit it must be as a man to get no messages or replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consider it a tool, used correctly, it can do a lot of things for you, used incorrectly and you are blaming your tools

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By *reezulMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Basically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want you do say/act/be x y z but you don't know what x y z is so you have to guess ,and if guessed incorrectly for that person you will be ghosted/blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

Those women not having an enjoyable time don't complain about it in the forum endlessly...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Do they ?

You wouldn't think so the amount of whining that goes on.

I think it's an assumption.

It appears to you that they are but that is brought about by you reflecting on not realising your expectations.

10 - 1 if you were having a great time you wouldn't be having these thoughts. You wouldn't be interested in what others were up to.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Those women not having an enjoyable time don't complain about it in the forum endlessly..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think any particular group of people have more fun , but if you put it into a ratio of men , women and trans you’ll find there is sooo many more men in comparison to lady’s and trans , so when you have for example 10 men to 1 woman , you have to stand out to be noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Those women not having an enjoyable time don't complain about it in the forum endlessly..."

You mean like those endless threads complaining about 'So why do all men...' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we got vaginas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think any particular group of people have more fun , but if you put it into a ratio of men , women and trans you’ll find there is sooo many more men in comparison to lady’s and trans , so when you have for example 10 men to 1 woman , you have to stand out to be noticed "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's potential hard work here for everyone, it's just different. I think men tend to have the more unrealistic expectations, compared to others, which often leads to discomfort.

It can be very hard work to sort the wheat from the chaff. And online personas can differ to the reality very easily. At least in clubs you can see how someone really looks and gauge whether you could fancy them, without having to try to piece together multiple photo jigsaw pieces, to get an impression of how someone MAY look, in real life.

Most of us don't want another unpaid job, which it can sometimes feel like here, sorting out potential partners from the very unsuitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coz they have boobies and guys don't, nuff said

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

All about numbers.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Two questions...

1. How do you know single women seem to have more enjoyable time, have you evidence to support the claim?

2. Define "enjoyable time"?

There’s a single woman fairly local to me, has been in Fab for four months, and has had 45 meets. Yes, that does mean 45 guys around her have had ‘an enjoyable time’ too, but if you read the guys veris they are in the single figures after been in here far longer

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Because we got vaginas

This. Fab, and the club scene, is all about the pussy

Unless you’re a bi guy…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

Could it be and assumption or perception of others,there surely is a numbers game.

And a commodity that has a demand from the man prospective.

Yet on the same note do women need men and much as men need and want women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they have more options mostly. "

This OP but those options don't always mean women don't have it hard on here or that its all roses and rainbows on the other side of the fence .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Those women not having an enjoyable time don't complain about it in the forum endlessly..."

True men moan the most followed by couples in my experience on here so far .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they have more options mostly. "

Yeah sure.

And men are lusting after the very most common thing that is on their minds. What is in-between her legs.

Take that section out,or even as friends or no interest would the drive and desire be the same??

All is far too obvious.

It's all a mind and power struggle.

He/she who dares wins.

Wins what? At what cost, no smoke without fire.

When we all contain our lust and desires the dynamic surely and truly changes.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Do they have a more enjoyable time? Or is that how you and some others percieve things?

Could it be that some women manage their expectations a little stricter?

Could it be that some women make effort in areas that will make their experience more enjoyable. Eg, heading to socials or clubs instead of relying solely on the inbox here to find suitable people to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All about numbers."

Numbers will never end. Keep adding the 0's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here."

Honest words . Thank you.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If you think being lied to in order to gain access to your minge is enjoyable, I would have to vehemently disagree with you.

Enjoyable:

adjective

(of an activity or occasion) giving delight or pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Those women not having an enjoyable time don't complain about it in the forum endlessly...

You mean like those endless threads complaining about 'So why do all men...' ?

The OP was about having a good time on Fab. My point still stands...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just that men face the average, women face the extremes

Most men are right in the middle. No messages, no replies, no meets. Not exactly fun, but not a bad time either

Women are more on the extremes. Lots of messages, lots of opportunities, but lots of let downs too.

