FabSwingers.com forum: What was you unprepared for when you moved out of your parents house

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Good Saturday evening one and all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life

I had no choice too - it’s not a nice transition for some

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The cost of everything; I really feel for young people today, particularly the exponentially rising cost of living-everything.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

The past tense

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Very little. I had been the only man in the house and the main bread winner from the age of 21 so there wasn't a lot I hadn't already experienced apart from sex of course

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

The quiet, and loneliness. Didn't last long as I moved the now husband in less than 2 months later

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

How much I would miss my parents. And we didn’t move far

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cooking ! I used to buy ingredients and then call mum daily on what to do with them and how long for, meats especially as they weren’t marked up as they are now.

Had a few disasters, but used to love the one pot successes

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Being so poor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The price of cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How quick fruit and veg go off when you buy it for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually how much I'd miss my mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically everything. At 16 I had no idea what the world was going to throw at me. Fortunately I joined a much bigger family that looked after me for the next 16 years

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I was pretty well prepared for everything but the freedom. My goodness how I took advantage of that at 18 in a university town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most things esp as I also moved country

After a year went home for another six years

Was right decision to go back home but not sure if was right to move back in

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

How unnecessary ironing is

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Really felt like a new world from the one i was living till that day! I remember i cried so so much,it was a big shock come on contact with society, was not easy at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the fridge doesn’t fill itself

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

The freedom and happiness.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Prostitutes

I moved to Amsterdam to train as a chef. straight off the mother's tit and my back garden went up to a knocking shop,,

I ended up feeding some very cool ladies on the back steps during their smoke breaks and in turn got some serious life education at 19 years old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went into care system at 12 so I was unprepared for everything.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"How unnecessary ironing is"

This

Moving out wasn't really a huge shock to the system.

Nita

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Having to wait till the weekends to get your laundry washed for you

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"How unnecessary ironing is

This

Moving out wasn't really a huge shock to the system.

Nita"

My mum used to go crazy over the ironing, I often had to do it at home for me, my parents and 3 brother because “it’s what I would need to do for my husband and children.”

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By *ampshire_guy40Man
over a year ago

hampshire

Being lonely and the bills plus I had no say in the Matter of moving out as my brother put the house up for sale a day after my mum passed away even though my parents strictly told him if anything happened under no circumstances is the house to be sold and it's to be left to me.i don't talk to him anymore

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

The cleaning.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Nothing really. We got on just fine. We were 18 and our my son was 2.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The utter relief. I had no idea how awful it actually was until I left.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

The cooking

Started my love of eating out then

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Fifty years late I'd move back in ..to look after mum

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"The utter relief. I had no idea how awful it actually was until I left."

Totally agree.

I was able to look back and go, "WTF?!"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

How badly I missed home

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"How unnecessary ironing is

This

Moving out wasn't really a huge shock to the system.

Nita

My mum used to go crazy over the ironing, I often had to do it at home for me, my parents and 3 brother because “it’s what I would need to do for my husband and children.”

Same. My mother had me ironing all afternoon on the day I gave birth to my son. It was a boiling hot August day, my feet were massively swollen and I had terrible backache. But I was expected to do everyone's ironing. By the way, I was 16. Fucking hated it. I still hate ironing and a few other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ... definitely garden maintenance! And chores like hoovering, cleaning the windows ect, i remember it was home then chores im a clean freak so found if i wipped the hoover round every other night i didnt need to do it at the weekend. And if i cleaned the kitchen and bathroom on the days i didnt hoover it also freed my weekend up... yes chores!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Nothing, I bought it and stayed put.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Washing! Didn't have a washing machine for about a year, so still took my dirty washing home each week and collected the now clean stuff i dropped off previously...luckily i have a fucking awesome mother!

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

i got kicked out, i have fk all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BILLS

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

The amount of Bills

All I initially thought had to pay was rent lol what a rude wake up call when they Bill's letters flooded in

1)Didn't know gas & electric where 2 different bills

2) I thought water was free haha

3) And don't mention bloody council tax

Quickly realised had to upgrade jobs quicker, win the lottery or Rob a bank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bills!! I had it so good and cheap living at home. Took that for granted, wish I could move back now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to pay bills

How to cook

How to budget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much I enjoyed trying to stifle my orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was an easy transition, did not grow up with my Mum around and Dad worked long hours....As I got older I was budgeting a household, cooking and cleaning. And despite being the youngest of two brothers I was keeping everything in line and on track, my Dad relied on me, we were a team

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

How life had been so well held together for me and suddenly it was complicated

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

The freedom to stay up late and party until the wee hours.

The downside was the cleaning and chores, but between my housemate and I, we chipped in to get cleaners.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The ex wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being baffled by washing machines

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

How fast I needed to grow up ,,,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The horror of putting together flat pack furniture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasnt ready but such is life. Make the best of what you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realising how much I actually love and need my parents x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I was well trained so no real suprises. It's amazing how quick you can get into a daily routine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding out how expensive everything was/is & I used to moan about giving my mother £20 a week lodge I wish I could go back to them days now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The relief. Able to go do my own thing without being moaned at

Maybe I did go out too much as five years later I lost the house

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nothing, I moved out at 18 and was more than ready. I'd have gone sooner if I could.

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