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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people say they're "non-smokers" in their profile if they actually smoke?

The amount of meets I have had where the person walks in smelling (and tasting) like cigarettes.

I don't want to kiss someone who's just been puffing away, and it makes cum taste vile. Just my personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve just described my last meet, it was so off putting blurgh

I know there’s such thing as considerate smokers but honestly, if you’ve had one that day, a non smoker will probably be able to tell once you start getting physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve just described my last meet, it was so off putting blurgh

I know there’s such thing as considerate smokers but honestly, if you’ve had one that day, a non smoker will probably be able to tell once you start getting physical."

I'd say it's because a lot of people have on their profile that they won't meet smokers, and that decision should be respected, as a smoker that's the first thing that I look when I go to a profile and if I see they won't meet smokers I just leave the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This old penny, turns up every so often.

It's the same as fibbing about their age, height, body type, being attached, can accommodate when they cant blah blah blah.

If it really bothered you that much, you should just turn them down there and then. They'd soon get the message.

I'm a nicotine addict but I dont "smoke" I have a device that is similar to smoking but its technically not smoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smoke and refuse to be shamed for it people need to have more balls about this kind of thing

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Happen to me on numerous occasions but I don’t suffer fools, I end it there and then. Vile habit imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get to see their sucking technique….

I don’t smoke, I’d prefer others not to smoke around me but it doesn’t bother me. I once was addicted to the death stick!

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Its a persons preference. As an ex smoker/vaper it doesnt bother me but my gosh it stinks. When you smoke you just dont realise how much it smells and lingers on your clothes etc

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

They do it to broaden their chances of getting a meet.. But if they lie about a little thing like that, what else are they lying about?

I smoke and make it clear and don't respond to messages from people who contact me but have, won't meet smokers on the profile.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Over 50% of people I’ve met on here are “non-smokers” who smoke. Just be honest! I smoke every now and then. No chance someone would know but I still have it on there.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

^ she's smokin'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will only meet nonsmokers. We have turned down a few meets because of it, one couple that both said they smoked, said that they did not smoke anymore.

It's just preference, when you have lost a loved one through smoking-related illness, you think that bit harder.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I smoke and refuse to be shamed for it people need to have more balls about this kind of thing "

I don't think you should be shamed at all it's personal choice. But there are people out there who say they don't smoke when in fact they do and if someone's preference is non smokers them this is unpleasant to encounter. So I agree with your balls comment!

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

i smoke, and am honest about it, if you dont want to meet me because i smoke, then fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people say they're "non-smokers" in their profile if they actually smoke?

The amount of meets I have had where the person walks in smelling (and tasting) like cigarettes.

I don't want to kiss someone who's just been puffing away, and it makes cum taste vile. Just my personal preference"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse smell and taste ever

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"We will only meet nonsmokers. We have turned down a few meets because of it, one couple that both said they smoked, said that they did not smoke anymore.

It's just preference, when you have lost a loved one through smoking-related illness, you think that bit harder."

It’s an an interesting point you make, but to play devils advocate, would you still meet a driver if a loved one died in a car crash?

I don’t like the smell of smokers and yes, even after you’ve had a spray and sucked a mint, I can tell a mile away.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I quit smoking a couple of years ago, and now I'm living by myself with no friends in my vicinity I seem to have started back up again, i just haven't updated my profile. Not that I'm really meeting people mind.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Why do they do it?

Because they think that meeting them and them meeting you is more valuable than your freedom of choice.

My ex smoked (much more than me) and had non smoker on his single profile. When I questioned him about it his reasoning was that he had given up previously and not bothered changing it back.

He had a meet with a lady he had met before who I knew full well did not want to meet smokers and was incredibly vocal about her choice. Me and him got into a discussion over it as, in my eyes, he was lying and manipulating her into meeting by not being forthcoming with the truth and allowing her to make an informed decision. As far as he was concerned as long as he was clean and fresh, didn't smoke for a few hours before and during the meet, everyone would be happy and content. He really couldn't see the deception in what he was doing (or didn't care)

This was a lady he told me he respected massively too, and that upset me. I think that's probably why he didn't tell me who it was until after the meet coz he knew I respect her too and probably (correctly) thought I'd contact her to tell her he smoked and allow her to have the final say based on the truth.

Sickens me when people think others choices don't matter or apply to them. You ain't a god mate and regardless of how good the sex may be what you view as something little (being a smoker) can be incredibly important to someone else. How dare anyone decide for someone else what they should find important.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"They do it to broaden their chances of getting a meet.. But if they lie about a little thing like that, what else are they lying about?

I smoke and make it clear and don't respond to messages from people who contact me but have, won't meet smokers on the profile. "

Mine lied about being separated for 18 months before we spoke, when in fact he had been cheating on his wife for years and continued to do so until I found out the truth and got rid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This old penny, turns up every so often.

It's the same as fibbing about their age, height, body type, being attached, can accommodate when they cant blah blah blah.

If it really bothered you that much, you should just turn them down there and then. They'd soon get the message.

I'm a nicotine addict but I dont "smoke" I have a device that is similar to smoking but its technically not smoking

Like anything this and other platforms are flooded with people yet again. Dumping what they can they go along.

Sure there are good ones about. If it was all fine. Would there be so many diverse posts up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We will only meet nonsmokers. We have turned down a few meets because of it, one couple that both said they smoked, said that they did not smoke anymore.

It's just preference, when you have lost a loved one through smoking-related illness, you think that bit harder.

It’s an an interesting point you make, but to play devils advocate, would you still meet a driver if a loved one died in a car crash?

I don’t like the smell of smokers and yes, even after you’ve had a spray and sucked a mint, I can tell a mile away."

I think there is a different context in that. I have lost a loved one in that way. (killed riding out the test centre after passing his bike test) Smoking, on the whole, stinks and is a huge put off. It gets engrained into hair, skin, and clothes. Everyone is free to smoke, I think the point is just own it and be honest.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Why do people say they're "non-smokers" in their profile if they actually smoke?

The amount of meets I have had where the person walks in smelling (and tasting) like cigarettes.

I don't want to kiss someone who's just been puffing away, and it makes cum taste vile. Just my personal preference"

They want what they want and they see your preferences as an impediment.

Same as anyone else lying.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm a ex smoker now and I don't see why people lie, maybe because people are judged for being smokers.

Also I was told by non smokers when I was a smoker that my cum always tasted nice and still does not I don't smoke. Think it's more diet than smoking making it taste bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm an ex smoker so I guess that is why I am put off more? I'm happy for people to smoke or vape or do drugs etc as long as it isn't around me.

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