Depends which side you prefer. Typically, yes women have the better situation because some opportunity is gonna be better then very little / none."

Correct.

In all this daily activity of all sorts.

People have grown this so called shell. Of we are hard and we don't care we shut it all off. Men/women Becoming the very norm.

We all have emotions/thoughts/feelings.

Wether we show them or we hide them.

We all have to deal with them daily internally so that effects our outlook towards people and the wider world.

I strongly feel we as humans need and yearn to be accepted,liked,admired,respected,fondly though of.

But we are all or most are going the not so correct way about shareing,spreading or even asking for anything.

Peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't. Trust me.

(I don't anyway.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The important word in the OP was 'seem'. When we look at other people we only see small bits of their life whereas with ourselves we know all of it. Given that people tend to only display the bits that they think are positive this gives us a very skewed view of others.

Mr"

I often see you guys on threads, and you really hit the nail on the head. Well said... again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't. Trust me.

(I don't anyway.)"

Best to be very honest with oneself.

Freedom and liberation firstly is being honest with oneself others then maybe the window of opportunity may arise from our actions.

Most is abit confused and muddy communications of all sorts from us people.

I ain't bashing anybody on here.

Some may be at the top of their game. And deem themselves as wow good looking. Successful and otherwise.

But to reach out and to connect with others and many to create ease and flourishes for positive joys takes some doing.

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here."

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do"

Couldn’t agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do"

Hay how do you know these women have no standards bit harsh in my opinion and God I'm imagining the shit storm if a guy said this about some women on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do

Yeah..

Hay how do you know these women have no standards bit harsh in my opinion and God I'm imagining the shit storm if a guy said this about some women on here ."

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do"

Different standards...and how does it impact other women?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Can be harder for us girls also as we have to search through a massive sea of guys to find the tidy and respectful ones we fancy having sex with. You wont believe how hard that is due to the huge amount of messages we have to sift through and check the profiles. Not as easy as you think. Most women on here are not here for the guys pleasure, we are here for ours so can be more choosey and lets face it we have to be as if you could see some of the messages we get that are quite worrying and disturbing to say the least. This goes for cpls also as they can be just as bad. Jo

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By *dible_KinkCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Can be harder for us girls also as we have to search through a massive sea of guys to find the tidy and respectful ones we fancy having sex with. You wont believe how hard that is due to the huge amount of messages we have to sift through and check the profiles. Not as easy as you think. Most women on here are not here for the guys pleasure, we are here for ours so can be more choosey and lets face it we have to be as if you could see some of the messages we get that are quite worrying and disturbing to say the least. This goes for cpls also as they can be just as bad. Jo"

100% this

Mrs

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do"

Wow if that aint a c**t punt to your fellow ladies on here. Bad enough a guy saying that let alone another female!

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I am baffled by some of these comments. Who are any us to judge standards? It's a sex site for God's sake! What is acceptable to one person may not be to another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am baffled by some of these comments. Who are any us to judge standards? It's a sex site for God's sake! What is acceptable to one person may not be to another. "

Fully live and let live.

The waters are very murky and dirty as is.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I am baffled by some of these comments. Who are any us to judge standards? It's a sex site for God's sake! What is acceptable to one person may not be to another. "

It's a swinging site but some do think and use it as a sex site.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"I am baffled by some of these comments. Who are any us to judge standards? It's a sex site for God's sake! What is acceptable to one person may not be to another.

It's a swinging site but some do think and use it as a sex site. "

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

It's whatever people want it to be. Swinging involves a lot of sex in my experience. My point was, what is an acceptable standard to one person is not to another, so don't judge unless you have no faults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do"

No standards? What a judgement just because people have different tastes/wants to you.

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

BUXTON

You have to really ask that question ????

Its about Supply and Demand

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

I'm firmly in the "if it happens, it happens" group now. "

I'm in that group too

...whatever the 'it' is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do

Hay how do you know these women have no standards bit harsh in my opinion and God I'm imagining the shit storm if a guy said this about some women on here ."

