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"Our most recent pic of L is with lip fillers . She hadn’t had them done for a while after a bad experience, there still swollen in the pic but will go down. We’re both happy with the results this time." They look good. | |||
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"Looks dreadful " Do you say that when they’re wrapped round your bell? | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better." It's not shaming if you say I like or dislike something. Can't we have an opinion on anything on here without being called body shamers. If people say I love a huge arse and others say I don't I like a little flat one, is that shaming anyone? | |||
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"Our most recent pic of L is with lip fillers . She hadn’t had them done for a while after a bad experience, there still swollen in the pic but will go down. We’re both happy with the results this time." They look amazing! I would love to try it, just too scared of it going wrong and being forever painful | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better." | |||
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"Our most recent pic of L is with lip fillers . She hadn’t had them done for a while after a bad experience, there still swollen in the pic but will go down. We’re both happy with the results this time. They look amazing! I would love to try it, just too scared of it going wrong and being forever painful " The first time they were done by a beautician and wasn’t great they were lumpy and ended up having them dissolved by a cosmetic surgeon. This time went to a registered nurse who’s been doing lip fillers for years. | |||
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"Each to their own. " Exactly. So long as we’re not asked to pay for them, kiss them or pay them any service then who are we to judge if so_eone wants to look like Donald duck? | |||
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"Each to their own Their body, their choice …" True, but plenty of people have made poor and expensive choices about cosmetic surgery. It's a fact that some (many?) people don't think lip fillers look great and maybe reading a range of views could help inform so_eone's choices ? I personally don't think it's body shaming unless aimed at an individual. | |||
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"Their body, their choice." | |||
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"Is anyone else not a fan of these? I mean you can get subtle ones that look ok, but ones that look like two Pringles in a mouth shaped like a ducks bill are too much. Your thoughts?" Hate them. They are never subtle. Look like they've taken a couple of bee stings to the lips. I've never understood it myself. Why a woman wants to look like a blow up doll is beyond me. | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better." Body shaming is when you shame something they can't change about themselves. This is the complete opposite of that. We are allowed an opinion on such things you know. | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better. Body shaming is when you shame something they can't change about themselves. This is the complete opposite of that. We are allowed an opinion on such things you know." You can have an opinion without insulting so_eone’s looks. | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better. Body shaming is when you shame something they can't change about themselves. This is the complete opposite of that. We are allowed an opinion on such things you know. You can have an opinion without insulting so_eone’s looks. " Who's looks did I insult? I don't recall mentioning names. | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better. Body shaming is when you shame something they can't change about themselves. This is the complete opposite of that. We are allowed an opinion on such things you know. You can have an opinion without insulting so_eone’s looks. Who's looks did I insult? I don't recall mentioning names." No you just insulted thousands (maybe more) women’s looks. | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better. Body shaming is when you shame something they can't change about themselves. This is the complete opposite of that. We are allowed an opinion on such things you know. You can have an opinion without insulting so_eone’s looks. Who's looks did I insult? I don't recall mentioning names. No you just insulted thousands (maybe more) women’s looks." And? | |||
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"Is anyone else not a fan of these? I mean you can get subtle ones that look ok, but ones that look like two Pringles in a mouth shaped like a ducks bill are too much. Your thoughts? Hate them. They are never subtle. Look like they've taken a couple of bee stings to the lips. I've never understood it myself. Why a woman wants to look like a blow up doll is beyond me." When they're subtle you can't tell they've had them so how can you say that? Or do you ask every woman you see if they've had them? | |||
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"Is anyone else not a fan of these? I mean you can get subtle ones that look ok, but ones that look like two Pringles in a mouth shaped like a ducks bill are too much. Your thoughts? Hate them. They are never subtle. Look like they've taken a couple of bee stings to the lips. I've never understood it myself. Why a woman wants to look like a blow up doll is beyond me. When they're subtle you can't tell they've had them so how can you say that? Or do you ask every woman you see if they've had them? " Quite correct. I mispoke there. Realised after I'd posted haha. My original oppinion still stands though. Those that have the blow up doll look are still ridiculous to me. | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better. Body shaming is when you shame something they can't change about themselves. This is the complete opposite of that. We are allowed an opinion on such things you know. You can have an opinion without insulting so_eone’s looks. Who's looks did I insult? I don't recall mentioning names. No you just insulted thousands (maybe more) women’s looks. And? " I’m sure you’ve just endeared yourself to all of those women and the others who believe what a woman does with her own body is her choice. Have a nice day buddy. | |||
