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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Once you have made a decision, how many times do you question it...

From Trivial to Momental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I've made it, never. Decision made, make the best of it. But later on I often reflect on good or bad decisions and their consequences, although I probably keep making my share of bad ones!

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Once I've made it, never. Decision made, make the best of it. But later on I often reflect on good or bad decisions and their consequences, although I probably keep making my share of bad ones!"

Do you learn from the ones you regret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once I've made it, never. Decision made, make the best of it. But later on I often reflect on good or bad decisions and their consequences, although I probably keep making my share of bad ones!

Do you learn from the ones you regret "

Probably not tbh, unless it's the identical circumstances to a previous decision. I also feel how we implement a decision can be as important as the decision itself.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Rarely. I’m very black and white with decisions.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Rarely. I’m very black and white with decisions. "

Same as your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have. Once decision made, I just get on with it and don’t look back or at alternatives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make the decision and go with it... if its the wrong one only time will tell in the end

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Once I've made it, never. Decision made, make the best of it. But later on I often reflect on good or bad decisions and their consequences, although I probably keep making my share of bad ones!

Do you learn from the ones you regret

Probably not tbh, unless it's the identical circumstances to a previous decision. I also feel how we implement a decision can be as important as the decision itself."

I do this arse about face very frequently, envisioning whether I want to implement the decision before finally committing to making it

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Constantly. In the words of Winston Churchill: "however beautiful the strategy, you should occasionally look at the results."

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Constantly. I avoid decisions as much as humanly possible and then question myself.

But then I get to a "fuck it, it's done" moment.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Only if it appears to be a wrong decision. Gotta stay flexible!

My mantra has always been ... "When a decision is essential, choosing to make no decision is 100% wrong"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can flip flop after thinking about making a decision but once I've made it, I usually stick to my guns. I don't really regret any decisions because whatever the outcome, it was right for me at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you have made a decision, how many times do you question it...

From Trivial to Momental "

I'm decisive and I've got to be honest here I've never regretted any major decision I've ever made .

By major I mean life changing I.e changing jobs , giving up work and becoming my own boss , running my own business , buying a house .

In all cases I have felt a new lease of life after making the decision and then making it work .

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Before I send a message, often. Will they be interested? Am I punching above my weight?

Everything else, I just go with the gut x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer, not exaggerated, I’d say about 15-20 times. And about 5/6 times I would ask people if it’s the right thing to do in their opinion.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Once the decision is made , there's no way back

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I am a massive over thinker about everything!!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm fairly decisive. It may take some consideration to get to the decision but once there it's made.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Always. ALWAYS ALWAYS. I hate myself for that sometimes.

I am the kind of person who order a main and when the food comes, I want to eat other people’s food, not what I chose!

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I have changed my mind now on what I was going to post.....

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Once I've made my mind up about something, it's very rare that I change my decision.

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I have changed my mind now on what I was going to post....."

Was it regarding sausage rolls Ash...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few

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