Just because she's got a vagina doesn't make the comment acceptable although yes you'd have been pounced on for the same.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

If you look at the sites published stats, 62% of profiles are from men, so I guess that answers the question.

The swinging site is open to everyone, not just swingers who want to broaden their sexual experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

I'm firmly in the "if it happens, it happens" group now.

I'm in that group too

...whatever the 'it' is

It's the cheese cake group the want some cheese cake but there not sure if ists a buicuit or a cake or a desert it's so bloody confusing . I say just shut up and eat the cheese cake for fuck sake it's wilting in the sun

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over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x

Struggling to find what I'm looking for.

Me too

Likewise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average."

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule."

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Because we are out numbered x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see."

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence". "

Very healthy tennis match Ping ping.

Wimbledon is due upon us soon.

Bet rain stops afew days.

Strawberry and pimps of the day .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Very healthy tennis match Ping ping.

Wimbledon is due upon us soon.

Bet rain stops afew days.

Strawberry and pimps of the day ."

Pimps?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do"

What a comment! Who are u to judge who has standards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

Should we file this in the FAQs or pop it on the complaints box then? I’m curious.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Do we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Very healthy tennis match Ping ping.

Wimbledon is due upon us soon.

Bet rain stops afew days.

Strawberry and pimps of the day .

Pimps?

"
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Pimms. Typo error.

The cane and leather slipper was ready and out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm learning quickly, it's definitely a game of patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know there are of miserable women here

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

All down to numbers!.. and if more single women realised that you wouldn't get the entitled, diva, rude and arrogant attitudes on here

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do"

Why would what anyone elses "standards" have to do with anyone else or impact anyone elses journey.

What would help on fab if people actually concentrated on their own journeys and what they are looking for .Rather than pointing the finger and giving out about what other people do on their journey .Simple rule of fact if you are not involved in their journey then it is absolutely none of your business how others use the site .If anything it's that attitude and finger pointing that causes most of the issues on here .And usually those who point the finger and blame others for their crap fab journey should spend more time looking inward and they find a solution to their issues.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Because they have more options mostly. "

This. In fact I am increasingly realising after the latest let down just this is a waste of time and effort.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do"

Dead

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence". "

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!

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over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

All down to numbers!.. and if more single women realised that you wouldn't get the entitled, diva, rude and arrogant attitudes on here

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t think I have an enjoyable time on here at all! Even when I was open to meeting people it’s impossible to sift through the mountain of cock shots to decide who’s actually worth talking to. I’m sure there are lots of lovely humans. But those that think women are attracted to a pic of their dick aren’t going to get their foot in many doors.

I don’t find many people fanciable, and that’s not classically good looking folks, it’s just a chemistry thing so I average one to two encounters per year. Now I simply can’t be arsed so it’s none. If it wasn’t for the social side I wouldn’t be here at all.

Not all women are having ‘fun’

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Very healthy tennis match Ping ping.

Wimbledon is due upon us soon.

Bet rain stops afew days.

Strawberry and pimps of the day ."

Men in jaunty hats delicately placing sliced strawberries onto nipples. I can dig it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!"

Have you read that study? I have. It's bunkum.

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over a year ago

Very healthy tennis match Ping ping.

Wimbledon is due upon us soon.

Bet rain stops afew days.

Strawberry and pimps of the day .

Men in jaunty hats delicately placing sliced strawberries onto nipples. I can dig it"

Oh yes

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I don’t think I have an enjoyable time on here at all! Even when I was open to meeting people it’s impossible to sift through the mountain of cock shots to decide who’s actually worth talking to. I’m sure there are lots of lovely humans. But those that think women are attracted to a pic of their dick aren’t going to get their foot in many doors.

Not all women are having ‘fun’

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

All down to numbers!.. and if more single women realised that you wouldn't get the entitled, diva, rude and arrogant attitudes on here

Could I have some example of women being like this?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!

Have you read that study? I have. It's bunkum. "

I didn’t, I wouldn’t assume a statistic needs a study. We’re the numbers wrong?