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"Is anyone else not a fan of these? I mean you can get subtle ones that look ok, but ones that look like two Pringles in a mouth shaped like a ducks bill are too much. Your thoughts? Hate them. They are never subtle. Look like they've taken a couple of bee stings to the lips. I've never understood it myself. Why a woman wants to look like a blow up doll is beyond me. When they're subtle you can't tell they've had them so how can you say that? Or do you ask every woman you see if they've had them? " That’s the plastic surgery paradox in general Great plastic surgery isn’t obvious. That’s why it’s great. How many guys look at stunning girls saying how they prefer natural beauty with no idea she just had a great surgeon | |||
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"Is anyone else not a fan of these? I mean you can get subtle ones that look ok, but ones that look like two Pringles in a mouth shaped like a ducks bill are too much. Your thoughts? Hate them. They are never subtle. Look like they've taken a couple of bee stings to the lips. I've never understood it myself. Why a woman wants to look like a blow up doll is beyond me. When they're subtle you can't tell they've had them so how can you say that? Or do you ask every woman you see if they've had them? That’s the plastic surgery paradox in general Great plastic surgery isn’t obvious. That’s why it’s great. How many guys look at stunning girls saying how they prefer natural beauty with no idea she just had a great surgeon " They often can't even tell when we are or aren't wearing make up, nevermind that. | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better. Body shaming is when you shame something they can't change about themselves. This is the complete opposite of that. We are allowed an opinion on such things you know. You can have an opinion without insulting so_eone’s looks. Who's looks did I insult? I don't recall mentioning names. No you just insulted thousands (maybe more) women’s looks. And? I’m sure you’ve just endeared yourself to all of those women and the others who believe what a woman does with her own body is her choice. Have a nice day buddy." My god some people on this site. Where did I say it's not their choice? Where did I say they couldnt do that? There's a lot of projection going on here. The question was asked what do we think of them. I gave my opinion. I'm sorry you don't like or agree with my opinion. That's up to you. That's your choice. Just as anyone is free to choose to do whatever they want with their body. I'm sure some people would have choice words about my choices in body piercings. The difference is, when so_eone has a negative opinion of those choices, I'd don't bleat on about how they are belittling and insulting anyone that has made the same choices as me. Jesus. Get over yourselves. | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better. Body shaming is when you shame something they can't change about themselves. This is the complete opposite of that. We are allowed an opinion on such things you know. You can have an opinion without insulting so_eone’s looks. Who's looks did I insult? I don't recall mentioning names. No you just insulted thousands (maybe more) women’s looks." Insulting 1000s That’ll cut down on the wasted trees come Christmas card time then. So threads that ask opinions on things that concern looks? Should they be banned, or the rules set to only ‘say nice things’ - should people lie if asked if they like something superficial and cosmetic? Should the people who have them care what others think? - I’d say no. Their body their choice. Should those who like them care what those who don’t think? No, I expect not! And voce verse. Or are we all now forced to like everything?…. I hope not. Like them, don’t like them, have them or not. Who really gives a shit anyway?! Only people it really benefits is the people who make money pushing the needle. | |||
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"People's choice and I don't like these threads, it's body shaming. Don't make people feel bad about something they do to make theirselves feel better. Body shaming is when you shame something they can't change about themselves. This is the complete opposite of that. We are allowed an opinion on such things you know." Yes, and we're also allowed opinions on people's... charming opinions. Free speech includes reacting to free speech. | |||
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"Decisions about cosmetic surgery don't take place in a vacuum of personal choice, they are hugely influenced by peer and media pressure with a billion dollar industry backing that up. An honest discussion about the pros and cons seems like a good idea to me." Certainly. I do feel often the commentary on it goes "well you're obviously weak for falling for societal pressure, I'm better than you, plus I think it's ugly". (I'm talking in general terms) There's almost a snobbery about it? Social pressures are powerful, and we all succumb in one way or another. I think everyone is entitled to their opinions on it - I certainly have my own - but I think it can take on a superior bullying tone. I have much stronger opinions on that tone than any cosmetic procedures. | |||
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"I do worry about the women that have so much work done they all start to look the same .I’m no therapist but I think some of these woman might need to talk to so_eone rather than keep on having work done . " I don't know the ins and outs, but I think professional oversight should be a part of the deal with procedures. | |||
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"I do worry about the women that have so much work done they all start to look the same .I’m no therapist but I think some of these woman might need to talk to so_eone rather than keep on having work done . " Lots of people want to look the same as everyone else though. It's always been so, it's just now instead of wearing the same clothes, shoes, make up and hairstyles they can alter their faces to look the same too. I don't think therapy is needed in most cases but I do think that stricter regulation of practitioners would be a good thing. What qualifications are required and are there restrictions on where you can buy the filler? | |||
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"I do worry about the women that have so much work done they all start to look the same .I’m no therapist but I think some of these woman might need to talk to so_eone rather than keep on having work done . Lots of people want to look the same as everyone else though. It's always been so, it's just now instead of wearing the same clothes, shoes, make up and hairstyles they can alter their faces to look the same too. I don't think therapy is needed in most cases but I do think that stricter regulation of practitioners would be a good thing. What qualifications are required and are there restrictions on where you can buy the filler? " Yes. I think I'd rather focus on the practitioners than the people seeking it out. Wanting to fit in is a normal desire. | |||
