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getting jiggy with the lights on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So do you go for mood lighting?

I hate it with full light...its like having sex in an operating room!

or do you prefer a dark room with touch as the only option for exploring?

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I'm a candle girl (to light the room, lol)...but more than happy to have the sun behind the curtains too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

glad you added the note in bracketts...that could of been a whole new thread lol

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Oh yes indeed.....candles...how do you use yours...hee hee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candles for me too ... though I do find sex in the dark really horny ... it's the not knowing what's coming next

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Candles for me too ... though I do find sex in the dark really horny ... it's the not knowing what's coming next "

I have a blindfold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that the bathroom lights in travel lodges provide great mood lighting xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

or just the tv on the music channel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Candles for me too ... though I do find sex in the dark really horny ... it's the not knowing what's coming next

I have a blindfold "

Oh yes that would work

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"I find that the bathroom lights in travel lodges provide great mood lighting xx "

well I think you may be right...theoretically at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately dim lighting for us .... it's horny and sensual and puts us in the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definately dim lighting for us .... it's horny and sensual and puts us in the mood "

Dim works for us too.. The lights can be up or down..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definately dim lighting for us .... it's horny and sensual and puts us in the mood

Dim works for us too.. The lights can be up or down..

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Oi! who's dim lol .... low lights then

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I usually use candles but this week bought some coloured xmas lights and put them in a large glass vase, they create a lovely warm glow in the bedroom mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually use candles but this week bought some coloured xmas lights and put them in a large glass vase, they create a lovely warm glow in the bedroom mmmmmm "

Did that a while back with some chilli lights... Sets the mood very well, wanna come see?? Mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Les usually lights up any room when she walks in

(its a bloody pain being with a pyromaniac at times) xx

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By *acuzziFlooziesCouple
over a year ago

Kent to Surrey

mood lighting is definitely the most flattering ... total darkness lets you concentrate just on how things feel though, which can be very erotic

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Candles can make things kinda hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Candles can make things kinda hot "

psssst , you're standing too close to them then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first I was sat here thinking that I really don't pay much attention to the lighting but now I think more about it, 'daylight with curtains open' fun tends to be quick and spur of the moment.

Low lighting or complete darkness sparks images of passion, mystery, prolonged pleasure and feeling relaxed so I'm definately thinking that either of these are my preference.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Candles can make things kinda hot

psssst , you're standing too close to them then "

Damn, thats where i was going wrong.....love the feel of hot wax tho....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Candles can make things kinda hot

psssst , you're standing too close to them then

Damn, thats where i was going wrong.....love the feel of hot wax tho...."

*** ANOTHER tick in my little black book ***

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Candles can make things kinda hot

psssst , you're standing too close to them then

Damn, thats where i was going wrong.....love the feel of hot wax tho....

*** ANOTHER tick in my little black book *** "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, low lighting definitely has a certain atmosphere/mood about it.

Scented candles though give a special effect, imho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being able to see the lightbulbs in most light fittings, and would go for dim lighting or scented candles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the lights on (not spotlight), since part of the thrill for us is to watch our partner with the other person having fun

Hence we need to pick 'lights on' friendly couples

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