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?"

Dunno about you have but I’m having a whale of a time on here. Maybe you’re doing something wrong if you feel that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!

Have you read that study? I have. It's bunkum.

I didn’t, I wouldn’t assume a statistic needs a study. We’re the numbers wrong? "

It wasn't a study, it was some bloke on Medium.

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!

Have you read that study? I have. It's bunkum.

I didn’t, I wouldn’t assume a statistic needs a study. We’re the numbers wrong? "

many statistics arise from a survey, but using them without studying the underlying methodology that gathered them is pointless. Surveys can be designed to favour an outcome. (See Yes Prime Minister on conscription for details)

Besides, ‘Statistics are like a bikini. What they reveal is interesting, but what they conceal is vital’

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule."

Ahh so this is why 4 out of every 5 men are virgins.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

All down to numbers!.. and if more single women realised that you wouldn't get the entitled, diva, rude and arrogant attitudes on here

Could I have some example of women being like this? "

Do you seriously think all women on here are nice and polite because there are plenty that are just as described above. Of course there are women on here who are down to earth and sound on here. But there are plenty who are vindictive and nasty and having been in a few 'ladies' groups it was an eye opener on here how nasty they can be and why I don't join groups anymore . Sharing other people's personal info or blacklisting others just because they took a dislike to them.Some have even been known to out people in their real lives because they have been told no thanks. So there you go some examples of some of the ladies on here who are exactly as described by the other poster.

This attitude that all women are hard done by and are innocent of any bad behaviour is one of the biggest issues I have seen on fab. Women seem to get a pass on here for behaviour that would not be tolerated by any man on here some demand respect yet treat others like dirt and that's not right .Respect should be mutual not one way. And those who create storms and cry then when it rains should not be given a pass because just they are a woman .

And before anyone jumps on me as I said already on this post there are a hell of a lot of decent women on here as well thank goodness.

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

All down to numbers!.. and if more single women realised that you wouldn't get the entitled, diva, rude and arrogant attitudes on here

Could I have some example of women being like this?

And before anyone jumps on me as I said already on this post there are a hell of a lot of decent women on here as well thank goodness. "

Yeah..agree with this. I'm not on about ignoring messages and deleting them I'm on about some women behaving like how I originally described.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!

Have you read that study? I have. It's bunkum.

I didn’t, I wouldn’t assume a statistic needs a study. We’re the numbers wrong?

It wasn't a study, it was some bloke on Medium. "

Ah, I was under the assumption that tinder had supplied the data itself for % of swipes. Not much of a statistic if a guys taking a guess.

Although it wouldn’t surprise me if a very small number of guys get most of the swipes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

All down to numbers!.. and if more single women realised that you wouldn't get the entitled, diva, rude and arrogant attitudes on here

Could I have some example of women being like this?

And before anyone jumps on me as I said already on this post there are a hell of a lot of decent women on here as well thank goodness. "

Thank you. I haven't taken up invites to women's groups for this reason.

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over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!

Have you read that study? I have. It's bunkum.

I didn’t, I wouldn’t assume a statistic needs a study. We’re the numbers wrong?

It wasn't a study, it was some bloke on Medium.

Ah, I was under the assumption that tinder had supplied the data itself for % of swipes. Not much of a statistic if a guys taking a guess.

Although it wouldn’t surprise me if a very small number of guys get most of the swipes. "

Not the article that was cited to me - it was one bloke and his "research".

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

Agreed! Plus the amount of women that have no standards makes it harder for those that do"

Your standards may be way different to mine. That doesn't mean yours are lower, it just means I'm not attracted to the kind of men you are.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!"

They're probably the fake profiles.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Define "enjoyable time"

I spend the majority of my time rolling my eyes and wondering how men (some, not all) have the audacity...

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule."

I'd be surprised if that is the case! We're very average if we're honest and seem to do very well indeed!

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

I'd be surprised if that is the case! We're very average if we're honest and seem to do very well indeed!"