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"I do worry about the women that have so much work done they all start to look the same .I’m no therapist but I think some of these woman might need to talk to so_eone rather than keep on having work done . Lots of people want to look the same as everyone else though. It's always been so, it's just now instead of wearing the same clothes, shoes, make up and hairstyles they can alter their faces to look the same too. I don't think therapy is needed in most cases but I do think that stricter regulation of practitioners would be a good thing. What qualifications are required and are there restrictions on where you can buy the filler? Yes. I think I'd rather focus on the practitioners than the people seeking it out. Wanting to fit in is a normal desire." Presumably medical training is needed for these injections. Or can a glorified hairdresser apply them? | |||
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"I do worry about the women that have so much work done they all start to look the same .I’m no therapist but I think some of these woman might need to talk to so_eone rather than keep on having work done . Lots of people want to look the same as everyone else though. It's always been so, it's just now instead of wearing the same clothes, shoes, make up and hairstyles they can alter their faces to look the same too. I don't think therapy is needed in most cases but I do think that stricter regulation of practitioners would be a good thing. What qualifications are required and are there restrictions on where you can buy the filler? Yes. I think I'd rather focus on the practitioners than the people seeking it out. Wanting to fit in is a normal desire. Presumably medical training is needed for these injections. Or can a glorified hairdresser apply them? " In the UK, I think closer to the latter | |||
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"I do worry about the women that have so much work done they all start to look the same .I’m no therapist but I think some of these woman might need to talk to so_eone rather than keep on having work done . Lots of people want to look the same as everyone else though. It's always been so, it's just now instead of wearing the same clothes, shoes, make up and hairstyles they can alter their faces to look the same too. I don't think therapy is needed in most cases but I do think that stricter regulation of practitioners would be a good thing. What qualifications are required and are there restrictions on where you can buy the filler? Yes. I think I'd rather focus on the practitioners than the people seeking it out. Wanting to fit in is a normal desire. Presumably medical training is needed for these injections. Or can a glorified hairdresser apply them? " I just looked at some courses, they list qualifications required as doctor, surgeon etc also NVQ level three beauty therapy. | |||
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"I’m with the OP, not a fan of it, I think it looks awful. Having said that, all individuals get to make their own choices about their body. So, in short, I support the rights of women to alter their image with lip fillers, I support my right to say they look like Donald Duck" You’re quackers you are. | |||
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"I’m with the OP, not a fan of it, I think it looks awful. Having said that, all individuals get to make their own choices about their body. So, in short, I support the rights of women to alter their image with lip fillers, I support my right to say they look like Donald Duck You’re quackers you are. " Indeed Mr Soze - Bob | |||
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"Is anyone else not a fan of these? I mean you can get subtle ones that look ok, but ones that look like two Pringles in a mouth shaped like a ducks bill are too much. Your thoughts?" Body shaming bullshit one of them things you have no right comment on... | |||
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"I am not sure body shaming is a thing unless its intended as an insult. Surely people can state their preference. Saying you prefer natural boobs to fake boobs is not body shaming .. imo" Christ, Im agreeing with Essex Tom. The world must be about to end | |||
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"I do worry about the women that have so much work done they all start to look the same .I’m no therapist but I think some of these woman might need to talk to so_eone rather than keep on having work done . Lots of people want to look the same as everyone else though. It's always been so, it's just now instead of wearing the same clothes, shoes, make up and hairstyles they can alter their faces to look the same too. I don't think therapy is needed in most cases but I do think that stricter regulation of practitioners would be a good thing. What qualifications are required and are there restrictions on where you can buy the filler? Yes. I think I'd rather focus on the practitioners than the people seeking it out. Wanting to fit in is a normal desire. Presumably medical training is needed for these injections. Or can a glorified hairdresser apply them? I just looked at some courses, they list qualifications required as doctor, surgeon etc also NVQ level three beauty therapy. " There’s plenty of beauticians doing them out of their kitchen with no qualifications on the cheap | |||
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"I am not sure body shaming is a thing unless its intended as an insult. Surely people can state their preference. Saying you prefer natural boobs to fake boobs is not body shaming .. imo Christ, Im agreeing with Essex Tom. The world must be about to end " Essex Tom is one voice of reason... | |||
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"I got wonky lips, if I knew it would give me lovely plump even lips and I had the funds floating I'd get them done. Alas, I have neither the money nor the guarantee so my lippers shall remain wonky and slender. I do worry for people when it seemingly becomes an addiction of sorts. " That tongue is amazing | |||
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