And before anyone asks, "very well" is a relative term. What's very well for one might not be for another

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

"Yes we have more options but that doesn't necessarily mean more fun. I've had more shit than good times on here.

This. I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. More messages and more choices doesn't mean more meets or more fun.

By rough patch, do you mean a hard time or just struggling to find what you are looking for? x

Struggling to find what I'm looking for.

U2 ?

You've no idea, people think it's easy for women but I have climbed highest mountains, I have run through the fields... "

Only to be with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!

Have you read that study? I have. It's bunkum.

I didn’t, I wouldn’t assume a statistic needs a study. We’re the numbers wrong?

It wasn't a study, it was some bloke on Medium.

Ah, I was under the assumption that tinder had supplied the data itself for % of swipes. Not much of a statistic if a guys taking a guess.

Although it wouldn’t surprise me if a very small number of guys get most of the swipes.

Not the article that was cited to me - it was one bloke and his "research". "

I cited one of many such pieces of research. It's a well known and well documented fact. It's been tested in labs, on dating sites etc etc.

I have no idea why some choose to get upset over what is in fact reality.

It's called hegemony. It's a well documented phenomena that's been known about for decades in the sciences and centuries in society. Women have when possible always dated/married upwards. They select men for looks and resources to guarantee the survival of offspring.

As such they tend to pick the same top 20 percent of men. You can argue about it as much as want. You can get as offended about it as you want. It won't change anything.

You can cite as many personal experiences as you want too. The plural of anecdote isn't evidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!

They're probably the fake profiles."

No it wasn't disproved. Its been studied on tinder, bumble, badoo and any number of other dating sites. I don't know why some women here are getting so upset about it. They can pick and choose and generally get what they want. So no idea why that's considered to be so detrimental.

Makes no sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Same reason they do on dating sites.

Over abundance of average men. Women pick only the top 20 percent and consider the rest below average.

Forgot to add. 80 percent of the women pick that same 20 percent of men.

It's the old 80/20 rule.

Still citing the same rubbish "research" I see.

Still living in your head rent free I see.

I think it speaks volumes that you never returned to the thread where I debunked your "evidence".

Did that end up being rubbish? I’ve seen it stated from a tinder study that 20% of the men are getting 80% of the swipes. Makes sense to me, was that disproved?!

They're probably the fake profiles.

Makes no sense to me."

So cite an actual study then. Last time you brought this up and I asked for evidence you provided a link to an article on Medium by a bloke called "worst-online-dater". You did this to justify some pretty unpleasant things you said about women so this is why I am objecting now. Happy to read proper evidence supporting your views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Those women not having an enjoyable time don't complain about it in the forum endlessly..."

Not convinced this is true. There are any number of threads from women complaining about their bad experiences on here. Hard to quantify as a) I'm not being meticulous in counting, b) it's difficult to adjust for sample size and c, there's a subjective evaluation to be made about the merits of complaining about (for example) abusive messages verses blocked without response.

To suggest there are no threads from women complaining about their experience on here suggests a somewhat blinkered viewpoint. To label individual threads from different men as "complaining endlessly" suggests an inability to distinguish between individuals and arbitrary groupings of people

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"Why do single women seem to have a much more enjoyable time on here compared to single guys?

Those women not having an enjoyable time don't complain about it in the forum endlessly...

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I didn't say no threads from women. But on the topic of meeting people - yes it seems to me (without counting) that there are endless threads by men complaining that they can't meet people, that it's not working etc.

Women rarely complain about that, they mention men's behaviour. The dick pics, the gross statuses, the messages. If they're struggling to meet people here, if they feel the site isn't working for them - I haven't seen a thread by a woman on that topic. Thus this thread assuming that women are all having a whale of a time meeting men daily. Some women are. Some women are finding Fab just as hard going as men do. We could even (gasp) have some empathy for each other.

I am not saying anything different that hasn't been said before - the experience is different for the sexes. I made a facetious off the cuff comment because this week men complaining about not meeting got on my wick. No doubt there are times that repetitive threads by women get on men's wicks.

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